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  1. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Having a "strong frame" doesn't do anything unless women already find you attractive.

    These kind of discussions are silly because you've got to think in terms of relativity. If the only women you've ever been able to get are ones and twos, but then you establish a frame and get some game and you're at threes and fours then you know what brother, you're a sexy mother****er and...
  2. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Broaching the subject of where the relationship is going

    Hello men hope you're well. I'm currently seeing a woman who is a rad chick, and we have been having a great time together, but I am a ways off from being ready for a long-term monogamous relationship so non-exclusivity is where I'm living right now. She's made little comments here and there...
  3. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Is there any hope? 37 year old and broken

    Pay close attention to the above. One of the big things you can do for yourself is to stop masturbating and stop watching porn. You desperately need all the testosterone you can get, and sexual discipline is a fantastic place to start.
  4. Whydomyeyeshurt

    She is driving me nuts. Need some advice

    This all day long, dude. From a certain point of view she is begging you to establish a strong frame.
  5. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Relationship that starts with sex on day 1

    Something to be wary of is if you hook up on the first night and she is wanting a relationship fairly quickly. You're going to have to have some pretty firm boundaries and be honest on that first date about where you're at in your dating life.
  6. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Behind in life (Zeroed Out)

    I'm divorced with two children and I'm 45. I rent a room from close friends. My income is also not where I would like it to be right now. Oh, and I drive a 2000 Honda. And yet... I have never felt like such a powerful man in all of my life. My suggestions: Look around in your current...
  7. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Are women with kids worth fvcking?

    Yes this all the way. Maintain frame with the raramount rule that you are not a cuck who's going to raise her children. Always keep in mind that single moms are often looking for a beta to help raise their kids and provide resources. You can have a relationship, yes, but with very clear hard...
  8. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Is divorcing a woman because she Became very overweight justified?

    I have to agree that divorce might be on the table. The thing you don't want to have happen is where you become sort of an orbiting caretaker of an obese person. Some dudes like thick women but if she's just let herself go then I don't see how the relationship remains complimentary. And let me...
  9. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Not sure if she's ready for me to come over just yet..

    Hey dudes. I've gone out with this woman a few times, so far just dates that are out and about and neither at our respective places. We both have roommates which can be a factor potentially in spending the night together. We're trying to make plans for tomorrow and I suggested we eat some...
  10. Whydomyeyeshurt

    The one who gutted me after my marriage ended. LONG POST.

    Hey brothers, I've been reticent to post this here because I guess it's a massive acknowledgment of what I consider to be the last major blue pill heartbreak of my life. And I know we're supposed to all be tough and strong or at least working towards that and I'm getting there but it's been a...
  11. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    I basically followed this to a tee and it was a great night. We didn't hook up but there was a lot of making out and the sexual tension is pretty high. She's entering into her 30s so she's at that phase of trying to pump the brakes a little bit I think. That's fine, we hung out, drank some beers...
  12. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    To be a "nice guy." But maybe also to try and buffer myself against rejection. I'm really trying to be aware of old blue pill and impulses.
  13. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    No nothing like that. We worked together several years ago and recently got back in touch. Like I messaged her to say hi and ask her if she wanted to get a drink.
  14. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    There was when we hung out the other night.
  15. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Second date tonight, should I be clear about my intentions?

    I suspect this is just old blue pill conditioning kicking in but I have a second date tonight with woman that I've known for a while. We got together for a drink the other night and ended up kissing but nothing else happened. We're hanging out again tonight and I'm wondering if I should be clear...
  16. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Got a rejection, but relieved

    Absolutely. And to her credit she was very blunt with me that it was a turn off. But I also wonder if I was sort of self-sabotaging.
  17. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Got a rejection, but relieved

    I am very new to the game as some of you might have gathered so far from my posts so really I'm at the learning experience stage and just being patient. So I got a phone number from this woman last week but straight away I could tell that we weren't really a great match and she had low...
  18. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Premium OLD Subscriptions Worth It?

    Do you subscribe to any of the OLD services? Worth it?
  19. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Does you OLD profile have professional photos?

    Word. Did you have a friend take some pictures of you or did you just put up some selfies?
  20. Whydomyeyeshurt

    Does you OLD profile have professional photos?

    Just wondering how many of you got professional photos done and how many of you just did your own photos and what your strategy was.