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  1. Fruitbat

    Weight - to any guys who are a bit heavy

    My dudes, I said I had gone but youI couldn’t keep away! I posted probably about a year ago about libido plummeting in late 30s. I was also very overweight. The doctor tested my T and it was in range. A lot here said weight is a big factor. Well, I lost near 30lb and boy, is it back! I...
  2. Fruitbat

    Fruitkitten

    Howdy Folks, i joined this forum following a personal tragedy which included a divorce- self instigated. I came here to sharpen the saw with my dating game and also let off steam. I never made any pretences - I’m not a casanova, I’ve had a respectable history, but I wasn’t here to “bang...
  3. Fruitbat

    Pain and gender

    Howdy folks and a happy Xmas and NY. Just would like to share some musings on something I’ve observed. sadly, I have a pretty serious incurable disease (don’t worry, it’s an arthritic one so I’m not going to die anytime soon). The main symptoms are pain/stiffness/fatigue/a host of other weird...
  4. Fruitbat

    Fussy

    My wife isn’t actually that bad at this but has her moments. Why are almost women extremely fussy esp with food? Im sure some of you may recognise picking up something from the supermarket, like brown bread or something and being told “no! Not that type I meant this “insert obscure type of...
  5. Fruitbat

    The problem with DJs

    Contentious post, but I’ve known a couple of successful - very successful Casanovas in my life. Self-admittedly far more successful than me. I estimate prior to getting married for the 2nd time, perhaps 30-40 in my life. I knew a few guys doing that in a year. Not just having the looks...
  6. Fruitbat

    Anyone here teetotal

    Or near teetotal? I tend to binge to the extreme when I’ve had more than say 3 pints. I had 72 units over 2 days this weekend. I rarely drink but when I do, it’s usually a whole weekend of alcohol orgy. I know I am abnormal. I’d like to just have one with food, and perhaps only get drunk...
  7. Fruitbat

    Social competition

    I have middle class and working class friends. Whenever I meet the MC friends, most of them discuss things in a socially competitive way. It’s constant “this is what I’ve achieved, doing, how much I have” etc. Always dropping things in out of context. i do ok for myself and I’ve never felt...
  8. Fruitbat

    Why Men are important

    2 things happened recently which brought home why we are important and what qualities we bring and how masculinity is important. My wife is pregnant and we went to a pre-natal appointment. We had to wait a long, long time. My wife currently is puking off morning sickness and generally in...
  9. Fruitbat

    Crypto

    Hi, I am building a small weighting into crypto as part of my long term savings. I have bought some crypto on wirex exchange. Only a small amount as a test. I have ripple and bitcoin but will add a range of others. Under the details of my holdings, I have a key (which I presume is my...
  10. Fruitbat

    Pup

    Sorry, this is a completely self absorbed post, but your very own fruitbat, the man who was on his ass a few years ago, crying about being single, now has a fruitpup on the way. Just super stoked. Goodbye life, hello life after death To the good ones amongst you, some of your advice...
  11. Fruitbat

    Why not being alpha isn’t a problem...

    So, all the chaps I would consider “alpha” I see from my school.... Nearly all of them I see are married to women who bagged them in early 20s. I see their profiles and see the old woman next to them. I’m most definitely a sigma male. Not a beta butt kisser, most people who’ve known me...
  12. Fruitbat

    Do women like unattractive men?

    Right so I’m not rich. My net worth is about £120,000 or $190,000. I have a fine woman. I also had an offer from s woman who I would consider major league tonight. I am 235 lb and 6 foot 2 but not buff - quite fat. Is money the only real determinator of male Worth ? I was buff as hell at...
  13. Fruitbat

    Hairy Mary

    So, is a man within his rights to expect a woman to trim her “sanctuary”? Said woman comes from a culture where this is not practiced and seen as unlucky if you trim it!! She has tried the razor and it gave her spots and skin issues. I don’t expect p0rn completely shaven, just not...
  14. Fruitbat

    Constructive Discussions

    Yo, Really been struggling with this one. My other half is often disappointed with life and whinges about things (as women do) from time to time. She wants a better job and more social life etc. So, I sit down and calmly discuss how I can help her. Generally, she jumps around from idea to...
  15. Fruitbat

    Class and Crazy

    Just note that from a “crazy” perspective, middle class women are a league above working class. Don’t get me wrong, there are some freakish women in the WC. Just on average, the ones who go crazy in their 30s and divorce and get a toy boy - usually MC. The ones I’ve dated who have some...
  16. Fruitbat

    A little tale which says a lot

    Just something which may amuse. I have been hitting the gym trying to shed some of the 40 pounds or so I need to get back to fighting weight. So yes, I’m a bit flabby. I’m a big guy anyway so 40lb might not be what it would be on you, but anyhow, I am not at my best. I’m also approaching...
  17. Fruitbat

    Question on divorce

    ok so don’t envisage anything - we are happily married and my wife’s culture sees divorce as a terrible thing and she often worries about me “going off with a younger woman when I’m older” Lol. Quite funny as an older spouse who is a breadwinner to have my much younger and poorer wife be the...
  18. Fruitbat

    Air please - SJW encounter

    This is going to sound FVCKING PATHETIC but I had to come here for some air. I am on a mutual interest group online. I got debating on a trump policy (I’m not even American) and got hounded on by a group of university SJW. I’ve never known anything like this. They were trawling my profile...
  19. Fruitbat

    DIY health scan

    I live in UK and our healthcare is NHS. It’s good for when things go wrong but you get no check ups, scans or blood tests routinely. They kind of wait for things to go wrong and patch you up. So, my Asian wife thinks this is insane and they often pay for a test. Issue is here, a full check...
  20. Fruitbat

    Weird question about Americans

    Hank shrader from breaking bad. Joe Rogan. These skull shapes and teeth don’t exist in Europe. What is it with these US men? It’s pretty alpha but men like that don’t exist in Europe. I’m interested to see where this type of look originates from. Take a look at either of these two...
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