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    Guy friends

    Ya I do that too. I’ll suggest something to do. They’ll say they’re going somewhere else and don’t extend the invite .. few weeks later I’ll try again .. same thing.
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    Guy friends

    Anyone have guy friends that never invite you ? Me: “hey man what’s up. What you up to this weekend want to go out” Them“I’m going to the (insert name) bar” It’s never like “I’m going to this bar, you should come out” I don’t want to be like “hey cool can I come” . Feel like if they wanted...
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    City girls vs suburban/ country girls

    Ya I mean I have a nicer car and house it’s just not in the city. But thanks for confirming the money thing. It’s for sure a real issue with the better looking city girls. and it’s not that I don’t have some but I’m not flashy with it by any means and most of that has to do with my upbringing
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    City girls vs suburban/ country girls

    Something I’ve noticed recently I started the online dating thing a couple years ago.. something I’ve noticed is my “game” works really well with girls that didn’t grow up in the city but I struggle to pull girls that grew up in or very near the city (within 5-10 miles of downtown let’s say for...
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    Meeting up with a chick that rejected you months after

    If she rejected you she views herself as better than you. Show her you’re unfazed by her if you run into each other. Act happy to see her but don’t overdo it. Keep convo short if she’s not trying to keep it going. Don’t linger. Best thing you could do is get other girls there interested in you...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    no. I mean call it beta game if you want. I’ve had numerous one night stands and banged a lot of girls after the 1st or 2nd date. You have to feel that out though. I usually feel it out by taking the convo in a sexual direction and see how they respond. If there’s hesitation or I sense some...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    So as I said earlier in the thread she ended up texting back (Wednesday) but then again went distant after that Today I just asked her what was up and she said “I think youre a great guy but I’m not there as far as a connection. I know we’re both busy but I need to talk more to feel a...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    Further. Not texting actually comes off as more beta than alpha. You’re confined by a set of rules. That’s not alpha at all. If you’re in a board meeting and you have to take a break just to text, that’s beta.. if you wait around on your phone all day for her to text that’s beta.. there’s...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    I wonder if people that preach “only text to set up dates” actually follow this. And I wonder what women this actually works on. Are they hot and successful women or ugly fat ones with no other option? I have tried this in practice with good looking successful women. It does not f’n work...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    I agree with that but not sure what that has to do with what we’re talking about. Naturally if you’re into a girl you’re going to think about them and have concern when they act different. That’s normal
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    difference between overthinking and acting on it. I didn’t act on it. if you’re with a girl that you never think about Or that you don’t care if they left .. then you settled
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    Exactly this. If girls were all exactly alike and robots you could live in a world of black and white and follow “rules”. Dating and fvcking girls is a lot of trial and error until you’ve been with enough women that you know how to handle each situation. Trying to follow rules makes you a robot...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    bummer I won’t get all your “alpha” advice
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    guess that’s why she just texted eh .. occasionally texting isn’t a sign of not having self control. Overly done texting is bad I agree there. Not communicating at all and just waiting for the next date which may be days away does. Not. Work
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    Lol no. Not communicating between hanging out is a disaster. I’ve tried both. Keep it fun or sexual if you’re at that point and don’t overdo it
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    the highest quality women I’ve dated wouldn’t put up with this unless you’re just so far above her. They have too many options from other high quality men that they won’t put up with a dude that doesn’t talk to them between dates. This might work in a world without social media, texting, online...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    I do well too. I know plenty “alpha” dudes that are good with women .. but then I look at the women and they are all poor quality. the hottest girls and the highest quality ones I see are usually with guys that either have lots of money or lots of clout. The guys with neither trying to act...
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    ya mostly macho alpha responses. Again, works with certain women and not others.Try being sexual too fast with the wrong girl and game over. You have to know when to push it there You cant force it which it sounds like you do No matter who the girl is
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    When she suddenly goes cold

    you just said it. “No strategy works with all women”. You have to have different tools in your arsenal to attract and Bed different types of women. This approach of ignoring until it’s time for a date will only win over one specific type of woman. When it comes to texting you have to have enough...
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