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Wow never realized, there’s a noticeable difference. Yep, here’s a pic of her and her husband for anyone who’s curious.

I literally said in my first post when creating this thread that I’m taking the necessary steps to move my life forward... Those steps are more related to building savings, completing education, and launching a career and those are more important than my situation with women right now, something...

You’re still more experienced than me just with your unpaid experiences, and that’s a respectable amount of experience. I related to her first point the most too. I’ve been doing that all my life and yeah, you feel like you’re turning the tables on them by rejecting them before they get the...

True its not like it has happened constantly to either of us, but it would be interesting to see how often it would happen if we were both more regularly in scenarios where it could happen since I’m never around women as I already said and women aren’t likely to initiate on public transit too...

I live in a big city too and I think that makes it even more frustrating because I’m never around women despite living in a densely populated area, its not like I’m living in a rural area with hardly any people around. I think it has more to do with my day to day life and what I’ve done for...

Yeah I do agree with that. I’ve been thinking for awhile now that I should work with a guy who can help adult men with no dating experience get out there for the first time and learn what they need to know from any success or failure. There are a few of these guys and they aren’t that expensive...

It is totally possible to be worse, being an inexperienced guy in your 40’s is worse than being one in your 30’s and being one in your 20’s isn’t as bad as being one in your 30’s.

Yeah I never had anyone to tell me that rejection was just part of the process back when I was coming of age and obviously knew nothing at all about any of this. That’s another reason why I think I ended up in my 30’s with no experience with women, not having any kind of male role model to help...

They can figure that out even if you don’t tell them. Usually women who have an average amount of experience can tell when a man doesn’t have any, in addition to the fact that an inexperienced man can make mistakes and fail at reading non verbal cues, which can also make that apparent. But I’ve...

I am aware. You are not the first person on this forum to tell me that. I want them both resolved simultaneously if possible because dating with no experience when you’re 31 is difficult enough, I will be older by the time the socio economic issues are resolved and then dating will be even more...

That’s good you had that too because them initiating can be rare. He probably rates guys low on purpose to blackpill them if you got higher ratings everywhere else. He is pretty much an incel content creator, and incels complain about their looks more than anything else, so he probably does...

That’s true. None of these 3 instances was because of me demonstrating leadership, but I can see how that can lead to women initiating if you do find yourself in that scenario since you’re taking control and asserting some dominance to lead others.

Yeah that’s what I’m trying to do and I’m working towards it. The lack of experience can definitely make it a lot harder to weed out women who are just taking advantage of you for money and other resources. The main way I view this though is that my lack of experience is very unappealing and...

I agreed with the first point she made in that video, but I usually don’t listen to any of these female dating coaches for men. There were other parts of her video that I didn’t agree with and felt she didn’t go in depth enough at examining this situation of being older and inexperienced. I’m...

There are never women around me. I haven’t met any women at all in several years. I’m out and about pretty often, but there’s never any women around when I am. I didn’t do anything at all to pull them in, all 3 came onto me. It would be interesting what the statistics would be if my exposure to...

Well in terms of upbringing and self esteem, I saw several friends get harshly rejected by girls they were interested in starting at a very young age and that shattered my self esteem to the point that I never even tried to date and still haven’t at the age of 31. I have always felt that I...

I’ve had 3 women initiate with me. The first one is how I lost my virginity at 21. I didn’t go out with the other 2. What you said here makes me wonder how I’m perceived by women when it comes to looks because as a guy who has very little experience with women at 31, questioning your looks is a...

Oh definitely, I wouldn’t be surprised if over half of them end up divorced. I was just acknowledging what Gamisch said about how men are stepping out of the game at around this age since I am aware how far behind I am. That’s why I never want to get married. Even if I turn this all around and...

Her first point about anticipatory rejection was good. That’s exactly what I’m guilty of doing as a defense mechanism. She’s actually married. I don’t remember what her husband looks like, but I’m sure she has pics with him on her IG. Inexperience aside, I wouldn’t get a date because of the...

Yeah she tries to give dating advice for men, which normally I wouldn’t listen to because I believe that men shouldn’t take dating advice from women, but men who have plenty of success with women. This video from her specifically pertained to my situation though. I should’ve added that in...