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  1. RangerMIke

    Reasons chicks give for flaking...

    Flaking happens, it happens to us all. It has happened to me at least a half dozen times in 2018... I honestly lost count because in truth I never really think about it anymore. It's just normal chick behavior. The thing that is unusual is finding on the NEVER flakes, these are rare birds...
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    When you appear to be a Rembrandt... you will be tested.

    Got a PM yesterday and I’ve seen a few threads on this board with the general theme that men are checking all the boxes… They workout, look great, dress well, have good jobs, and yet they are still having trouble getting the chicks they want. This is all completely normal and nothing to worry...
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    Lot of posts lately from guys interested in taken chicks....

    .... followed by confusion about the signals they are getting, trying to understand what it all means. Well... for what it is worth I will give my impression based on 35 years of dating experience... I think what confuses a lot of men the most is when women don't act like men. They are...
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    One big mistake I see lots of men doing....

    And that is allowing women to use you. Normally categorized as 'nice guy' behavior. But it goes beyond that. I had a couple of recent examples of chicks trying to use me that I would like to share and what the impact was. KP (32 yoga instructor with a smoking hot bod). About a month ago I...
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    Biggest mistake men make when they are in serious LTR.

    Spent last night listen to a buddy who is going through a marriage breakup. I've had these conversations with many guy friends over the years while they polished off whatever bottle of what they were drinking (last night it was gin). A majority of these break-ups all boils down to two...
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    Had a conversation with a chick I used to date who recently married.

    I'd been suspecting this for some time, but over the last couple of years I have noticed a trend with chicks I would date. We wold date and hook up for few months... then another dude would wander into the picture and off she would go with him... no worries, there are always more chicks. But...
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    Patience.....

    .... is the most important trait of a DJ. Case in point today. I have dates with two flaky @ss chicks this week, one tonight and one tomorrow. Normally I like to nail things down when I first make a date, but because of ambiguity of a couple of events I was going to, I needed to let some...
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    Testing...

    I got a PM from a member asking me about testing, why chicks do it and how to respond. I never really gave it much thought... my advice is if she's making things hard go find other chicks... and if she's no fun... go find fun chicks. Chicks are not testing you... they are testing themselves...
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    A recurring problem with my friends...

    There must be something in the water because I've had FOUR really good friends in the last couple of weeks have the same problem with their relationship chicks. That problem is that their chick suddenly started getting b!tchy. We have all been there, here is the reason it happens and what you...
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    What to do when you are in a slump....

    We all go through periods of being up and down... right now I've been having a string of bad dates and low interest chicks. Lost one of my GFs... now down to two, and I get a sense I'm about to drop another (We had that stupid 'what are we' talk last week, history says she's about to move on to...
  11. RangerMIke

    Weekly report....

    Well this week started off okay, got bad in the middle and picked up at the end. In fact.... today was of of the best I'd had in awhile. One of the women I am seeing laid down the gauntlet a couple of months ago.... said she wanted exclusivity or we are done. I told her that was her choice...
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    Field Report...

    Early this week there were complaints that there were not a whole lots of real world success stories. I'm going to try and post something once a week and and try to highlight observations for comment. Be advised I do not like doing this... I am not one to brag but I will say there REALLY is...
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    First sign she's drifting off.

    Got a PM from someone asking me what is the first sign I get indicating a woman is about to drift off. I had to think about it a bit and in my experience, the canary in the coal mine, so to speak, that sh!t is about to go sideways, is that she starts showing signs that does not really enjoy...
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    Well I got dumped... AGAIN!

    This one only lasted 3 months. This is the life of a DJ, women cutting you lose because you won't commit. You are not truly a DJ until a chick you really dig, cuts you off and you can just move on. What what should one do about this? Well, make a date Friday with the new yoga instructor...
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    What I learned in the Army and how it helps with women...

    The two most important things a soldier can do is (1) Look good. (2) Know where you are. This isn't to say these are the only important things, but but if you don't get these right, nothing else you do will matter. My Brigade Commander, when I was a company commander, taught me this, and...
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    Observation on Social Media...

    Not much of a social media guy...I mostly have accounts to watch and see what my kids are doing. I post something MAYBE 4 times a year. But I've noticed something over the last couple of years that is interesting and wondered if others noticed the same thing. Women, who are looking to branch...
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    Tried something different last Friday...

    I haven't been to a 'club', unless it was with my nephew looking for help with his game in YEARS. But, last Friday after an event I went to place in the Warehouse District of NOLA. There were very few people their my age, or in my what I consider perfect strike zone (women in their mid to late...
  18. RangerMIke

    Saw a great bumper sticker today....

    It said.... "She might be beautiful... but there is some guy out there that is sick of she sh!t" Man is that not the freaking truth.
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    What women respond too... the player v. the nice BF

    Was at a holiday party last night was doing what I always do at parties, having a good time talking to people, really wasn't in the mood to meet new women, there was a nice eclectic mix of interesting people and I was having fun talking a joking around. I noticed a women from across the room...
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    Excuses women give when they flake...

    All women do this, and ALL men have had this done to them. You really can't take this stuff serious, got flaked tonight but the excuse I was given was one I had never heard.... "Hey, was knee deep in work and was so pissed at the other party (she's a lawyer) that I left and just went home and...
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