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  1. GrowingPains

    Should i go to bed with this girl?

    Such is life. Keep fishing. Don't get upset when your line breaks. It's part of the game.
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    Forcing myself to work out, help.

    Regarding the mental battles of working out: just do it. We often want to spend life thinking about how to make things easier. How to find some magic hack that will make us feel like working out all day every day. A hack that makes us love work. A hack that makes us want to study. It doesn't...
  3. GrowingPains

    Should i go to bed with this girl?

    Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck. That's what I said, right?
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    Should i go to bed with this girl?

    If you wanna fvck, then fvck. Simple.
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    Am I being a chode?

    So what happens to a person if they don't have their demons (feelings, in your case)?
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    A Very Specific Boyfriend Situation

    Then do what you want. She will either comply or not. Simple as that. Go for it. But don't be surprised at the outcomes. The successes will be far outweighed by the failures.
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    Am I being a chode?

    I think it's natural to only like a small number of women. I have been with many but only really felt anything for 1 over the past year. You just haven't found a girl you connect with. When you do, you'll know and that will set the standard. Just because she's hot doesn't mean you'll fall in...
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    Why do I feel like I always need to pull

    I have also been thinking about the quality woman thing recently. Two women have recently made me realize how valuable a quality woman is opposed to low quality. I certainly prefer fit, professional, mature, badass women. After interacting with those two, my bar has been raised. I have thought...
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    No one is born gay

    What's the point of such speculation... Straight males trying to figure out if gay males can be born gay. Shouldn't you ask a gay guy? Then the question is whether they're properly interpreting their memories. So it seems to me the only way to figure out if someone is born gay is to go to the...
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    "Is it okay if I'm with my friends?"

    Ask her how many and tell her you'll bring your mates.
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    A Very Specific Boyfriend Situation

    Just hang out with her. Keep being Mr. Popular and hook up with her friends. That's your best chance of maintaining the friend group and having a chance with her in the future. You could also just shoot your shot and risk it all. First route seems more fruitful imo.
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    Why do I feel like I always need to pull

    Went out with my friends tonight. I have been realizing that I always feel that I need to end up with a girl or else the night isn't a success. In fact, I even told my friend this last time when I was out with him. I envy those that don't care. They can have a good time without approaching...
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    Text rapport VS asking out

    The only time I would advocate for texting is when you feel there's a good connection between the two of you and it feels 'easy'. She will make it easy for you, and you'll know she is because it'll seem like she WANTS to talk. But even then, keep it limited and light.
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    Telling her LJBF

    So I went on a date last night. It was the kind of date you go on because... Well the girl seems fvckable, ykno? But you don't wanna date this chick. I just needed my needs met, yagetme. So she's .. a 5.64, I'd say. Yeah I know, rating is accurate af. Significant figures 'n sh!t. It comes with...
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    Text rapport VS asking out

    Stop playing games and tell her you are going 'here' at 'this' time and that she should come. 'Hey I'll be at X (some local bar) next Friday at 8. You should come and have a drink'. If she comes, she comes. If she doesn't, she doesn't. Go somewhere you will enjoy and where I'd she doesn't, you...
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    She wants to play Kill, Marry or Bang

    First off, it's 'fvck, marry, kill'.
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    nicksaiz65 Odyssey

    Cheers man. I think I aced that sh!t. We'll see. I'm taking the grad level one in the fall. So lmk if you got a question or sum.
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    nicksaiz65 Odyssey

    Linear algebra. Success is all laid out for you - at least at this point in our lives anyways. Hard part is conquering your inner b!tch. That's what makes the execution a challenge.
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    nicksaiz65 Odyssey

    I feel this. I'm studying for an exam I have in 6 hours. And even though I've been giving you advice here and there, I'll be honest that I haven't been the best at following it myself. That's why I'm still studying on the day of. Don't get me wrong, I've been studying since last week, but I...
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