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    women bail on me w/out warning

    You want to show women the strong side of you. The entrepreneur who won't quit. The unrecognized intellectual. The fun, forward-looking guy whose got guts and a great sense of humor. If they see these things in you, then nothing else will matter. I suppose if I frame it right, my story would...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    mentioning your disability early will get you some, but things won't get far after that. Best to leave it out and mention it later if you want to develop something more meaningful with someone. one thing I noticed about aformetioned Hot Chick back in October was that she didn't give a rats...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    response to thedeparted if you are telling girls you have a disability you will get SYMPATHY -- you are definitely not gonna get PVSSY. hear me? the alternative is to not mention it and get neither. if you were high value you would not settle for "again sometime". which is why I...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    responding to jophil28 Tell me, do you mention ANY of this to them on the first date ? some of it. I mention the asperger's because it gives me an excuse for my quirky behavior. girls seem to be sympathetic. I also tell the fire story at some point. I never, ever mention the social...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    Women don't want a guy that asks them what they want to do, yes I noticed that in a date last year. I gave a girl to many choices and she accused me of beig "indecisive" You lead. They want a man with a plan. Of course, listen to what she says she likes, as that will give you some ideas...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    I have far more success hooking up on first dates, and getting second dates, when the first date just consists of meeting up for drinks. really? so you agree to just meet for drinks but then you end up hooking up? Like you, I used to do dinner dates as first dates, and I experienced far...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    I am not so much concerned about your net worth as I am about your APPEARANCE of the ABILITY to produce. If you want cream of the crop, hot women, you will have to look the part. This means getting rid of your old vans and moving into a decent apartment if you cannot afford to buy a house. You...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    you must be an attractive man. I've been told that I am...even by aformentioned hot chick. so then why is this so difficult? You also seem to have no problem getting the first date or getting in some time with women. So, it's what happens surrounding that is where you're losing them...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    What is your annual income, net worth, height, weight and body fat %? 5'7" 170 lbs, I dont know what percent of body fat, I have a bit of a pot-belly which I've had even as a child. I was about 150 lbs for most of my adult life, but 3 yrs ago I took on another 20 lbs, at least 1/2 of that is...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    How many women have you dated (1 date or better) before your last (non) exclusive relationship? I have only hd 2 LTR's. the first one, I was 26. I knew nothing about game. I was not dating. I asked girls out and they all said no. this one said yes. it lasted for 3 months. my 2nd LTR was 10...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    How many women have you dated (1 date or better) before your last (non) exclusive relationship? I have only hd 2 LTR's. the first one, I was 26. I knew nothing about game. I was not dating. I asked girls out and they all said no. this one said yes. it lasted for 3 months. my 2nd LTR was 10...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    In the first situation I believe her friend c0ckblocked you. no doubt. you probably would have been better off with a number close by the time I asked it was too late. The second woman doesn't sound interested at all. that's....... what I was afraid of. When a woman offers to...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    dude, its up to you to LEAD the physical attraction. no, no! :nono: I went on some dates in the past and totally blew it because I was too touchy-feely. got to let the woman initiate. got to. touching w/out permission is creepy. I was very carful to read her body language for positive...
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    women bail on me w/out warning

    Hi all I used to be a regular on this forum and I have been away for awhile. basically I gave up because everything I tried, failed. I am 44 and still learning how to date. I've got game. game is not the problem. I approach women all the time and I'm in a good social environment with...
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    Should the man pay on the first date?

    haha joekerr31 thanks. I find that the traditional "coffee" date (or pizza or diner) does not work out for me. it's like a f*cking job interview. whatever I do, it has to be something unique and different. But maybe my game is too dependant on my environment. if a girl is into me, it...
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    Should the man pay on the first date?

    thanks Francisco. sometimes when I take a girl out I give her the works.... classy place, dinner dancing, drinks, live music etc..... but not because I'm trying to impress her but rather because I'm friends with the musicians and it's my social circle and this is what I like to do for fun...
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    Should the man pay on the first date?

    MacAvoy, I have read the bible. all I remember was that it said dont pay. but could you please point me to specific articles? note: some of the links on it are no longer working. I think what bible-belt says make sense. I definitly split the bill if the date looks like a lost cause.
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    Should the man pay on the first date?

    hey brothers. I am back, trying it again... y'know. This is one question I still can't figure out. what do you think? there were times when I paid, and it was a bad experience. The women just used me for a meal and it didn't get me a 2nd date. Note to self: don't do that again. but...
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    Swingcat and his "sexual frames".....

    I was just thinking of ordering his program. he seem to claim he can approach any woman he wants and within an hour or less she is drooling all over him. is this for real? anyone wanna stop me from pissing away more dough? what are you saying, vulpine? just keep throwing in phrases with...
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    Total Failure with Women

    you asked why do girls give their numbers and then don't want to go out? I get that a lot too. I think it's because they give out their numbers to a lot of guys, and they really don't care about it. with caller ID and VM, the phone is a weapon of mass rejection. she may be giving you her...
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