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  1. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Yes. ALL humans change over time. We are dynamic beings. In a healthy marriage the couple is committed to growning together over time through thick and thin. In an unhealthy marriage people grow apart. Thr difference maker is the character and level of committment of the two people in the...
  2. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Yes my post demonstrates the dynamic. But dynamics change through time. The guy became a controlling jerk as he earned more & became more entitled secondary to his income. Meanwhile the wife (who has always been beautiful and a stay at home mother/wife was not exponentially increasing in her...
  3. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    To respond to @AmsterdamAssassin about the couple who divorced: They were a very attractive young couple, college sweethearts. They were both upper middle class backgrounds. He was extremely ambitious and was driven to financial success at any cost. Honestly he can be a major ass hole...
  4. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    There are various ways to set up a relationship on your terms @davidsonj73 but its best to have the character to be honest and transparent about that. And understand that you'll lose some quaility women by setting those parameters as not every lady will go along with something The uber...
  5. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    There are lots of men here, in the Manosphere, in the population at large (normies, elites, etc.) who simply wish to acquire sufficient skill to meet, date, lock down and in many cases marry a woman who would be compliment to his life. This idea that she's got to be a Maxim model when he's a...
  6. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Lol. My view of the rich & famous is not exalted. However men who have unlimited options, there must be reasons these men choose marriage over debauchery or some other alternative. My political views are counter to yours to say the least but we must leave that aside. So let's get back to...
  7. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Ok @AmsterdamAssassin I perhaps should have chosen billionnaire Warren Buffet, also married, and for decades to the same wife. Your politics dont matter, billionnaires are high status, high value men by any standard. It was not a political comment. If there are billionnaires who see value in...
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    I'm tired hearing couples refer to each other as "partners"

    I'm married. I say husband or spouse, but marriage is also a partnership. So if someone on occassion uses that term who cares? It does bug me that my 19 yo daughter calls her boyfriend of 3.5 years "my partner" and she subscribes to much of the woke nonsense. So I get it. She also tends...
  9. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Same is true of Rupert Murdoch. But plenty of men pick a chick and stick too, including most of the rest on my off the cuff list. Here's the thing. Being married and supporting a full time wife & at home mother for your children has become a status symbol. Why? Because the average man...
  10. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    In a great wife you have sex on tap, a partner who backs you & supports you, a confidant, a helper, a companion and a sacred physical intimacy that is an emotional bond between two people; a life mate. That is before you get to the arena of a nuclear family unit, stability for children and all...
  11. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    To @davidsonj73 I agree with you. My son and his wife are best friends and adore one another. She gushes that my son is "the love of her life" and they both are excited about children. I would bet I become a grandma soon. She sews and did the alterations for her bridesmaids ahead of the...
  12. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Then don't marry. But understand that the vast majority of worthwhile women will require marriage to keep a relationship.... So when you are left with the crazy ones nobody wanted to marry, don't ask me why.
  13. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Guys it's like this. You can fear monger or you can lead & live your lives and select a destiny with a high chance for success. My son married a woman who was a virgin, who has been in love with him since 14, they started dating when she was 16. They met in Catholic gradeschool at age 10 (my...
  14. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    My son married last weekend. He commissioned two weeks before that. He and his wife are Catholic and all those benefits are going to be of great value as they get going in life together. He is an outlier, no doubt. Wonder where he learned that? His grandfather was a military officer and Air...
  15. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Not if you want the benefits of a military officer my friend. Base housing, healthcare, etc. etc. requires marriage.
  16. BeExcellent

    About marriage

    Two Words: Nuclear Family. Marriage remains the best and most stable environment for raising children there is. I see other benefits beyond just that one, but that is the main one.
  17. BeExcellent

    Talents And Skills That Can Get A Man Laid

    TF? No drugs or dealer needed my dear. You'll never have the charm with women if you don't like women & dislike being social with women. The OP wants to know what works. THAT works (charm).
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    How Do Women Feel When Sex Doesn't Happen? Salvageable?

    First, thank you for your candor in sharing this because it happens to guys more than you might think. And my guy friends tell me it's often not age related. Is it salvageable? Tough to answer that. Has she been in touch? Have you reached out? The longer it sits with no contact the more...
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    Talents And Skills That Can Get A Man Laid

    Advice from the old lady: The only honest answer to this question is "It depends." Unless you are a pro baller, musician or celebrity. Too bad if none of that applies to you. Seriously the answer is "It depends." What does it depend on? You of course and what you are working with as your...
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