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    Best Response When Your Date Cancels

    AS a general rule, and unless you receive a serious counteroffer, delete her number and move on. You have many other phone numbers and are dating other women, yes? This applies to the first few dates. 4 is a good number. Now if you have been seeing a gal for 2 months and having lots of great...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    V, this is for SW 15 (a guy who knows his stuff) also. Lets do away with labels, and just simply say you have a guy who beds lots of women, and in my case was having endless (approximately) 3 month relationships with 3 women at the same time. What happens is we trade that. I kept picking...
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    How much do looks matter

    Correct. I hold a PhD in Political Science and NEVER talked politics. Even after 18 years of marriage I stay away from it. My wife works in an extremely far left environment (several of her employees are trans for example and she can get fired if she misgenders them) and she comes home daily...
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    How much do looks matter

    Great post. I am only replying to/about the first guy. Dating an older woman and waiting months for sex is just insanity. Especially a good looking guy with a good career. Just shows you how important game and mindset are. I would have had him running endless rotations and banging everything and...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    If you are an alpha male you are going to want to bang as many women as possible, true. But at some point....like I said after 40 you trade that for the stability of a family. At least I did.
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    I got divorced at 35... but once I got back into studying evolutionary biology and got into the seduction community I had some of the most amazing sexual experiences of my life. This lasted until the age of 44 when I remarried. Then the first few years of marriage were also filled with lots of...
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    How much do looks matter

    I agree, social scientists are probably going to be better conversationalists....but one advantage STEM guys have is much more earning potential.
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    You make some excellent points in your post, but I am only going to address the last one. One of the pillars of my recommendations, and consistent with the principles of this forum, is that men be gym rats. I also push martial arts. I trained in martial arts until my late 50's and still...
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    Bad AA Approaching Groups in Nightgame

    There is absolutely nothing unreasonable about anything you have said. Plus, getting laid a lot/constant pick up is a good place to be at 30. But will it be so at 40, or 50 plus...? No. Like I said, being an accomplished pick up artist when you are young is a great place to be...seducing women...
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    How much do looks matter

    Yes!!! There is so much a guy can do to improve his appearance. From there his personality (game) can do even more.
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    Bad AA Approaching Groups in Nightgame

    OK....I am almost 63 so my advice is going to be as a much older man who was exactly where you are right now at one point. My advice is also going to be somewhat complex. First things first, men must work on themselves. Eating right and fitness are a HUGE part of that (I also push martial arts...
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    Bad AA Approaching Groups in Nightgame

    I tend to eat a lot at night after I train. I am lucky in that my wife cooks nearly every night. She started cooking very clean years ago. The starter reason was for my son's wrestling, he had to be lean for his sport. We just continued eating that way. Prior to that, I was a competitive...
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    How much do looks matter

    I heard that Captain Kirk was into Asian women.
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    How much do looks matter

    According to Plato/Socrates, 10 don't exist in the real world, LOL. Also, it is a very individualized thing. Most guys like blonds. I like long straight black hair. Actually, I am super wierd...I like Asian women with caucasian features. Narrow nose, big round eyes, but the high cheekbones and...
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    How much do looks matter

    Men can get that yes, they just have to be realistic. If you are a 3 and do everything possible and become decent looking (a 5) then develop your game as much as possible, you are still not going to get 8's through 10s. But you can have A LOT of success with average or slightly better than...
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    How much do looks matter

    But that is the key. You have to accept that every no brings you closer to a yes. And back when the term AFC was popular, the seduction community was SO MUCH more supportive than it is now. We did nothing but help each other. Everyone was having more success back then because everyone was...
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    How much do looks matter

    You are absolutely correct about mindset. Guys who are arguing against you are obsessing on the 7 times they get shot down approaching ten women (individual approaches). The reality is that only 3 might talk to you and maybe only 1-2 gives you her number. However, the abundance mindset knows...
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    How much do looks matter

    But here is the problem: A lot of average guys will just give up, thinking that they have no chance since they did not win the looks lottery. The fact is is they work hard, gym, diet, clothes, grooming etc they can go from a 5 to a 7. Then if their game is on point they can get 8's and maybe the...
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    How much do looks matter

    Good post, Sega. I actually did a video called "you only need a minimum of good looks" that made a very similar argument to yours. Also age. If you are fit and have your life together (yes career helps) you can go younger, the general formula is half plus 7. So a 40 year old can date a 27 year...
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    Bad AA Approaching Groups in Nightgame

    I have had very good results with intermittent fasting. Just make sure I get really good meals around my training window.
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