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Requirements IMO: 1. Woman is at least 15+ years older than the man; and 2. Man must be below 50. Past 50 a man cannot qualify a woman for “cougar” status no matter how much older she is than him.

OP, This girl is low interest and you are better off moving along to some who will make things easy, Secondly, in dating (and life in general), 9/10 times boldness is ALWAYS rewarded. Your failure to escalate at any point did you in. You should have sat on the same couch as her and been...

I wouldn’t say there’s anything inherently wrong with reviving old threads. In fact, sometimes it’s interesting to see how the board’s view has changed since I’ve been here or even before. When it comes to OP specifically, he reminds me a lot of some older posters that never changed anything...

Lol you think I’m “insecure” because of an opinion I hold about cat pictures on dating sites? And further I’m not “proud” of my cat? :rofl: That is a lot to glean about me based off my post. You seem pretty triggered by this. If anyone is projecting here it is you my friend.

If you mean for pictures, I feel cat pictures always denote a guy who is trying too hard. A dog looks more natural. And I am saying this as a guy who only owns a cat. As far as once they are back at your place, I don't think a cat or dog makes any difference because you have already checked all...

I agree with this. Men who have their sh1t together are going to slay in this environment. Take good care of yourself and do reasonably well with a job and you should have no trouble having a healthy rotation of women. And living with two women sounds absolutely miserable. And these "poly"...

This isn’t the woman to be playing the long game with. You have history with her and negative history at that from what you say. If you were going to get back in her pants you should have taken the opportunity when it presented itself (i.e. that night). Kudos for the abundance mindset. That’s...

OP, Look at the wall of text you wrote about this. You are overthinking everything that is going with this woman and this is Exhibit A. Nothing she has done should give you any indication she ever was high interest. Not directly responding to your drink idea but responding to the other part of...

There is nothing "to do" if you are in the friendzone. You just need to move on to other women and stop fretting about the woman who put you in the friendzone. The more you try to change it, the more out of control you are going to feel because if you do anything all you will do is reinforce her...

Way too much analyzing of this. OP - text this woman exactly how you want to. Don't subscribe to PUA tactics on how to text to build attraction. It is overrated and causes you to overthink everything. On the opposite side of the same coin, don't start going way out of your way to text this chick...

Yes, it is a red flag. She is clearly needy and is trying to make you act in a certain way -- certainly pushy for only being 4-5 weeks in UNLESS you have told her something to make her expect that kind of behavior. That wasn't part of your hypothetical. In these situations, you need to set a...

We have all been in your position at one point or another. Despite us logically knowing the pitfalls sometimes it is hard to control the chemical releases that are happening in your brain. The best thing you can do is pump the brakes a bit and really sit back and try to look at the situation...

This topic gets debated here frequently. IMO - the short answer is “no” 9/10 times. This is because someone between the two is going to feel some type of attraction that prevents a platonic friendship from being possible. It’s just how humans are wired. Women also generally don’t make great...

Best sex I ever had was a ONS with a girl who was clearly not over her recent ex. There was a huge sense of urgency to what she was doing in the bedroom and it made it feel next-level great. But she was clearly crazy and had the obvious ex issues.

OP, What you are describing is a Cluster B Narcissist type of behavior. Typically, they are love-bombers in early stage dating. Once they get a foothold (moving in, getting pregnant, getting a ring, having the baby, etc.), the behavior immediately changes to one of extreme criticism/ridicule...

My experience is that they are generally more forward on average than white women. I agree with @The Duke though that black women are definitely the most forward of all and I have multiple times been approached by black women all on their own. That generally doesn't happen, at least for me, with...

OP, Your post is based upon the premise that men are ultimately responsible for women "going to the dark side" because we men are "acting like boys" because we are pumping and dumping otherwise innocent, good girls who wouldn't be for the streets if not for us. I have to say I am little...

First, the wall has always been a cope. There is always a market for physically attractive women well into their 50s. The same can be said of men. It goes both ways. But the whole "women hitting the wall by 40 and are no longer desired" thing has always been something said in the manosphere to...

Agree it’s overrated. I think a problem with it is that it usually comes with some level of expectation from one or both parties just by operation of them having the mutual friend who fills their heads with said expectations of what the other person is going to be like. “You two are perfect for...

I guess it’s a fair question. I know plenty of men without a job, look like sh1t, have no prospects, smoke and booze nonstop on their “disability” check, and are with an equally pathetic quality woman who they many times have 2-3 kids with that they can’t adequately support and who are destined...