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    to focus on yourself can lead to loosing love for yourself.

    Twisted and beaten by life I pull on my training dress and go for a jog. It feels like there is a million little dwarfs beating inside my head as I get out of door and make my first steps into the morning. Life seems hopeless, iv lost all faith, no meaning no point. But it gets better with...
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    The paradox of feeling good

    Could it be that the meaning of life is just to feel good, possible but this is not what i want to talk about. We all want to feel good and we can be very egoistic when trying to reach that goal. QUESTION: When do you feel better A) When your friend tells a great joke and you and all...
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    how do we actually change

    I would appriciate if you would tell your ideas or agree with mine but as far as I understand the process, it goes like this it all starts with motivation -} -}search for info(most important as I find it difficult myself which things to take as useful or not) -} -}think(example. you...
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    PROBLEM: the focus is entirely on you vs focus is on the present world around you

    Thank you for listening my friends. In faith i turn to you because i believe there are wize and smart dons who could give me some direction. I am on a tough cross-road here, and im not quite sure which is the right road. on these boards it is mostly tought that the focus must always be on...
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    dont make the same mistake, all of us here are getting off course

    We are off course my fellow Don Juan’s. Lately I have sadly been involved in all sorts of social games. Maybe it’s because I am probably really down on my game and confidence at the moment but I can feel my self getting stronger and more secure everyday, even though I might not show it. There...
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    diamonds vs balloons

    I encountered an interesting thing today. To no suprise I am still far from being my true self. I have listened to many audio tapes on spiritual material and Tony robbins and read some great articles from sosuave and elsehwere and one theme that kept coming up was that You do not have to prove...
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    advice needed on eyecontact

    When i first found this site I started to force eye contact with everyone on the street. At first i must have been a total creep :D but soon i found out that almost all people cannot hold eyecontact and tend to look right away when they have caught your glance. I always used to look children...
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    The reason why true men are becoming more rare

    The other night I happened to read these 3 quotes: “A steady sea never made a great sailor” “We have no great war, no great depression”- by pook “Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him” And my mind started to understand something that is wrong with our society, the cause off the...
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    Your life purpose is to find out who you really are

    Insecure people are not happy with who they are. They want themselves to be something else and more often than not they do not even really know what they want to be. The player does know (somewhat) what he wants to be. He has probably read “the game” and wants to be an ultimate pick-up-artist...
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    a contradiction in pooks works "be a man"&"be the prize"

    I This has been bugging me for a while... you cannot be the prize and a true man at the same time because a true man does what ever is needed to get the woman he is interested in. Atleast he should get the woman to open her true self to her, to see if she is really worth dating. But that...
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    a contradiction in pooks works "be a man"&"be the prize"

    I This has been bugging me for a while... you cannot be the prize and a true man at the same time because a true man does what ever is needed to get the woman he is interested in. Atleast he should get the woman to open her true self to her, to see if she is really worth dating. But that...
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    mind-gamed or tested by woman always means BAD

    Why do women throw tests at us, why do they play mind-games, why do they play hard to get? And why does the PUA then say: “OO YEAH, MY TIME HAS COME, for I can now show her that I am a man. “ WE have all heard of passing her **** tests, being persistent etc, but what does it all come down...
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    Its not all black & white

    It is true that in order to truly give people something, you must be in the position of power (the prize) to do so. You are the Don Juan; you have the power to supply people with good emotions. Because everyone enjoys receiving good emotions, but they need to feel that they have earned these...
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    an insight on WHY THINGS DO NOT END UP AS THEY SHOULD

    It is true that people who don’t love themselves are not able to love others, but they love to control others. This happens more often than we could imagine. Almost all relationships suffer this because to say it bluntly:there are not enough true men nor women arround anymore. So we are...
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    you need to GIVE to recieve and how I was wrong about the prize mentality

    Yes believe it or not it is true that you need to give to others. You need to give to others, or they will not like you and even worse you will not enjoy yourself. “But I do not care if others like me, I am the prize to be won“ YOU FOOL the most powerful and charismatic men living on this...
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    A true DON JUAN needs to know HOW to learn from MISTAKES

    most people learn from mistakes THE WRONG WAY! I got some very good ideas from my last post about manipulation&being your true self and also from other similar posts (senor Fingers for example) ... but there is another area where most of us go wrong, while learning „game“ and it is...
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    AFC = PUA=(sadly many don juans) = just a plain manipulator(of women)

    Yes i have to say in advance that manipulation might get you women so if that is all you are looking for at www.sosuave.net is a vagina to “store” your wagon then please stop reading this post immediately I am here to say that:”Yes, Women want honesty more than anything.” I can visualize...
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    AFC=player=(sadly many don juan)=PLAIN MANIPULATORS

    Although it must be said upfront, that manipulators may be somewhat successful with women, so if all you are looking for from www.sosuave.net is just a vagina to store your "vagon" then please stop reading this post right now. I am here to state:"Yes, women do want honesty above anything...
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