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    Is this a shyte test? How to react?

    Ya I wouldnt have just outright said that. I would've toyed with her and made it more fun. Just blurting out "I wana bang" is so fvcking boring, and ruins the whole thing. Slowly escalate, make it exciting.
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    Why do I keep getting Oneitis for every Girl I date?

    GO for all of them or none at all. If you're spinning multiple plates at once, you'll never get oneitis because youll always be looking to add and never settle.
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    Perfect is boring (a conversation with two girls)

    Thats the money right there @Spaz. Starting to realize how being unpredictible, somthing as simple as if you always hagnout on a Saturday to hangout on a Wednesday can even spice things up and keep them interesting. Always keep em guessing, never let them know what you're going to do next. Are...
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    Perfect is boring (a conversation with two girls)

    As stuff starts to open up where I'm at I decided to take a plate out to a bar down the shore, we met up with my two female cousins who reserved a table. One is in a relationship and the other is not. The one in the relationship has been in said relationship for 7 years, her boyfriend does not...
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    Don’t be so afraid of the friend zone..

    100% this. its the difference between the guy who does not give 1 ****, doesnt call or text them, just doesn't care. Vs. the guy texting her every day, spilling his feelings out for her. The later gets the lay, the former gets to jerk off.
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    Women cant complete you. Kill the thirst

    Agreed with the bold. I loved working on myself for 3 months and just getting after it every day. Sh1t was great.
  7. J

    Your best "turn the tables" text

    best advice in this thread
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    Do girls want fun all the time?

    We are polar opposites. I’m the ****iest fvck I know, but a throw a piece of humble in there. I’ve seen guys try to do ****y and funny when it doesn’t fit their personality and it just comes off legit mean and not playful.
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    Do girls want fun all the time?

    agreed. Have her reach out over text for the most part, but I like the60/40 approach (you being 40) because then it doesn’t seem one sided, or if I just want to send something to that particular girl I will. It’s funny you mention ghosting then regaining power, 100% true. I’ve found it’s easy to...
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    Good friend insists on staying/being friends with my ex-girlfriend...

    that’s my initial thought because the girl wants to know my every fvcking move it seems and what better way than to manipulate a friend. I was thinking about bringing it up to him but I feel like it will go in one ear and out the other.
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    Good friend insists on staying/being friends with my ex-girlfriend...

    Figured he was full of ****, kids a scumbag. Fvck em.
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    The Gambino - Journal to reaching higher SMV (daily post)

    Following, love me some self improvement threads
  13. J

    Building a rotation

    I somewhat agree, I followed this rule thru graduate school then realized it really fvcks you up and brings out the neediness/AFCness inside of you, even though you thought you got rid of it a long time ago. Always having a few girls in rotation is good for the DJ soul, and keeps you grounded...
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    Good friend insists on staying/being friends with my ex-girlfriend...

    Good start to the week, I was driving home and see my friend driving down the road, shot him a text and asked him whats up, just saw you where you headed man? And he goes "Ex-GFs house to watch x with her and her sister, I hope you don't hate me for that." He's been trying to hook up with the...
  15. J

    When a woman pulls back, don't fight it...odds are things are not what they seem

    Interesting, I was in a similar situation. Hung out with a girl on Saturday, it was great, we hooked up multiple times, but come Sunday I heard nothing from her, Monday was sparse convo but then Tuesday it turned around, her texting me /first/a lot. By Wednesday she was over again. She told me...
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    LTR = Done, ****ed up a friendship, hows your week going?

    I seriously cannot make this sh1t up AF. He told me because he "found out from someone" and he felt like I was going "behind his back" to go out with his sister. Also it seems like he is "jealous" because im spending time with her and less with him.
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    Female behaviour during Quarantine

    Oh hell no man. Both my ex-girlfriend and her sister broke up with their boyfriends during this sh1t. They went bat**** crazy. My ex called and texted me 47 times in 3 days trying to argue. It's funny how isolation really kills some people.
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    First Date Can’t Tell If She’s Into Me

    Kiss close wouldve been the way to go, esp. since you thought the date went well. It doesn't matter what she says, if shes feeling you and lets you move in for a kiss, then youre on the right track OP
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    LTR = Done, ****ed up a friendship, hows your week going?

    Whats up guys, been a long time since I started a thread, but I figure id post this here because im in need of some advice. So about 2.5 weeks ago my girlfriend of ~3 years broke up with me. It was fine, we both started to grow apart and she really didnt want to grow with me, she wanted to do...
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    Keeping your relationship chick (advice from a friend)

    Most guys do not do this because they are insecure themselves and either drag women down below them or keep them down because that would mean "a woman is above me." Those guys are lazy and will always go no where. Guys who have high self esteem,do not bring others down, especially the people...