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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day whatever still feeling xitty anyway Starting to feel a little bit better still not in the mood for dating other girls
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks a lot man! I’ve been yearning to read something like that! I had a tough night today, and your words were well appreciated! Cheers
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 13 of NC 8 months and 20 days since the breakup it’s all the same I fell extremely sad, and I’m feeling hopeless Cried a lot You all know… the basic stuff What really upsets me is that’s been 8 flipping months and I not actually interested in dating other chicks In a very sad and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I’m really ****ing sad/mad she was wife material family oriented Easy going I was her first boyfriend Got her when she was 21 (I was 28) we had history (I’ve met her when she was 17) Never cheated Super effing rare it was all there but I let it slip through my fingers I took it for...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Changing the subject it’s not the same vibe being single with 34 years old as it was the previous times when I was 28 and 25 i feel old I don’t have the same energy to go out and pickup chicks and I don’t know if it’s just me or it’s a Brazil kind of thing but chicks nowadays are extremely...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yeah mate, I’m well aware the OP points this out really well they use you to cushion their fall. And I knew that. my hope for this one was that she was the exception she really did looked like it after five years of relationship guess I was wrong just as anyone else she wasn’t the...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day one! and this time is for good we’ve met Had dinner I told her how I feel in order for her to know what kind of stuff having her around me was causing She said that she loves me and I’ll always be her first love but it’s over so I finally took it as a man and walked away ive heard her...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    By the way When I wrote this last piece, I was drunk as f and I needed to vent my advice remains the same NC speaking to the chick will only increase/prolong unnecessary pain
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    For you to see how life play tricks on you! When you think you’ve got all figured out! BAM! life show up a new and improved way to kick you in the nuts! not my proudest moment, but I think it was necessary to share. The more you know, you realize how little you actually know! And I think...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Guys I just want to share that it has been really hard for me and the blame is on me. we broke up for no reason in January. Yes January 8 months ago and instead of going nc, I’ve kept on talking to her per her demand she cried and begged that I don’t NC and now, 8 months later, guess who...
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    I don’t now how to act with my ex that keeps coming back

    Hey guys I’ll try to be concise. a month ago she dumped me I asked for us to try, but she declined so I did the right thing and walked away. she texted me one week later saying let’s talk I went she said she loved and missed me and all that stuff. And then I asked: ‘alright, wanna get...
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    How am I meant to cope at 5'4?

    Sorry bro it is not dumb dumb is someone who calls himself a master dom Juan validating stupid shlt like this my best mate is about 1,59m His nickname is fvcking dwarf is this a problem. No always with a new chick Focused on his body (got bulk) Focused on his career (senior art coordinator...
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    How am I meant to cope at 5'4?

    @Genetic Error Bro if you came here for validation, than I have to politely tell you to fvck off. Stop whining. Everyone here is pointing you in many other directions, but you are still whining, after a 5 pages long post. Im been short throughout my whole life. It certainly left some scars...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hey guys status update. I’ve spoken to several friends of mine, some of them have great experience DJing, some have great experience breaking up, and two girls. bottomline I’ve decided to reply her good morning, 12 hours after receiving the message, following the advice from these guys, plus...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    tks mate! Quick status update: she just messaged me this morning saying Gooood Mooorniiiing! I hate this kind of thing she dumps. she says she don’t want to try again Go out on the weekend And then Wake feeling sad on a Sunday morning and message me saying good morning as if nothing...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Hey guys I’m back after five years tldr dated for five years She broke up with me 01/24, last Monday I still wanna be your friend lotus. I said no She messaged me the next day 01/25 I said let’s talk We spoke in person 01/27 I’ve said let’s try again. She said no. I cried. She said I have...
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    "How could it have gone wrong??" - The Sh*t Test Everyone Fails

    Hey guys! This post still amazes me every sing effing time! And it's also amazing how this keeps getting bumped every time I am in need of it! I've been away from SoSuave for 3 years, and after 1 LTR, countless lays, and one ongoing LTR I'm shocked that this showed up in my email today. God...
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    When to dump your gf

    Hey guys... Long time no see! Well, i'd like to thank you skynnyguy... Since I've last logged in here I got single, got into a 2 years/half ltr, single again. Now I am dating once again... It was awesome for the first 2 months. I thought that this time it was it. It ain't. All of the bellow...
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    Help! Awkward situation: Job interview in my Ex's company!! What should I do?

    Worth mentioning. She is worth f*cking again! BTW: This thread is not about f*cking her. It is about getting the Job, and avoid awkwardness!
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