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    Why I think most relationships fail

    I believe most people ignore those red flags because they are afraid to be alone. I remember my first ex girlfriend who was a solid 10 and i thought I could never pull someone that pretty with the same amazing compatibility/ connection we had. She showed some major red flags, which I chose to...
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    Why I think most relationships fail

    I see alot of threads where most advice is that she should respect you etc etc. But I feel like most of this advice can be summed up in to just “LOVE YOURSELF”. So what does this mean? When looking for a partner you need to know who you are, what you look for in a partner and obviously also...
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    How to find a wife in this western world?

    it kinda sucks sometimes looking back at my past relationship knowing its almost impossible to make a modern woman submit without being a toxic *******. I guess the only way is to avoid these women and look outwide the west. If only these women knew that trusting a good man with everything is...
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    How to find a wife in this western world?

    Lol bro, the thing is. I dont have it in me to marry a woman whom I dont have a connection with. Whats so wrong with that? Surely the good women are amazing wives but whats the point if i dont have a connection with them? Finding both seems difficult for me.
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    How to find a wife in this western world?

    My ex for example always wanted this. But she herself was not a submissive woman. More like a bossbitch type of girl who needs to have control due to insecurity. Sadly these types usually are the most fun and not boring. Sadly most good women i meet are boring and i cant seem to have a...
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    This is the cringiest **** I have ever seen on youtube.

    So there is this woman named thewizardliz who is clearly a narcissistic, self absorbed person but has a HUGE following on youtube. She gives toxic advice and women all around the world support her like crazy. Just read the comments for example. Its the red pill/ andrew tate type of person for...
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    How to find a wife in this western world?

    Hi guys, it has been 6 months since my breakup with my ex girlfriend. Same old story. I wasnt happy in the relationship, she didnt get the love she needed, alot of fights, she broke up with me to open my eyes, I then broke up with her after being together again for 1 day, because once you do...
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    6 month relationship break up after me not going after her

    what should i do exactly? Any books i should read for example to get a better understanding? I really dont wanna game women or play power games which i think is abusive behaviour. Thankfully I have a turkish passport and turkish roots where we have alot of young non westernized women that would...
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    6 month relationship break up after me not going after her

    Turns out the fight wasnt about me wanting more time it was about the entire picture of how the relationship was going. Needs werent fulfilled i think and we both felt like **** leading to us finding self love and wanting what we both want. I think it just doesnt match. We both didnt communicate...
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    6 month relationship break up after me not going after her

    i think i know what the problem is, now how to deal with it and if this relationship could ever work. She is open to talk to me and figure it out together which i will try tonight. My theory is that in the beginning when we first met she told me things like “talking on the phone for an hour is...
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    6 month relationship break up after me not going after her

    Thank you very much. This is the last text she sent me. It makes me feel quite guilty, and almost want me to say sorry and that I understand her… but when i look at the facts of how the relationship went, its all her perspective and zero from mine. While i can even understand how she could have...
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    6 month relationship break up after me not going after her

    Hi I have been lurking this forum for a couple of days now and need some advice on this recent breakup. Maybe you guys can give me some pointers of things i may not yet have realised. Little background story. I met this girl on tinder 6 months ago, we told eachother i love you after a month and...
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