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  1. Serenity

    Thoughts on this plate she likes me wants ltr/ idmitted to having feelings / she tried manipulation power play /i told her off and went on a rant

    If what you want is casual sex or a FWB situation then you shouldn't string along women who want a LTR. Whether you know it or not, you're creating this drama. You're abusing her desire for a LTR to get sex out of her, she caught on to it and of course she gives you sh!t for that. Go for women...
  2. Serenity

    Had my first date in Miami today

    Just a drink? There's more than 10 typos in your post, if you wrote this immediately after the date I'd guess your failure to kiss her is because you're sh!t-faced.
  3. Serenity

    Online Dating

    Aaah, the worldview where what's considered valuable is objective and absolute rather than subjective and relative. No.
  4. Serenity

    cold approaching waste of time

    Not a waste of time if it's genuinely enjoyable, but that only happens if there's true outcome independence. A guy going out to cold approach most likely won't find it enjoyable and because their entire intent is to find a sexual/romantic partner it's also highly dependent on outcome. I don't...
  5. Serenity

    ''dumbest'' cheating sign ever.

    It's basic projection. Accusing the other of what oneself does wrong is extremely common. It's like people saying everyone else are a-holes, most likely they're the biggest a-hole of them all. I don't know the logic behind it, but feeling superior about ones own righteousness and being in...
  6. Serenity

    BRACE YOURSELF - invasion on November, 2020

    Oh, so it's 2012 all over again, the when absolutely fvck all happened, least of all the world going under. God is a fantasy delusion, he doesn't exist. Neither does any of this nonsense, it's just a little mass hysteria. Some neckbeard troll is probably sitting in his mothers basement have a...
  7. Serenity

    Why do men on sosuave want to get married?

    I heard somewhere that marriage was originally more an advantage for men than women, as a way to be a little bit more sure the kids are his offspring. I think Disney and the likes has just as much twisted the views of marriage for women. If we look away from the cases where a woman obviously has...
  8. Serenity

    When do you have your 2nd date?

    If she's really interested in you then it doesn't matter much, she's going to want to see you again ASAP. So let's say you're a moderately busy guy who typically have plans the next two days, planning a date 3 days in advance makes sense. Going up to a week isn't wrong either, it makes sense...
  9. Serenity

    Wtf is wrong with you guys

    Tough love or not, it's not helpful. People just shut off anyways when they receive "tough love", especially from a stranger. It's better to give a calm advice, not get emotionally involved and let it be if the other person won't listen. There isn't a more certain sign of being too emotionally...
  10. Serenity

    Are women so hypergamous these days that they will reject a man with a well-paid career because his job is "boring"?

    Once I start explaining what I do for a living, people stop asking more questions, they feel stupid because they don't have the faintest idea about what any of it means. Anyways, I'm not interested in women who judge me based on my job. They're welcome to get the fvck out of my sight.
  11. Serenity

    i find it weird that people have energy to be extraverted and active

    There was a time where being underdressed was uncomfortable for me as well, now I'm so comfortable in my own skin I could go out wearing pretty much anything. I don't think introversion has as much to do about that as insecurity and self-consciousness about what others may think about your...
  12. Serenity

    i find it weird that people have energy to be extraverted and active

    Correct, introversion and extroversion isn't binary, neither is any other personality traits. It's a spectrum and being somewhere in the middle is more common than the extremes. I too feel drained in some settings with many people, while in others I never want it to end. In general I don't need...
  13. Serenity

    i find it weird that people have energy to be extraverted and active

    Extroverts feel more energized when being social, that's what makes then extroverts. Introverts feel more drained when being social. What they were talking about was meaningless to you, not to them. What gives meaning is highly subjective. It appears to be a very hard concept to grasp for many...
  14. Serenity

    Had a battle against women online

    Oh yeah, I know. I just found it amusing for a brief moment, I wouldn't have engaged in the conversation if I didn't.
  15. Serenity

    Had a battle against women online

    Going to mention that mirror again...
  16. Serenity

    Had a battle against women online

    You need to chill dude.
  17. Serenity

    Had a battle against women online

    Oh great, so you do understand my point. Now you just have to look into the mirror.
  18. Serenity

    Had a battle against women online

    I don't care, it's a waste of time. The war between MGTOW and feminists is inconsequential to me, I stay away from both of those toxic communities. There are plenty of people well outside of those spheres, but you're too hooked on fighting that pointless fight that you've gone blind. If you...
  19. Serenity

    Had a battle against women online

    The type of women playing keyboard warriors on the internet doesn't represent the majority of women even by a long shot. They're just as jaded as the men in the MGTOW community. It's both tragical and comical to witness how both sides do literally the same things just with polar opposite...
  20. Serenity

    Does dating a single mommy help a man develop as a man?

    In general, not really. It's stupid to commit to a woman merely for experience, especially if you don't feel like being thrown into having to take care of kids right off the bat in a relationship. It's different if you're with a childless woman, get her pregnant and have a baby together, you...