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    52...have baby with partner?

    @Kotaix this was wise. I said no after 6 more weeks deliberation, and she of course has ended the relationship. She is flying back to Singapore in 3 weeks. She just told me today no more lovemaking - which hit me hard. I would make love up to the last day as I love her and am attracted to her -...
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    LTR - Not sure how to handle this issue.....

    You need to meet the "gay" guy. If you dont meet him, she aint going, or she is going and you are over. OR - you go with her.
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    Love my girl to bits but glad she's gone home....

    Not the right girls. The right girl will care. I had a girlfriend once in NYC. Her sister came over from San Francisco for a weekend and a dinner was planned. I had to go to Emergency with a stomach ulcer. Girlfriend: "You could have planned this for when my sister wasn't here" - she wasnt...
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Life's hard. Love is hard. Harsh but maybe true Rick.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Fair call
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Thanks. I made it clear I definitely wouldn't adopt, but if we do try and are unsuccessful then the pressure may mount. I also made it clear that as we are both fertile (tested two weeks ago) then IVF won't have any better odds than trying naturally (<1%) - but she still says she would try IVF...
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    52...have baby with partner?

    " cvm dumpster" is a bit disrespectful mate. No, she didn't.
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Thanks. Interesting. Almost every other guy responded with "no f_n way". I do have a kid already by the way - living on the other side of the world aged 10.
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Thanks. Yes: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/52-have-baby-with-partner.276035/
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Fair warning - thanks. As a side note, I assume (apart from genetic issues for older mothers) that's then the same for every guy in every relationship - then why do guys bother having kids?
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    I agree. Despite the advice on the other thread I am still 5% open to having a baby so in a bit of limbo - i.e. not ending the relationship. Why I am 5% open? As despite some tantrums she is attractive, slim, perfect ass, intelligent, humorous, clean (easy to live with), great in bed, religious...
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Thanks for the reply but I don't agree with this. I agree with taking 100% responsibility - but also know that being 100% responsible is a "lie" as Anthony Robbins says. Believing in 100% responsibility helps you to think HOW you are responsible, but it is not literally true that everything is...
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Thanks - empathetic.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Good advice, also the advice from Bat Soup above.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Fair. The thing is, I live in a city with a total lack of attractive single babes over the age of 40 (I don't rate my chances for ladies below 40 when I am 52). The obesity rate is massive. My slim attractive lady moved from Singapore to be with me.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Answer: To keep the woman. That is my main concern - still needing to make money (probably) at age 70 when they are about to go to college. This isn't necessarily the case if I do well financially for the next five years or so. She has a mortgage free house in Singapore which can help.
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    52...have baby with partner?

    Thanks. An Asian woman 10 years younger than her will likely still want a kid. Less chance of birth defects but still not something I am really wanting (a kid). So I think ... perhaps a single Mum is OK - they have their baby need met already? Then I recall Rollo Tomassi's exhortations to avoid...
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    Thanks. " they make a big deal about something, but that's not the actual problem, it's just an opportunity to vent their frustration with the actual problem. " You sound wise. "Did you tell her no on the baby by any chance?" - You are observant that I wrote a thread on that. Thanks. I wrote...
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    Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

    I just took my live in partner (6 months live in) on a 1 week holiday around a beautiful part of Australia. The last evening was at a classy hotel at sunset overlooking the ocean (the ocean was 5 metres away). I paid for flights, rental car, all accomodation and 90% of the meals. The next day...
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    52...have baby with partner?

    How does that help?
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