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    What books should I read next?

    Agree with this, reiterates a lot of stuff that’s already been covered by others. It’s a short book and easy to read I like his red flags chapter.
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    Asking for a divorce (UK)

    Thanks guys, just seems one of the hardest things I’ve had to do, but know it’s for the best! I’ll keep you posted….
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    Asking for a divorce (UK)

    I’ve been married for over 20 years (now 48) been miserable for a number of years. Now I’ve done the work seen all the red flags I missed at the beginning, she’s 5 years older, controlling, gained loads of weight, no respect, and no sex etc. I know I’ll do well once I start dating, I’m 6’4...
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    What books should I read next?

    Unplugged Alpha by Rich Cooper
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks I’ll look to add to my stack, was already thinking of tongkat
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks, everything is good. Well May be the attraction, she’s got an amazing figure but no boobs. I’ve cut back a bit too on jiu jitsu I was doing it sometimes twice a day 5 days a week, now down to 3-4 sessions a week, so hopefully more energy.
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks appreciate it, thankfully she’s been really good about it. Hopefully as I settle in to it a bit more I’ll be back to normal
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks, I’m always a gent
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks, not stressed. But new relationship so only been at it for a few weeks. Seems my recovery is like three days. I’ll be able smash daily but only finish every other one or so. Went away for a few days and had a few sessions over a few hours and was only able to finish the once. After a...
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    Help - can’t finish

    It’s tight already, no kids, and she’s very petite. Might try some exercises myself though
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks, she’s definitely getting off even when I don’t finish. I’ll just try to relax and not worry about it.
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    Help - can’t finish

    Update - smashed a few more times, managed to finish about 50% of the time. Hoping things will improve as I’ve stopped fapping.
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks both, will explore more and try out.
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thought this might also be the case with age, hope it’s just a passing thing.
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    Help - can’t finish

    To add I’m 48, not had this problem before, probably the opposite, been over quicker than I’d like. I’m in great shape been hitting the gym 3-4 times per week for 20 years, plus jiu jitsu 3-4 times per week.
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    Help - can’t finish

    Thanks all, I think it is the boobies that’s the problem, never had this issue before. Went from a marriage with EE’s to the A cup. Shame everything else is perfect with this chick. Getting an erection with her is easy, it’s just the finishing, did managed to the first time but took bloody...
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    Help - can’t finish

    Just starting seeing this chick, really dig her. Starting to smash, problem is I can’t ***, I went for an hour nothing not even close. She’s starting to think it’s her. She’s got a great body, but no boobs and I’m a boobs man. Am I doomed, any suggestions on how to ***. not been fapping for...
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    The thing women most value is sex appeal

    Yep this, genuine burning desire is my number green flag.
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    I Haven't Busted A Nut In 5 Weeks, Ask Me Anything.

    Well done to those who are no fapping. I too started no fapping a few months ago, one of the hardest habits I’ve had to break. I was worried I’d had a few weeks worth of retention and been on a couple of dates with a chick, not expecting to bang her I hadn’t knocked one out beforehand, thought...
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    Dating someone with herpes?

    Thanks guys I kinda knew the answer, pains me to pass on this, but I’m going to pass. Thanks for confirming my thoughts.
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