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  1. K

    Word to the wise... If you don't close (sex) on the first date, don't bother looking for a second.

    It seemed like anti-slut defense to me. And she's obviously an immature low-quality human being overall. She was obviously interested that night--she LET me drive her home and INVITED me into her home. I didn't push for ANYTHING and I didn't even ask to come into her house.
  2. K

    Word to the wise... If you don't close (sex) on the first date, don't bother looking for a second.

    Asked her out for sushi. Told me she "doesn't see this going any further" and that inviting me in (to her house/bed) was a "bad call" on her part when she "thought about it after the fact" and "it's more of a me (her) thing". I didn't respond after that. Figured if I picked her brain more she'd...
  3. K

    Word to the wise... If you don't close (sex) on the first date, don't bother looking for a second.

    My point is it's disturbing that the date went as well as it did, then when I hit her up to chill a couple days later she gives a seemingly disinterested/cold response with no reciprocation. And this situation isn't a rare occurrence either.
  4. K

    Word to the wise... If you don't close (sex) on the first date, don't bother looking for a second.

    That honestly makes very little sense. Especially for women over 25.
  5. K

    Word to the wise... If you don't close (sex) on the first date, don't bother looking for a second.

    This is dating these days. Why? Because women have too many options. Had a date Friday night. Was pretty exhausted but sucked it up and went anyways. Had a couple drinks and it wasn't a bad time, but also wanted to leave so I could go home and go to bed. Got the check and asked her where she...
  6. K

    I hate people

    What's made me realize this most is driving. Most people drive with absolutely no regard for anyone's safety. Tailgating is ridiculously rampant. If it makes them even a second on their trip, they will do it--no matter how dangerous and/or stupid. I truly think some people would slit their...
  7. K

    Do Men Commit Suicide Over A Woman?

    Doesn't surprise me in the least. The actual biological meaning of life is to procreate. So essentially, the meaning of life is to find a woman. That biological NEED + love = disaster when they leave you.
  8. K

    Whoa... Chasing women/sex has BECOME my life. Something's wrong

    I'd love a relationship. But I'm so picky when it comes to settling down it's almost impossible. The girl would literally have to be my "best ever" (or close) in every aspect. Looks, personality, sex, etc. So instead I "settle" for sex & bullsh!t.
  9. K

    Whoa... Chasing women/sex has BECOME my life. Something's wrong

    Thanks for the replies. I also have this weird feeling like "time is running" out and I need to fit as many women in as possible before it does... Even though I'm only 29. It's bizarre and obviously isn't a good thing. I used to only set up dates/hangouts over the weekend, but now I'm trying to...
  10. K

    Ha. Girl goes from super interested to (essentially) ghosting

    She's essentially a bullsh!tter. And probably a bullsh!tter with a lot of options. Send her this then just go no contact: "Actually meeting and getting to know each other in person would reignite that spark pretty damn fast. Guaranteed. But it's all good. You seem busy and like you have a lot...
  11. K

    Ha. Girl goes from super interested to (essentially) ghosting

    Block anyone talking about texting in this topic. They're idiots. There's only 3 possibilities... 1.) The black eye freaks her out for some reason 2.) She met someone else 3.) Mixed emotions/cold feet from being on her period or just from being female I get why you're pissed off about it. I...
  12. K

    Whoa... Chasing women/sex has BECOME my life. Something's wrong

    I've got a great life overall--great parents, good friends (although they're all married so I practically have no social circle anymore), healthy/keep myself in shape and love lifting weights, great job that pays me well and isn't very stressful, financial independence, etc. However, I'm unhappy...
  13. K

    So I was a rebound

    She sounds like a sociopath and if not, she clearly has a myriad of deep emotional issues. Like you said, she doesn't care about you, and doesn't even respect you enough to respond. I guarantee she's done the same thing to numerous other guys, and I also guarantee that she'll keep doing it...
  14. K

    So I was a rebound

    Agreed. Believe it or not, this is a extraordinary situation. Yes, you see this kind of thing on forums a lot, but it's rare in the actual world. Most women are emotional, but do not act like this. Most women get more attached after sex and get more attached the more they see you. OP is just one...
  15. K

    So I was a rebound

    Also want to add that if OP's behavior legitimately turned her off, she probably would've dumped him earlier. He says she was more interested after the first date, even MORE interested after the second date, then lost all interest after the third date. It just doesn't sound normal to me...
  16. K

    So I was a rebound

    I think she was attracted to him physically/sexually and enjoyed the sex, but agree that she was using him to fill her "ex void." I do believe the reason she didn't "like" him is because she can't like him, or anyone, since she is still in love with her ex. She will literally "like" nobody until...
  17. K

    So I was a rebound

    NOTE: While part of me thinks should topic should die for OP's sake and because this is just insane amounts of over-analyzation, I also think it's an interesting discussion... Agree fully with the bolded. Partially agree with underlined. Yeah, her relationship was close to a year, it only...
  18. K

    Last straw for OLD lol

    Depends. Sometimes a fresh start can really help because noone knows you.
  19. K

    why did this girl do this?

    She wanted you. Gotta strike the iron while it's hot.
  20. K

    So I was a rebound

    Yep yep. I also get a feeling this girl may have some mental/emotional issues past just being on the rebound. Starting off that intensely then out of nowhere losing interest completely seems like BPD.
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