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    Nc on a hb9

    Not gonna go explain the total story. But would it would be a good idea to just go nc on her for a day or two? I’m quite afraid she would just go to someone else and I’m done. Or would it spark some interest? Side question: if I would be her chad, what would my texting frequency be? Would I...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I did before but like I said somewhere else, it would take paragraphs to explain what's going on between us. I have to admit it's not the full story I am posting here, because even though there is anonymity on this forum, I'm still afraid that she might read this one way or the other. But I did...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I get that, but I don’t get it when you know she’s for real or when she’s playing you. You guys have 1000 times the experience, I know that. But it seems everything a girl does is a test/getting attention. Where do you draw the line? Don’t get me wrong, I know I have a long way to go. I know...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    But she isn’t, on Monday she sure acted weird, but the next days when we saw each other from a far she always gave a huge smile or a huge wave. But my mind is screwed over. This night I was out with a friend, she texted me. I replied here and there when I could. And with could I mean when my...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I can't stay away because we work together... But yeah I can just stop texting. Look, I'm not over her, far from it. I'm still too much of a nice guy and thinking stuff like 'if I don't text now she would just go to someone else'. But to be fair, isn't it sometimes to easy to think of stuff...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    Ok I don't get this anymore I've been basically ignoring her because I need to get over this oneitis I got for her. I used to go over for a quick chat or text her in the evening just asking her about her day or have a conversation. I didn't do this the past two days. She did text every evening...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    Well she clearly tried to turn it the other way around. Didn’t text yesterday but late at night she texted and said she missed my texts, and said I sounded ‘mad’ on monday and monday evening. Fine I replied but kept it short, gonna keep her around for two weeks as it’s a busy period at work...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    I’ll not respond or initiate, but the last few weeks we’ve always been texting every single night. Not this night though, sure there might be someone else in the picture, but I don’t buy it, not this sudden.
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    Explain me her behaviour

    Point is, she smiles otherwise, we never really talk in real life simply because we have different offices, but if we see each other there's normally a wave or a smile. The reason I don't go for it, even though we work together, is just because I had a bad experience in the past. We are going...
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    Explain me her behaviour

    Been texting a girl at work for a while now, we don't see each other often at work because of different workplaces. But yesterday we arrived at the same time and walked towards the building. Our texting has been going great, good conversations, slightly sexual from time (I don't ask her out...
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    Only being witty via text

    Yeah, totally correct, if the girl is a bit more cute than average, I tend to close up and thoughts like "why would she be interested in me etc etc". Even though recently I've had a hb9 admit to me she liked me, it still does not click inside my head that I should trust my looks and personality...
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    Only being witty via text

    I’ve noticed I can be witty, but only via text. I’ve come to realize it’s because you have the time to respond and think about it. But then again I have days where I can be witty in real life with direct responses as well. Of course I’d want this in real life continuously as well. Girls like...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Think I need to get this of my chest The last weeks we kept on texting, and last week a lot more due to something I said and I guess she liked it. I know I shouldn’t have replied, but like I mentioned, we still have to work together. Not going a lot into details of what she texted, but my gut...
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    Don't know what is going on with this girl (and myself)

    She kept on texting and I keep on replying just because we have to work in teams in the future. But I think she finally snapped. I know she kept me on the leech the last weeks, one week I felt in control, the other she was. But last week she texted another one of her selfies and I thought...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Final update I guess She still texted from time to time. I tried to reply like I used too, but I feel she's still playing games. For example last week hadn't heard from her in two days and one evening she texted me "what's up", I replied, she replied and then asked her something (in a time span...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Ain't it in anyway possible this was not a test? Look, I realize everything you guys are telling me, there are signs it was a test, there are also signs from previous texts which make me think the opposite. I've had a talk with a female friend about it, perhaps not a good idea as you can never...
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    Who is thinking of breaking no-contract with their exes?

    After almost four weeks in lockdown I start to agree. This sh!t is too much. I totally agree to flatten the curve to not put to much strain on the hospitals for those who need it. But I’m honestly willing to voluntarily get the virus, so I either die or get over it so I can continue normally...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Another update Last week she kept sending sporadic texts, some were selfies of herself, but I kept my responses just as a simple reply because as I told, we still have to work together. Saturday evening she texts me "entertain me please". I know this is a some kind of sh*t test, but...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Guess I needed to hear something like this, although subconciously I already knew this... thanks. Today she texted me a picture of her in a group video chat with some of her friends on which something ‘funny’ was to be seen. Now this I don’t get though, because she clearly had her need for...
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    Can someone explain why I feel this way?

    Thanks all, I know deep down you're all right and I know somewhere I've known this all along. It's just been some very difficult couple of years for me, it's nice to get some attention from a hot girl after all this time, even though I know that it's 'toxic' attention. And btw, she didn't...
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