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    **To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**

    Yes I've experienced this myself. I had a highschool crush where there was an abrupt end to our intense relationship. I didn't see/hear from her in years. She entered into "dream girl" fantasy status in my mind. I met up with her randomly by chance a few years later and the reality of her slutty...
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    **To all the Newbies, Heart Brokens and Hardcase Believers - Trust the Users Wisdom**

    Oneitis and heart break is truly the most crippling thing a man can ever experience. Many men never recover from it. The entire Redpill community was born out of the crucible of the cancer of Oneitis heartbreak. Game is armour to protect ourselves from this severely debilitating and potentially...
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    Has a chick ever agreed to meet up with you despite somehow later mentioning she's 'taken'

    It's called Monkey Branching. Hot women generally don't go "single", they hop straight onto the next d!ck.
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    What the redpill got wrong

    Pair bonding with a 16 year old virgin is a good deal for the man, and a good deal for the woman - this isn't oneitis. This is a life long pair-bond potential (as long as society has the necessary institutions to support it - monogamy supported and cheating and divorce is shamed). Oneitis is...
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    What the redpill got wrong

    In the Middle East and Africa you can have as many wives as you want. Women in Africa exchange sex for a pint of milk (because the price of sex is so low). The issue in the West is that we have masculine-ised women, and feminised men to the point where both sexes are thoroughly repulsed by each...
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    Socially Distanced Dates

    The best response would be something along the lines of "lol" or "Sorry, who's this?"
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    Socially Distanced Dates

    "No spark" text messages are nuclear-tier sh!t tests. She wants to gauge your reaction. An Aloof response is your best bet. A girl who truly wasn't interested would not bother with such a text. Also, never be the first to text after a date - wait for her anxiety to build and she'll text you...
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    What the redpill got wrong

    Women have "abundance mindset" because they are literally living in abundance in the West, surrounded by thirsty cucked blue-pill-poossy-beggars. Move your oneitis-ass to Manila and we will soon see who's getting the Oneitis (hint: not the men). It's a basic supply and demand issue. The issue...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You must be dealing with a lot of feelings of regret and guilt. This experience will take you a while to heal from. Don't rush it and force yourself to "get over it." Be gracious towards yourself and accept that the only thing that truly helps is Time and having new experiences. If any of us...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You need to separate yourself from 99% of other men who are needy betas and pursue women who reject them. If you calmly disconnect then it will leave a lasting impression on her. Female Ego responds best to mystery. No Contact is the best way to at least allow her to wonder what you're up to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yes it may seem petty, but this is the ego victory that would provide full closure on the relationship
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    Over 30 DJ's

    Which is why, unfortunately, most women aren't suitable for LTRs. You'll find that there are pockets of women who have only had 1 or 2 relationships in their life. This is also why virginity was so highly prized prior to the sexual revolution of the 60's. The effect that multiple partners has...
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    Over 30 DJ's

    For damaged women in their late 20's - early 30's it's a result of their increased notch counts. Once a woman has slept with 3+ guys her ability to pair bond goes into decline.
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    Women cant complete you. Kill the thirst

    You're not on a soapbox at all. This is essential "inner game" - making yourself your own mental point of origin, as Rollo would say. Making women the focus of much of my life has been truly destructive for my own well being. I'm currently undergoing a similar transition to you. My identity has...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I can relate man. I'm 3 months in and still get waves of pain on a daily basis. I was blocked everywhere, which does make No Contact a lot easier. When all avenues of communication are closed off, then there's no choice but to move forward. I still fantasise about her reaching out to me, out of...
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    How are you guys handling this isolating ****?

    It's ironic isn't it. The more aloof and outcome independent, the more women salivate for you. It's quite simple really. If their vagina isn't casting spells on you then it's communicating to their hind-brain "This guy is immune to my ***** power i.e. He's ****ing other women i.e. He's...
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    Its either 0 or 100

    I think you mentioned earlier than you are over 6ft, white (Swedish) and a decent looking guy. Man, this gives you a huge one-up on most other men. The competition isn't nearly as strong as you might think. Most men are beta and don't know how to tease, push-pull and develop attraction with a...
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    Its either 0 or 100

    It made me good with individual vaginas, but weak with emotional game and relationship game. I was only able to get through these numbers by not emotionally connecting with women (which made it easier to pump and dump and move on). I was only good at the superficial initial seduction. Women...
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    Its either 0 or 100

    Apologies. I focused on the last question you asked. I'll answer your other questions. I'm in the city of Sydney, and I day game around art galleries, malls, tourist spots. You're right, online game has been good to me and perhaps I'm not in a good position to advise you because I've always had...
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    Its either 0 or 100

    I was previously a sex addict. I banged up, down, and at my level. My primary goal was new puss at all costs. All I cared about was notches and my whole life's purpose was to live for new vaginas. I raked up a notch count of over 600 in 6 years. It was an epic journey. I'm currently undergoing...
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