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  1. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    She replied 3 msgs to my son's phone. One o described above telling him she wasn't going to answer me... Thr other one telling my son I'm not acting normal and to show my msgs to my mother lmao.....she is trying to put my son and mother against me lmao... And yeah she hates my guts big time...
  2. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    Yeah I did too many wrong decisions one after another. I think she is scared of me to be honest. I'm very unpredictable and not in a good way. I think she outs it all together and thinks I could be a threat for her and her daughter.
  3. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    For the dude above who mentioned the rational male, I hate it.. The book isn't great, the author in YouTube seems fake, something is off about him, winter cap, very feminine attitude, doesn't seem like he believes what he preaches. If you wanna read a good book read the 48 laws of power by...
  4. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    My son just boarded the plane with his mother. She picked him up from my parents. He lived with my parents for nearly 7 years. My patents are crying a lot today because he left. He is going with her for holidays. And then fly here in 3 or 4 weeks to live with me. Going to be nice to just start a...
  5. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    She wants nothing to do with me. I know it was bad break up and all. But it had been nearly half a year no contact before I reached out. She really hates me big time. I'm not 100% sure why. I guess she senses my obsession, that I can't let go, that I tried to get a reaction form her through the...
  6. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    This woman is to forget. I really pulled a number on this one lol. I mean if I get this one back I'd be amazed. I'll let the kids to be friends... Being butthurt, bitter, angry, break the kids connection just to get to my ex is no good. Best weapon is silence and indifference.
  7. RicBoy

    Update: ex didn't reply.

    I just wanted to update for the guy who have followed my posts. So after I sent a birthday msg after nearly 5 months no contact I got no reply. My son is moving close to me and to follow the advice on this forum I decided to break the connections between out kids. My son and her daughter her...
  8. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    She is friends with all her exes, I'd say that's indifference. She has me blocked everywhere, didn't say thanks for my birthday msg. Showed up announced to my door 5 months ago, when I opened she said she hates me and despises me.. I don't think that's indifference. But let's see how it rolls. I...
  9. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I'm going to do the following and this is final. When she calls or texts about picking up my kid I'm gonna ignore her. Every 2 to 3 texts she sends ill just reply that me and my son are busy. And will keep saying we are busy. Either she gets it and stops or she actually steps forward and makes a...
  10. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    Not that man... I came here to ask if I should let the kids meet or not to have the best chance to either work things out with her in the future or at least some sort of fwb
  11. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    And let's face it, if she wanted me back she would have already reached out in these past 5 months. Its not the kids meeting up and her coming to my door that she will melt for me again.
  12. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    This sounds good on paper. But she will keep having the power and the decision making. She will feel in the clouds knowing she didn't reach out for 6 months, didn't reply to my birthday msg and now after what I'll presume will be her reaching out soon I'm gonna let her get the kid. I'm assuming...
  13. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I'm not gonna allow the kids to meet and whem she calls, I'm gonna ignore all her calls and texts
  14. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I don't mind the kids to keep playing game a online and call etc but I don't want to have her no more at my door every week and have to deal with her if we aren't together
  15. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I think I'm gonna cut all the friendship between the kids. I don't wanna deal with her 3 to 4 times a month at my doorstep picking up my son if we are not together. It's ridiculous. I'd be open to work thinks out with her but otherwise I rather cut off all the ties between us. It's gonna look...
  16. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I'm not gonna block her, but I think I'm not gonna reply more to her msgs when she reaches out and not let the kids meet no more. She hasn't texted my son in 2 months but she did yesterday
  17. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    Update. Yesterday my ex's daughter called my son a few times he didn't pick up. So in the evening my ex texted my son "honey, is everything alright?" she probably thought I had told my son to cut contact with them because my ex didn't reply to my birthday msg. I'm certainly now she is gonna...
  18. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I think it's time for me to close this chaptwr of my life. She had been gone for 9 months and habenr heard a word from her in 5 months. She hates me and has zero interest. Dumb move to send her a birthday msg a week ago. I'll just let the kids be friends and move on with my life.
  19. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I guess now I just keep moving forward, work, gym, etc and be a good father for my kid when he is here. Reaching out to my ex is not an option no more especially after the birthday text and email which I got no reply. I guess enough is enough. No woman in this world should be worth of so much...
  20. RicBoy

    Broke no contact after 4 months.

    I see the thread was re-opened. It's nice to talk a bit with someone who knows my story. So it's been a week since I sent that email and the birthday text where I broke no contact after 4,5 months. So to recap. I sent a birthday text to my ex's phone (maybe blocked), I then asked her best...
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