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Day 9: Still in no contact. Everytime I get a text or call on my phone, I'm hoping it's from her and when I don't see her name on the notifications I get disappointed.

Yeah or monkeybranch to somebody else I don't know about. My friend has two newborns and a GF so the probability is lower there.

I have ups and downs. Sometimes I think about her and miss her but it's the disrespect that I had to go through that brings out the hate. It balances out the feelings of losing her. But I don't think this is healthy either.

Yeah, I confronted her about the flirting she said apologized and had a get over it attitude. I was cold for a week because I was still angry about the "tight" comment. But she broke up with me 1 week later saying I take her for granted and she doesn't feel appreciated. If that was the case then...

Low self-esteem + high sex-drive = for the streets!

Day 8: Damn, after reading the text I wanted to send her, I'm so glad I didn't send it. I feel better during the day while working, but it's always at night when I go to bed that I start missing and thinking about her.

Day 6: I had some friends and relatives over at my place since we broke up. They came the day after she broke up with me. I didn't mention anything to them about the breakup, so I was busy and occupied and didn't have to think about it. They left on Saturday, and I kept myself busy on Sunday...

Yeah, same for me. I had sex with a bunch of girl when I broke up with my ex and it felt good while f*cking them but it felt wrong before and after. I need time to heal. I'll go out tonight and approach girls, get numbers but I won't try to close

I was really good at setting the boundaries with her during the first year but somewhere down the line when she started to argue about stuff and I stopped setting boundaries the same way because of my fear of losing her. Now I understand though, never lose the frame and always set boundaries...

Thanks for your input but I can't let that sh*t slide

Lesson learned, I'll keep this in mind for my next relationship

She ended it

Posting this here as a reminder for myself and other guys that are going through the same thing. Found this in my old hard drive from way back. Written by Tyler from his RSD days: "Welcome to hell. I got dumped this year as well. She wanted to come back but had changed so drastically after...

Keep that list in your notes app in your phone. I created a long list and it has helped me.

She said that I take her for granted and that I don’t compliment her. Also that I won’t let her know what our future plans are (aka when we’ll get married). I told her she’s full of sh*t and why she didn’t break up with me a week ago instead of when I confronted her for flirting with my friend

This is my plan. Feel like **** for the first couple of weeks and allow myself to feel the pain. Cry if I have to, self-pity if I must. Will watch some “letting go” videos from Julien so I can process the break-up instead of using other outlets to escape my thoughts. I’ll also write down the...

This is my plan. Feel like **** for the first couple of weeks and allow myself to feel the pain. Cry if I have to, self-pity if I must. Will watch some “letting go” videos from Julien so I can process the break-up instead of using other outlets to escape my thoughts. I’ll also write down the...

You’re right, I dodged a bullet and I have to get better with setting the correct frame next time.

I will stay NC but I know there will be difficult days ahead. Already getting mind****ed about different scenarios. I’m no beta just should’ve set boundaries from the start with my friend and this wouldn’t have occurred. Lesson learned from the hard way.

Day 1: Created this post a week ago: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/my-best-friend-is-flirting-with-my-girlfriend-and-she-subtly-reciprocates.280039/ We broke up 30 minutes ago. She called me and said that she doesn’t feel appreciated and I take her for granted. She was crying and said...