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    Does DJ = Player?

    I can't argue here. While there are woman who don't really care what a guy looks like and just care how much cash he has (mercenaries), the vast majority of woman will either find you worthy of a possible relationship or unworthy in a matter of seconds after meeting you. The first thing a...
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    Does DJ = Player?

    Wlydefire, the vast majority of the personals in newpapers and magazines have common themes and wants expressed by women who post personal advertisements. A lot of them want (typically) successful men, who are well educated and are reasonably wealthy. The universality of these common set of...
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    Does DJ = Player?

    It's a danger sometimes writing a pithy response and over generalizing. Wyldefire, what I wrote was "too cut and dry." Like you pointed out there are a lot of other things that involve attraction: personality, good looks, ability to make woman laugh, being charming, positive attitude and so...
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    Does DJ = Player?

    What is so sad is that a woman's attraction to a man is built around her ego. By getting a man who has the "pick of the litter" she is showing to everyone that she is in someway special as you point out. By her thinking she has a good catch, she elevates her ego. In other words, it is...
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    Negotiation for Successful DJing

    What is so disturbing, that you alluded to, is that the true basis of her attraction is not *you* but her *ego*. The reason a lot of woman do want you, is so she can satisfy *her* ego. I have woefully experienced that "promised land of high interest." It was simply a ploy to get me hooked...
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    How to Eliminate Desire

    Survivor, I would like to hear your input on this. What did I miss? --DD
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    How to Eliminate Desire

    I used the term "eliminating desire" because I was referring to Dex's first rule in the Tao of Steve. I agree to a certain extent to what you are saying. If you were truly without desire, you wouldn't be wanting to go out or date a woman in the first place. Controlling your desire (in terms...
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    How to Eliminate Desire

    I saw the "Tao of Steve" fairly recently, and noticed what the guy was talking about, I was also thinking about. Ya, it is a good movie to see. --DD
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    How to Eliminate Desire

    So what makes a person an AFC? Is his style? Is it his looks? Is it the things he says? No. What makes an AFC is himself. More specifically, it is his internal scripts or mind set that makes him the way he is. The AFC's internal scripts are varied and mostly jumbled. But there are usually...
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    A woman's view on "nice" must read!

    I don't have time to respond to this. I just wanted to say a brief, "Hi" to you Wyldfire. Haven't seen you posting for a while. Good to hear your alive, kicking and sticking to your keen intellect Hope all is well. --DD
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    Success Story - Using DJ tactics on an afternoon date!

    You've done great so far but now the time is right to take some action and really see if this woman likes you or not. Like a cougar that circles a prey for a weakness and strikes, so you must now strike when she shows some serious interest in you with the type of things she is saying. This is...
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    Success Story - Using DJ tactics on an afternoon date!

    You've done great so far but now the time is right to take some action and really see if this woman likes you or not. Like a cougar that circles a prey for a weakness and strikes, so you must now strike when she shows some serious interest in you with the type of things she is saying. This is...
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    If you think she's playing games/mixed signals

    You will never make it to a DJ status if you are unable to walk away from a woman. Even if you are in a long term relationship with one, you must be willing to walk away even if it breaks your heart. A true DJ first and foremost repects himself and no matter how he feels or how emotionally...
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    Just Play the Game

    This type of attitude has really removed fear from approaching women. It works. --DD
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    The Holy Grail of Dating

    I'm bumping this baby. --DD
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    Just Play the Game

    It is really crazy. Check out this post by Pook: http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/002743.html As for the no desire, we are saying the same thing. I know and feel I am on the right track. --DD
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    Just Play the Game

    Nope, I haven't. I may check it out sometime. This particular post I came up with on my own, and it is really just some further thoughts that relate to my post: "The Holy Grail of Dating." --DD
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    Just Play the Game

    I was watching the movie, “The Legend of Bager Vance” and one phrase really struck me: It wasn’t until last night that I fully became to understand the full import of that statement. For the first time in my life, I went up to a woman and asked her for her home phone number with no fear. I...
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    Best book for success with women

    Yep, I've read the art of seduction. It is really a fascinating book and it has definitely influenced my thinking. From that book, it has really highlighted the certain qualities that make me attractive. Great stuff. --DD
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    The Holy Grail of Dating

    I've read a lot of Richard Dawkins books, am a great fan of Desmond Morris, and Edward O. Wilson (his book "On Human Virtue" I found fascinating). I have big science background and have found evolutionary psychology invaluable in understanding human beings. Meatball, go ahead and read the rest...
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