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    Being a hero

    I had a similar "problem" let me say a few years back except there were no kids involved. I had an ex cheat on me and branch swung to a new guy. About 6 months into her new "relationship" she contacts me out of the blue telling me how new guy slaps her around and physically harms her when he has...
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    Should single men go for single mommies because they are proven to have at least 1 successful relationship?

    She saw the guy as a winning lottery ticket. She cashed in her winnings then discarded him
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    I was the rebound guy, What can I do now?

    Just move on. Anything from now on would only be a waste of time and waste of breath.
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    "Take out the trash"-type nagging

    She feels the need to remind you even though you are already doing it because it validates her and makes her feel more important than she is. It gives her the sense that she is in charge and talking to her about it is not only pointless and trivial she will see it as point to cause an arguement...
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    What does narcissist do wheb they sense youre physically/emotionally checking out.

    There is no other advice to give on a narcissist, bipolar, bpd, sociopath, or histrionic personality disorder---- other than this -- Any cluster b personality = immediate next. Just don't.
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    Girl I'm seeing called me out for living with parents....

    Relationship is waaaaay to new to get this serious. She pried into your private life and then clammed up when you told her you spotted her trust issues. You never have to explain your private life to a girl you have just started seeing. Never. Your situation is none of her business yet. Your...
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    Woman I am dating is stressed about family issues, effecting when we are together. Options for handling?

    3 months is a very short time for a girl to have your hamster wheel spinning like this. The way i handle it when a girl starts to pull away or get weird or distant is, do your own thing. Let her know you have options and are a busy guy. Heck at 3 month mark she is still a plate. Nothing more...
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    Why Are Foreign Girls so much more friendly?

    Wo Women tend to find men who aren't from their country more interesting. Sometimes is as simple as a language barrier creating a challenge.
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    How to interact with a woman who rejected you?

    I agree with this too. My rule of thumb is never give them any more than 3 minutes of your time, make it known you are busy, and running late getting busy for a date.
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    I banged my friend

    Keep "not giving a sh1t."
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    I banged my friend

    Says she wants to be friends. Says she doesn't want things to get weird. Doesn't want you to get clingy. Smashes you and gets weird and clingy. Scared she will fall for you-- but wants to be friends. This right her is why we reiterate over and over, never ever pay attention to the blah blah...
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    What would you do in this scenario?

    F. Check it before it starts. When they start to hint they want material things, it is a slippery slope. Women will want to compete with each other as to who can spend more of their BF'S money. Stop it before it starts. "Cool. That was too nice of him. I'm so glad you're not shallow and...
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    Nc on a hb9

    Going no contact for a day or 2 isn't going no contact. It is just sulking. Going no contact is total no contact, for the purpose of you healing and getting over her. Ignoring her for a day or two would just cause spite and bad behaviour. If she has options and is a Hb 9 as you say and she...
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    Do I hand my number to busy worker?

    Don't do it when she is busy. Nothing is more unromantic or unappealing than not knowing time and place. Also Ask her for hers. This will help you gauge real interest level and it shows you can take charge and be a man. If when she gives you her number then you know she has interest. If you...
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    Did I handle this Right, Disrespect

    St I agree. Strength and holding your own are positive qualities every one should have and admire in others. Being able to hold your own and standing up for yourself in a real time of need is important. Acting like a child and not letting a person get a word in isn't a sign of strength. It...
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    Did I handle this Right, Disrespect

    I had an ex that would constantly interrupt me. Interrupting is nothing more than a childish struggle for control from a weak mind. So i recomend you stop interrupting her and lead like a man instead. Interrupting her will only make her more combative and do it to you all the more because women...
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    Does dating a single mommy help a man develop as a man?

    Perhaps it will give them that option, but my advice is just don't go there. Single mom = nope.
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    Does dating a single mommy help a man develop as a man?

    I completely agree, a guy who would put up with any of this is weak. As for you knowing women who know their kid is their responsibility and theirs alone, they are rare. My point is i deem single mothers undateable. To me it is a monster red flag if she is a single mother and it will only...
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    Does dating a single mommy help a man develop as a man?

    I think dating single mothers, contributes to an entirely bigger set of problems. 1. It does not do anything for the guy. She will expect you to play dad to her kids when it suits her purpose and she will also remind you "you're not their father," when it doesn't. all it does is deplete his...
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    What you think?

    Dude not answering your question is answering your question. If a chick reads your message that you have sent a specific date and time and leaves it read for days, and doesn't answer then her answer is no. She either doesn't have the guts to answer honestly (most girls don't ) or she is so self...