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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    Sorry for late response. I always stay calm. If you get worked up you fail the test. In terms of food quality, my wife is a pretty good cook so I never complain. Her food is way better than anything I make, LOL.
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    Only 1. My wife had a couple of miscarriages. She was over30....another reason to always marry younger, never older. Yes we got married in the US. I bought the ring and my wife 100% did the wedding.
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    Why are people against improvement? A rant

    You can never retire...even decades into a marriage. The fundamental principles of seduction (getting a woman to love you/raising interest level) are the same, regardless of short or long run. The male mind is designed to solve a problem and then move onto another problem. That is great for...
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    Why are people against improvement? A rant

    22 year old post, but if OP were here today I would tell him this: Pancho, I wanted to jump in because it is important. You are absolutely 100% doing the right thing, and don't let ANYBODY deter you from self improvement. Bodybuilding will TREMENDOUSLY increase your value, you just have to...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    This is all pretty consistent with my view of tests. The bottom line is not to be drawn into an argument (the test). Stay calm, cool, tell her "sweetie, I see you are upset but I am not going to argue." Then remove yourself from the situation. That sends the message "if you want to be around me...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    I have some pretty hard and fast rules here. I do some LT relationship coaching and the #1 problem among guys who are naturally good at getting women, Alpha male types, is arguing in relationships. Several of my best friends (elite combat and strength athletes) have gotten divorced over this...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    Oh yeah...my wife did everything possible to fatten up the whole family. She is a gourmet cook and use to make really fattening food. However nowadays the whole family eats clean...my sons wrestling career helped. In regards to testing, women will always do that, it never ends. But passing...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    Children change everything. My son is the center piece of my life and my wife is an excellent mother. She has, over the last decades, earned my respect and loyalty. However, women still need to realize that if they left you could easily find another women.
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    Correct, and here is why: It never ends. Men (with our problem solution hard wiring) like to solve a problem and one on to another problem. Women, with their process oriented minds like to keep working on something endlessly. Marriage is that way. You have to constantly manage (and hopefully...
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    Help with nightclub game

    I worked doors for years myself but nightclubs are not that bad, either. Even at my age I get plenty of women to dance with me and even had one grinding on my a few weeks ago. Night game is not dead.
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    Help with nightclub game

    This gal gave you multiple buying signals. You should have pulled her out on the dance floor and danced with her. From there depending upon her response you could escalate with kino. If you can't hear her let her know you can't using sign language, like pointing to your ear and shaking your...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    I am much older and while I have a bodybuilder physique, my face really went downhill after the age of 60. At my local gym white/American women, if I smile and say hello give me that "don't even get near me you creepy old man" look. I am most certainly not hitting on them, just being polite. I...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    I have been happily married for 18 years. I wanted a family, especially a son that I have today. Here is a clip of my son wrestling this weekend. Shaping and molding my son into into an elite athlete has been one of the biggest pleasures of my life. 533208349249932 However if you want to get...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    The other concern is body fat and muscle mass. I was 212 lbs and under 11% b fat which was a really good place to be. Probably around 5 foot 9. However my body fat levels have been inching up and I am 230 now and probably around 15%. I liked being leaner. I am on TRT but keep my total test...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    Good. If you are high normal there is no reason to mess with that.
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    OK...so I tell people to do their research...to get a knowledge base. You clearly have done that, you seem to be extraordinarily knowledgeable. From there is into action (I think that was actually the name of an article by Pook). Are you opening women every day? Have you developed the sense of...
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    Ways to use being ethnically ambiguous to my advantage?

    Oh, yeah, every way. I just don't like the way it makes me feel anymore.
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    Doc Love was right about 80% of the time. However no way I was going to pay $200 (20 years ago) for his book, LOL. I did listen to his radio show. He died more than 10 years back BTW. There were other early guys in the seduction community that used the term interest level as well. I still use...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    It bears repeating: Psychologists think that communication is the key to relationships. They are wrong, wrong, wrong. It is whether or not the woman loves the man, operationalized as interest level. They also think that male and female brains are similar in design. This is a politically driven...
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    Is it even worth it for a guy like me to try with making moves in-person?

    I have posted many times about the inability to get good relationship advice from traditional academics, whether therapists and or relationship counselors with PhD's (I have one myself....so trust me when I say academics are useless). The same about 12 step programs. Therapy can be great for...
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