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    In a bad funk

    I never post threads like this but I have honestly never felt this down. I do not know if this is the quarantine or what but as of late i have this feeling of " who gives a f" in my state there is no end in site. I have a home gym and workout a ton.. I am an essential employee so I am...
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    When to call the quits on your office

    I work in a rather large company and am currently in charge of an office of 20 people. I have the ability because of our structure to transfer into a new position at any time. I have been at my office for 2.5 years and inherited the most difficult office in our company. Our CEO has...
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    Question on genes and balding

    Ok slightly off the wall question but I have always worried about balding. If I had a decent head for shaving I probably wouldn’t care as much but my head will not look good shaved. My question is does the mother’s father always predict hairloss?? I only ask because my grandfather was bald by...
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    Presenting in front of large groups

    I suck at preparing and presenting in front of people. I had a presentation tonight in front of 200 people and i felt it was god awful. I focused on not reading from the power point like a fcking robot and ended up doing that. Any advice on how to actually get good at this.... uhh
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    Work funk

    Ok... so I am in mid management.. in charge of a large office. I am the head of my branch and my supervisor is essentially retired on duty. I am young for my position and my office is the most senior in the organization so at any moment I can lose them and with their union there isn’t much I...
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    Failed branch swing

    Last year I almost got myself involved with a woman who claimed her marriage was ending. She literally morphed and portrays all the traits I would want in a woman. Loving, caring, home maker, fitness enthusiast... in the back of my mind I kept saying wtf man you need to bail.. she has kids...
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    What makes females approach?

    I have noticed this happening more and more with me. just last night I was out with my buddies and was not interested in getting puss. Seriously wanted to eat and drink since I’m off today. In the bar there was a group of 21-23 year old chicks. My buddy said hey I think those girls are...
  8. M

    Ego is sucking me in

    Ok here is the situation girl is a 10. We ****ed around while separated from her husband. Turns out that she wasn’t really separated. Now going thru a divorce. I initially bolted since she will soon be a single mom with 3 kids. I know this situation is bad but my ego keeps sucking me...
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    Weird issue need advice

    Ok... about 8 months ago I thwarted an attempted branch swing. Serious lapse in judgement and a mistake I will never make. She was married and I’m living with my ltr we never got physical but had i not been so cautious we easily could have. She used the L word and I sent a farewell message...
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    Do females ever grow up?

    I am currently 38 years old and when i was in my early 20's i had my share of hookups with females from 19 to early 30's. They were all ready to fck under the right circumstances regardless of their relationship status. These girls would jump from guy to guy... bar to bar... club to club...
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    Unexpected anger

    ok...don't know where this came from or why the fck I'm feeling like this. Quick summary around Nov... me and a girl I have known for 5 years start meeting up and hooking up. She is married with 3 kids... uses the love word often. Blames husband for their marriage ending. She ends up getting...
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    Approaching 40 and friendships

    Slightly off topic but something i was hoping to get some input on. My entire life I have always had a group of close friends. In high school and college I had what i would call my best group of friends. After we graduated they went on and did the marriage and kids thing. I was in all...
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    just curious under what circumstances do you guys think this is ok? My situation almost crossed the line with a chick who was married.. trying to branch swing to me. Nothing physical ever happened.. she went flaky used the word love. Her husband finds texts and things blew up on her end. Went...
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    My 15 year anniversary

    Wow... as I type this it blows my mind that it's been 15 years since I found this site ! I'm nothing special, no guru, no pick up artist just a dude fortunate to have found this site and figured out the traps and programming of modern females. I see a ton of posts on this site from the early...
  15. M

    Neck irritation dress shirt

    Most days I can get away with wearing jeans and a polo but when I have meetings I need to wear a suit and tie. I have always had this issue but need to do something about it because my next promotion requires this dress code every day. My neck gets severely irritated after wearing a dress...
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    Do all females cheat?

    I was just at the grocery store and I ran into a girl that used to go to the same gym that I did. I went to highschool with her husband and they are very active in the community we live in. I always viewed her as one of ths last people I would expect to cheat. Very sweet, innocent, was never...
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    Issue with married woman

    I was on these forums almost a decade ago and cannot say how much they have done for my life. I actually lost my previous login and had to create this one. You guys have always helped me in the past and I need some help now. I have been friends with a woman for about 3 years. About 2...