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    My lifetime OLD first date flake rate is about 45%. Therefore, I always double up first dates. I scheduled 8 dates for 4 time slots (2 each day) yesterday and the day prior. Results: This is the first time all 8 dates either showed up or confirmed beforehand. I went on dates with the first...
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    If you haven't seen Avengers Endgame or Avengers Infinity War, go see it. It hit me the other day. Thanos is a man (alpha male). It's not the ideology people agree with; that's just the rationalization. He steals every scene because he is just that masculine. Discuss.
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    Height and OLD

    If you aren't using height to your advantage in OLD, you are doing yourself a disservice. Women screen by height. There's simply no getting around this. The average human male is under 6'0. Therefore, the majority of men could be leaving some height on the table. The following height...
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    Texting (Why You Shouldn't)

    It's popping up on a lot of threads, particularly when offering advice to newer members. Some of the more established DJs and relationship gurus advise against it, citing basic sales principles. Why shouldn't you text? It's really about the numbers and maximizing efficiency. The gurus that...
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    Six First Dates in One Day

    ......and I'm only going on two. I have two after-work time slots - 6:30 pm and 8:30 pm. We all hate flaking. Women have no remorse about breaking dates after making plans with you, so why do you still feel bad about doing the same? Three dates are scheduled for the same time slot. They...
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    Plate Stood Me Up

    Posting this because this is the second plate to do so this calendar year. I've been smashing this girl (age 24) since early September. I see her once a week, usually on the weekend due to scheduling. We do something fun outside of the house then have sex. She's cooked on multiple occasions...
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    Trying to Cool Off the Chatty Chicks

    Still running into this. Met some chick on Instagram through a mutual group events page. After a few DMs back and forth, I exited the convo saying we might see each other at the group event. As soon as I walked in, she walked over and tried to strike conversation. High IOIs, positive body...
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    No Means No

    .......until she calls you "timid." Men, I've had this political discussion with both male and female friends. I was the most ardent supporter of the "no means no" movement (back as an AFC), until I was in the situation of that initial resistance when she says "stop" or "we can't do this" and...
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    Banned From Another Forum For "Gender Bashing"

    Probably AFC to post this, but whatever. I was a long time contributor to a forum (3 years), mainly for the other sections (politics, personal finance, and car stuff). I was banned the other day without warning due to "gender bashing." Lately I've been posting in the relationships forum. My...
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    When to Scale Back the "Alpha"

    We all come across some of these chicks who are so jaded by society's currently pitiful expectations of men.. that being "alpha" gets you no where. While the easiest course of action is simply to "next" the broad, what if a different approach is worth a shot? I had an exchange with a woman on...
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    Weening Women Off Texting

    Strategies please. No matter what, it's like when their interest level starts going up, they want to text all the time 24/7. I'm having trouble getting these chicks off the phone without ignoring them completely or just being a ****. I'm not a texter myself. I don't initiate using text ever...
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    Is this a **** test?

    Went out with this chick for two dates. She is a potential plate but we haven't had sex yet. Lot's of making out both times. Anyway, for the third date she volunteers to come over and cook for me at the end of our date (I didn't bring it up). I played it off and went home. Less than 24...
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    Field Report: Long Distance Hook-ups (One Night Stands, Vacation, etc)

    Long Distance encounters seem to be frowned upon but I fancy this to be one of my stronger topics in “game.” This will be my thread to post my experiences and get / give feedback, analysis, and tips for guys who are trying to score some on vacation, or just want chicks in different area codes...
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    When She Doesn't Like the Place

    Hey guys, recovering nice guy here. I'm new to the forum. I'm just getting out of an orbiter role with a previous chick. I spent the last few months learning everything I can about the game. I'm in the process of meeting and dating women just to get more conscious and good with it. Not...