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    The 3 Keys of Success with the opposite sex...

    Nice post Wyldfire. It took me a long time to realize and accept these truths. Especially the one about dating being a numbers game, and someone either being very attracted to you or not. I've recently met a few girls who gave me more compliments in two minutes, than my ex-gf gave me in...
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    Sharing 25 years of dating wisdom. Part II

    Once again, Fantastic post Unknown Don! As I get more experience in this "game", I'm learning that everything you posted is correct. Keep it up. I'm learning things from your posts that are saving me years of guesswork and pain. Even though I'm not in LTR mode right now, if I ever am again...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #4

    First of all, let me set the record straight. I am by no means quitting or chickening out. If you read my post near the end of week 3, you'll see why I'm not doing this weeks lesson, until this weekend and next week. I was a little burned out on the girl chasing, but my weekend partying...
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    Sharing 25 years of dating wisdom...

    Fantastic Post, Unknown! I wish I had learned these things a long time ago. Some of them, I've learned recently, and learned the hard way. Thanks for the great post.
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #3

    I almost hate to post this. But, the next lesson in this Boot Camp will probably take me two weeks, because I may not start it until next weekend. Here's why: I became so Don Juan last night, that it was almost unbelievable. I went out by myself. Had a stripper hit on me. She...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #3

    I'm posting a little later than usual. Havent't had as much success as the last two weeks. Kind of lost my momentum. You guys will really bust my balls when I tell about last night. But, last week 8 of my 10 convos were with girls I would date. At least 4 of them were real hotties (8s...
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    never date a woman who...

    Wow! You just described my ex-girlfriend. Do you know her? lol
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    First Date Player Style

    Question for you, Player: What do you say to a girl in the first 7-10 minutes that gets her interested enough to come home with you? Especially considering that she knows what she's in for. What do you say or do that raises her interest enough to get her to come home with you, and have...
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    this is the moment 'it' happens.....

    Thanks lc, I needed that!
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    "Professional Dater": a definition

    Glad you guys liked the post. Another quick flag: She never asked me personal questions, unless I asked her first. She never even knew anything about my interests or hobbies. That's a dead giveaway that a chick isn't really into you. Yes, I think this chick was messed up in the...
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    "Professional Dater": a definition

    Ah yes... the flags! They were very subtle. Again, keep in mind, this girl was the ultimate professional dater. She was really good. Flag #1 On our first date, when a guy asked if I was her boyfriend: she said, "no, he's just a friend." I thought she was just afraid to say I was...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #2

    I'm up to eight convos so far. Although, I almost hate to count the one last night. It was at a bar, I was kind of buzzing, but I did initiate it. I also intitiated kino for the first time, and this girl was all over me. I plan to get more than 10 this weekend. I thought this exercise...
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    What KINO is REALLY all about (Advanced)

    Excellent post Guys! I was always a nice guy, too afraid to use kino. Although I agree with a lot of Doc Love's advice this is one area I don't totally agree with him on. You need to use kino! I used to be afraid of using it even on dates. I thought I'd be more of a Challenge...
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    "Professional Dater": a definition

    Great Post RK. I wish I had read it before going out with my most recent so-called "girlfriend". She fits the description really well. But, you have to be really careful! The girl I went out with would give me hot oil massages. Kissed and made out with me for long periods of time, and...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #2

    Just got back from the bar. I know, I have to stop going to the bars to do this stuff. But, I went to celebrate how good things are going, and ended up talking to a hot chick for about 20 minutes. The other night at a bar, I talked to a hottie for about 2 hours. She looked at me. I said...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Course Description (class is now in session)

    Ironhorse, Excellent Post! This is an area I really need to work on. In the past, I never did this kind of thing, and always ended up in the friend zone. And, I'm the kind of guy girls often check out, and even sometimes approach. But, I turn on the nice guy act, and end up a lowly...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #1

    Awesome Tweeder! That's the right attitude. I agree with Don the Legend, that it was more of a positive experience than a negative. Way to inspire us, and show that not putting up with her $*it and biatchiness, is the best way to gain respect from everyone, including you and her.
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #1

    You guys need to stop worrying so much about what other people will think. So what if they think, "what's wrong with him?" If they think that, they're just ignorant and unfriendly. If some pretty girl was walking by you, and she said "hi" and smiled, would you think, "what's wrong with her?"...
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    DJ Boot Camp - Week #1

    I'm a little drunk right now, so bear with me if this is a little incoherent or mis-spelled. (I was celebrating again( lol I said another 12 "hi"s today. All high quality. I made the eye contact thing with at least half of them. All women, again. The last one was really hot. I got...