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  1. FlexpertHamilton

    I can attract women easily but cannot keep them around long term

    Recently I've realized attracting women and maintaining their interest/respect long term are not complementary, but in fact can work against each other. For instance, the more game you learn, the more it can push them away because they're so jaded from all the "fvckboys" they cannot control, and...
  2. FlexpertHamilton

    Going on a trip to Spain

    Some of you may have remembered me posting about this. I'm going to Barcelona for a week with a girl I met on IG. She's probably a legit 9, maybe even higher. If you want pics, message me. I will probably post about this after, who knows. I have a feeling it will be really interesting. I've...
  3. FlexpertHamilton

    Caffeine addiction

    I'm drinking lots of strong teas (3-5 cups of maté/matcha) in the mornings, or sometimes a few cups of cold brew coffee, then have an energy drink (Ghost or Bang) in the afternoon. I've been at this for several months, yet I sleep fine, about 8 hours every night, and don't feel stressed or...
  4. FlexpertHamilton

    Is natural gas toxic

    My sense of smell is dampened ever since I got Covid last year. A couple nights ago, I noticed a funny smell (the same smell when you turn on your heater for the first time in the winter), and didn't think much of it since I was half asleep. Next day it was much more prominent, could almost...
  5. FlexpertHamilton


    This is a topic rarely discussed, and may slightly border on black-pill. Before you read on, I'd highly suggest watching this video: I've now realized most women do low-key gaslighting by default, and it may even be unconscious. While other women may do more malicious, intentional gaslighting...
  6. FlexpertHamilton

    In a precidament

    I starting seeing a cute 21 year old Latina recently, and she's going to want exclusivity from me soon. Problem is, there's European girl I've been chatting with for months whom I met on IG, and we've tentatively had a trip to Spain planned. She's probably a legit 9 (but the Latina is probably...
  7. FlexpertHamilton

    Has anyone read Charles Bukowski?

    I'm thinking of picking up his book "Women".
  8. FlexpertHamilton

    Don't be "gamey"

    I've found considerably more success with women recently by adhering to two simple rules: a) only talking to women who show high IL early on b) not trying to "game" them into liking me more I just talk to them like anyone else. I listen to what they say. I let the conversation flow...
  9. FlexpertHamilton

    Initiating dates vs complying to dates?

    Do you judge a woman's IL based off her willingness to initiate dates/hangouts/etc on her own, or her compliance to hangout when you ask/tell her? Let's say you initiate the hangouts 9/10 times but 9/10 times she agrees and shows up. For clarity, I am not talking about initiating texts, let's...
  10. FlexpertHamilton

    Do you think women enjoy taking care of their man? Or do they prefer to be taken care of?

    In this context I mean things like, cooking, picking up the tab, planning dates, small favors, "nurturing", giving rides, etc none of which are mutually exclusive with leading. At first glance it seems like men should be taking care of the women, but on further examination it screams "provider"...
  11. FlexpertHamilton

    How to get a girl to move with you

    Has anyone been successful in convincing a girl (presumably an LTR) to get up and move to another part of the country with them? If so, what was your strategy? Here's the kicker: doing it without moving in together, ie convince them to move to the same city with you but get their own place.
  12. FlexpertHamilton

    A collection of pickup/deep-game notes

    Most of these are either directly quoted or paraphrased Patrice O'Neal, RSD instructors, RooshV forums, and Rollo. ----- OLD ----- market yourself, don't try to sell yourself *Photos* head shot full body shot out and about activity with friends/group *Messaging* don't ask questions, make...
  13. FlexpertHamilton

    Want to upgrade to something serious

    I've been seeing a girl for 2 months. I banged two girls shortly before her and two after, one of which has become something of a side chick. In addition I've also planned a trip to Spain with some blonde chick who's probably a legit 9/10. I say all this to provide context so no one claims I...
  14. FlexpertHamilton

    "Taking it slow"

    Do you interpret a woman who doesn't have sex on date 1 or date 2 to be uninterested, or is there a genuine reason some women claim to want to "take it slow" ?
  15. FlexpertHamilton

    I'm not sure if I can love anymore

    I've only ever loved one woman in my life and it was almost ten years ago. Nothing has really come close it, and each new woman I'm with means less and less to me. Some stand out, but they're exceedingly rare. Was I just lucky? "Love is kind of like when you see a fog in the morning, when you...
  16. FlexpertHamilton

    Almost got in a fight; walked away.

    Yesterday I was going for a run to the gym after work and some guy was working on his bicycle right on the sidewalk. I dodged around him as his other biker friend was doing wheelies and almost hit me. I grazed his handlebar and he cursed at me. I continued jogging and suddenly about 100 ft later...
  17. FlexpertHamilton

    Do you flake on girls you're seeing?

    I sometimes find myself not in the mood to want to be around people, usually due to tiredness or headaches or irritation or something and just wanna go to the gym and relax after work. Do you find it counter productive to flake on plates or any girl you've established something with? Not really...
  18. FlexpertHamilton

    Are women getting easier for you guys?

    Not much has changed in my life over the past few years. Regardless of how much success I have (or don't have), I always maintain that greater society/culture is the primary cause, not my own efforts. I still say that's the case. I take responsibility for everything else in my life, but success...
  19. FlexpertHamilton

    Thinking about getting my first motorcycle

    I do not have a car, and while I technically do not need one, I am going a bit stir-crazy without the freedom to go where I want when I want. Uber/lyft are ludicrously expensive now, so it's out of the question. And cars are just too expensive all around, especially now. I was thinking of...
  20. FlexpertHamilton

    Talking about yourself is not a bad way to make women into you

    I had always heard that when talking to women, you just need to ask them questions and get them talking about themselves. Well, this is quite simply bad advice. Asking people questions over and over again is boring, and that's not how conversations is supposed to work. It just ends up sounding...