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    What to be aware of an open marriage with kid?

    Hey guys. I am on an open marriage now, where the wife (I know she has way more options) was cheated on by myself and then she cheated. I would like to bring women home, but she does not want that, but i will and have to. I will not bang her anymore, since she is an extremely aggressive liar...
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    I never ate her out, nor will I do so in the future. And I understand, of course, that was a BULL - Cuckold dynamic which was her fetish. She now allowed me to do whatever I want, I am thinking about the one-sided open relationship for a couple of years. So my son and my family can be stay...
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    I mean, its not okay to be a cuck. Never, in her reality it was a open relationship affair.
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    I think there is a misconception here, i am in Budapest, in another city right now. And I am just practicing here... to get rid of all these drama. that's it. Of course i am in therapy as well and my wife I guess will also need some.. I am not interested in gaming until the end of my life...
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    Yes why not. I understand, I am pretty sure we will not last forever, but why not be the father of my son as much as I can. Why not try your best to repair your marriage... at least I can try 5 more years when the father of my kid will be me. and it was also good New Relationship energy.
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    Thank you, @all, for the feedback, and yes I also see that that way. Although I have spoken to her today and she was quite relaxed. We made some plans with our kids and are also in a "Pair Consultation" to work through our goals and what we both want in terms of sexuality, or at least trying to...
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    My marriage is changing .. since the open relationship affair my wife had..

    I encouraged my wife to an open relationship, but expected, as we discussed, she will be telling me everything afterwards.. and so can I continue game.,. It did happen, my wife had a crush on the guy, and she did not tell me of course. Instead she acted like an affair and felt in love with the...
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    Things got a bit out of control, and now I have to decide...?

    Okay guys, we are still together, and she was not the ONE who choosed the open RELATIONSHIP and its closed. Now we have a short relationship break. lets see how it will be the next one year, will keep ypu guys updated. To be honest., I really don't care. The only thing I care will be the...
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    Things got a bit out of control, and now I have to decide...?

    I think you guys are right, she does not even have sex with me anymore, even she "promised". The problem will still be there. I guess I will focus on work and finding new people in my life.
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    Things got a bit out of control, and now I have to decide...?

    I understand, and thank you for the insight, but to be honest, I trust her that she would not do it again. In the meanwhile, I will read books about polyamory and polysecure. .. and will go out by myself. She told me she will tell me whenever the opportunity comes or she will get introduced...
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    Things got a bit out of control, and now I have to decide...?

    My wife and I choose an open relationship, so I can be with other women. I strongly got the idea from cuckolding, since I also want her to feel good. Otherwise, I would be guilty, so I encouraged her. She (40) slept with a 58-year-old man, who came on in her mouth after sex, she told me he...
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    What is going on here?

    Course I care about my wife. Wtf? I love her.
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    What is going on here?

    A married father (M34) here. My wife agreed to an open relationship, and my best friend got divorced with a kid. This question is all about my best friend, who is a female and has been very close to me and my family for 6 months now. I recently told her I had a crush when I was a teenager. When...
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    If you lose your ability to catch fish, your woman will seek another fisherman`?

    Me 33-year-old man with a business background and a wife, also a professional nerd, discussed my interest in Pickup and open relationships with my wife and a divorced best friend (W35, my best friend from high school). I suggested that as long as he is game for sex and not a relationship, I...
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    Me, my highschool best friend & my GF, how can we proceed surely and very slowly ...?

    We got a live one. Forewarning, I posted here. So that means I accept the terms of me absolutely tearing down my entire outlook on life. Last week, I (M33) went shopping with our divorced (best)friend (34F), who had previously been friends. We had a few flirtatious moments together, including...
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    How can I keep this lifestyle simple, how do people game in open relationships?

    In the next months, I will be going out, to improve my communication skills and also to live a bit outside my open relationship... we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun. The main problem is, that I almost have NO sexual desires and can't follow up with the...
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    How to escalate beside an open relationship, or do I think too much?

    Thank you for the insights, I appreciate and will let you guys know
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    How to escalate beside an open relationship, or do I think too much?

    My age 33 Her age : 33 I will meet her tomorrow for the first time, and she started asking everything about me, how old my kid is etc I did not tell her I am in an open relationship but she did only asked does your kid live with you, I answered yes. ? Idk. She asks me about everything in my...
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    How would you talk about your GF/wife with other Sets when you come closer?

    Thanks god, my wife has changed over the last 2 years, she said, if it has to you can bring her home.
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