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  1. MoreThanSmooth

    Rant: The concept of a 'man-cave'.....

    I see it as fairly harmless if it's a place to rest and rid yourself of everyone else's BS. An example would be a quiet study with a decent PC or TV and your favourite DVDs/records or whatever. I think most men want a cave because they have to deal with so much crap in their life, haha. But...
  2. MoreThanSmooth

    How was this response?

    Hm...appreciate the upside but I wouldn't be so sure dude. Yeah she flirted with me a bit but p*ssing me off and telling me she "doesn't "like" me, she just likes me"...that's supposed to get me to hit on her? Bah. Anyway sorry, I don't mean to sound dismissive. I just keep telling myself I'm...
  3. MoreThanSmooth

    How was this response?

    I've known this girl for a couple of years. Lately she's been hanging out with me, flirting with me (cuddling up and stuff) although we're not dating so I haven't given the whole thing much attention. Well, she started texting me tonight asking about some guy she had a one night stand with...
  4. MoreThanSmooth

    Bjs & condoms

    If she's got cold sores you should definitely be wearing one (or not go in for it).
  5. MoreThanSmooth

    "Any girl would want you/"You're a good man."

    Bah she was flirting with me today. I think she was trying to pay me a compliment now. Either way I'm not too bothered, so much going on in life girls are on the back burner again...
  6. MoreThanSmooth

    "Any girl would want you/"You're a good man."

    Yeah...I think maybe this. She has flirted quite a bit with me physically in the past but TBH unless a girl's getting her kit off I'm just going to assume from now that words don't mean much.
  7. MoreThanSmooth

    "Any girl would want you/"You're a good man."

    If a woman says these things to you, do you read into it? I had this female friend of mine come out with "You should really feel confident, you're a handsome and really clever guy and any girl would be lucky to have you." I've also had a girl say something like "You're a really good man, a...
  8. MoreThanSmooth

    “My legs are sore”. Wut?

    No this isn’t anything rude even if the thread title makes it seem like it haha. I was on a date with a girl today and half way through she was talking about how she got drunk and hurt her legs dancing. The thing that weirded me out was she spent five minutes telling me extensively about her...
  9. MoreThanSmooth

    I’m sick of them after a few bangs

    I see a conflict within your posts Murk. You seem to enjoy the hedonism of the party lifestyle (the drugs, the drink, the casual sex) but you also seem to want something more significant ("happiness", stability, a relationship). When we first heard about Sara you were saying she was really cool...
  10. MoreThanSmooth

    Out of shape but she/they still like you?

    Feeling kinda sh*tty lately because I used to be athletic but work has destroyed my body over the last couple of years. I still have a pretty good build with the exception of my stomach, which is scarred (old surgery) and fat. Problem is, I now have a conflict between my opinion of my body and...
  11. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    Nah, she hasn't even been around him for about 2 months now, apparently. So I doubt they're hooking up. Okay, here's something I've omitted so far for the sake of privacy. She's not just his GF. She's his wife. They're married. We have quite a few mutual friends. Aside from damaging my...
  12. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    Fair play dude. I see what you're saying...but there are a lot of women a guy might want to f*ck but it's not always exactly ethical, is it? I like being able to sleep at night. Also it may sound stupid, but I don't know if I want to f*ck her. Yeah, it'd feel good...but does that outweigh the...
  13. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    Ah, you mean I should hang with more other chicks that think I'm hot? Yeah, I think you may be right. I will go to the dance night but try to keep it non-flirty. Just hope I don't end up doing anything dumb.
  14. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    Well, out of the blue she's invited me out to a kind of American Jazz evening now. I happen to like that style of dance so I'm pretty amenable to it but I also feel like I might be majorly f*cking myself here. Thoughts? I've not been flirting or anything, I've been keeping myself to myself. But...
  15. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    We hung out last night with some of our friends, just a relaxed evening. Friend boundaries were successfully maintained until the end of the evening, when she got very flirty indeed quite suddenly. I was dominating the group conversation (in a good way, I felt very confident for some reason)...
  16. MoreThanSmooth

    Lady Luck hates me

    Thanks for the replies guys, I feel a little better about this now. I don't know why it p*ssed me off so much. My ego should be stronger than that. The worst thing is "losing" to guys who are d*uches just because they were lucky enough to be convenient, not because they're better than me. In...
  17. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    It's minor as a one off but a major problem if it's recurring. If you offer no support to your woman, she's going to leave you. It's not like it's hard to take 5 mins to give a bit of reassurance. Imagine you had a sh*t day at work and your wife just said "Yeah, I know you had a bad day." and...
  18. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    In a way, though it sounds counter-intuitive, I think the bf's problem is that he's almost too rational when it comes to looking at the problems in their relationship. This would seem like a masculine trait but the way he uses it isn't. It's stereotypically masculine to analyse problems with...
  19. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    This post is a bit of a novel, but I can't really shorten it much more....bah, whatever. I know a couple who have been dating for about 7 years now. Both friends of mine, though the boyfriend hasn't seen me a few years so I'm actually closer to his girl. We have a few mutual friends too...
  20. MoreThanSmooth

    Lady Luck hates me

    Jeez what a whinepost this was. Sorry guys, I just had to vent really. I think earning the doctorate was very stressful and this was the icing on the cake. I should be happy I’m a dr, not whining over some chick. Nah, I’m just starting to see real results and improvements with my game, I...
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