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    Style Consultant and Beard Stubble Questions

    Two non-related questions: Anyone ever use a style consultant? Whether in person or over skype? Anyone know anyone who has? What is the feedback if any? I am 47. Growing the 10 day stubble for the first time. Light stubble looks dirty on me, going for medium to heavy. Hoping for touches...
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    Is this still salvageable?

    Yeah. The other times were afternoon. Totally different vibe in the place. This time it was at night and unexpected I guess? Plus I'm new at this so I'm in my own head overthinking everything.
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    Is this still salvageable?

    47 - divorced. Been OLD for the last 5 years. I woke up one morning recently and realized that's not real. Banging fat 5's is failure. Always worked on myself but not Game. After reading Rational Male (among other books) my mind was blown. Started dressing better and being bolder. I work...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    My online opportunities will plummet but you're right. I've been filling up time online regardless of quality because of the fear of scarcity. Fear of having no plates to spin. So I spin anything then resent them. Going offline and into the real world is my best bet while dabbling online...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    Time to find some niches and hobbies that are women heavy and commonplace for a 47 year old dude.
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    "It’s all contrived and forced and not natural. It’s like living in women’s frame/reality" - stormrider That last sentence in your post...you just said what I couldn't articulate but always "felt". Mind blown man. Probably the best depiction of online dating I have ever heard. It's clear...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    I'm a 6+ based on feedback from the handful of 7s and above I was able to pull from online. Plus I have eyes. I see other dudes. Also these nightmare 5s and low 6s are almost 100% guaranteed sex when I'm with them. That actually makes me feel crappy because they're 5s. Not 7+. I'm hard on...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    That's my point. I've mastered online for 4 to 6's. I'm a catch to them. But over 5 years I've been online the 8s and above don't budge for reasons we covered above. So my default now is I can't hang with 8s online or off. After 5 years of experiencing online 5s I've become one. If that...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    Plenty. But I'm not sure what you're getting at. I'm not going to list crap here. Serious question though, what do you mean? It's a Brazilian jiu jitsu position. But now that you said that...it is pretty funny.
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    Thanks for the replies guys. So both of you so far are saying meetups are better? Like literally using the meetup app? Lol. Or speed dating services that offer meetups instead of the speed dating nights? Never thought of meetups. Always thought it would be awkward and the quality low. Not...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    My first post and I am glad to be here. Apologize if this is a bit long. I wanted to run a few things by you guys and see if anyone has had the same experiences and thoughts I have. There are probably lots of things at play here, but I’ll try and give you a foundation to help address my...
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