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Her fashion advice is pretty good. Her dating advice is generic common sense stuff.

Anecdotally, the older 50+ guys I know in real life that still have active dating lives are all business owners, not job guys (even white collar). That aside, a lot of guys are talented in a certain area, but running a business isn’t one of them. For those guys, there’s no shame in working a job.

I have a huge bald spot. I’m rocking a #1 buzz right now, so I’m nearly (but not completely) bald. I’m much older than you so it’s a gray buzz unfortunately. Buzz is probably fine for a younger guy who still has his natural hair color. If I go on vacation or attempt pickup again, I can...

Yeah, just look into her eyes and move in slowly. You’re gonna get the cheek, lips or mouth depending on her interest level. Or you’ll get the friendzone bro hug only. Or she will walk 30 feet in front of you and wave goodbye when she gets to her car lol. Nothing to worry about either way...

Hairstyle is critical. For a guy with full hair, not optimizing your hairstyle is just leaving looks points on the table. It’s way more important than clothes or even body.

Yes, but look at the above extensive list of items an older guy needs just to compensate for his age.

The longer you wait, the more difficult it is to become assertive and apply boundaries. If the nice guy feels resentful from being taken advantaged of for so long, it can lead to a heated argument. He can also face a lot of resistance from her because she’s so used to him giving her...

The typical nice guy weaknesses are boundaries, assertiveness and initial spark or sexual attractiveness.

The problem with the whole “Women peak at X, and men peak at Y” is then logically X aged women would be MOST drawn to men at or close to age Y. After all, we know women don’t date down. Women at the peak would understandably want men at the peak. So it implies that say 22 yo women would...

There are some gurus that talk about the importance of “getting out of your head and into your body.” They might be on to something, but I don’t know enough about it to have an opinion.

Nice used to just mean pleasant. Nothing more nothing less. Then it somehow got twisted into something bad as if every nice person has an ulterior motive.

While it’s not ideal to be a people pleaser, the nice guy does have at least strength: empathy. It can be a useful tool as long as you learn not to let others take advantage of you or guilt trip you. As a nice guy myself, I say keep it but make a few adjustments. It would be very difficult...

No problem. Interesting topic. Nothing good comes from neuroticism. I can’t think of a single advantage. Being a bit cautious or slightly inhibited is probably a good thing. But too much inhibition could hold somebody back from success. Too low inhibition could be quite risky.

Low inhibition and high neuroticism seem conflicting. Do you mean low inhibition and low neuroticism?

Haven’t been out a while. Do most bars have at least one type of non-alcoholic beer available?

I’m surprised Sara hooked up with Marco. When I first read that Marco was an intelligent nice guy, my first guess was he’d be a good friendzone guy for long talks instead. But we know nothing about Marco’s looks. Maybe he is better looking than we thought.

Year-round Short King Spring lol.

What did you drink when out at bars that’s not alcohol?

Exactly. For better or worse, the longer the dry spell, the more a guy will focus on platonic or professional interactions with women.

She friendzoned the loyal guys. So what’s left? Disloyal guys.