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    Does anyone else find Friday nights draining?

    Take a post work nap?
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    Russian women are the best

    don't forget czech republic - those women are so generous, kind, and HUMBLE.
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    Past 7 days: report

    I don't see enough reports on here of actual "approaches" and how things escalated. I am going to change that. Do with it what you want - learn, laugh, or don't believe - you choose. Day 1: Walked into the the spot my friend and I were going to, scanned for second, spotted a blonde 9, I made...
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    Seducing / Escalating

    ^ that’s what I want I have met enough people who have the gift of gab to believe in it
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    Seducing / Escalating

    I have been reading a number of threads and the strategies guys employ. It got me thinking of how I do it and how maybe I don't have strategy after all. At a bar / club, if someone catches my eye I will either ask if they want to talk for a bit and then take their hand to lead to the side, and...
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    Its bad sign when I makeout with girl on first date and no in second?

    If she still wants a 3rd date...then she is interested. Don't overthink it. Just escalate on the 3rd.
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    What does being the "ex in the picture" look like?

    It’s a terrible feeling. I’ve never been able to shake the cycle and have gone back/ taken back since high school multiple girls. It’s bad that 1) I can’t say no and 2) after being back for a bit I realize I was idealizing and call it off or check out and realize opportunity cost. And yet...
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    When on a Date… Sit Beside Her or Sit Across from Her?

    It’s a dance. I sit across, then if something interesting comes up or I “need” to show her something I move to her side briefly, but then jump right back to my spot across. Usually do this a few times each time amping up the level of kino until I get the compliance I’m looking for. Once I was...
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    Creating Connection

    Went out to my old hunting grounds for first time in years…. I think I learned some new tricks I wasn’t quite aware of before. I saw who I wanted, and knew it was just matter of time. Locking eyes. Letting silence do the work. Twice it worked like a charm. Just looking into their eyes before...
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    Calling out all guys on here who do daygame.

    I park my beautiful butt at the same bars/ breweries during the day but no later than 10pmish, I make friends with the staff and do not shy away of why I am there. I just have fun and don’t care if I am “that guy”. In fact sometimes it’s a good thing, creating curiosity and envy in others are...
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    It was guilt and honesty and more. I stopped the affair and recognized the mistake I was making on my own. I knew sharing was selfish as it only served to relieve my own guilt. It was honesty as I knew that I could not build a life with something like this in the back, it was my desire to be...
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    This is what I fear. I recognize it. I am not sure how to deal with it. Am I to be change and become someone worthy? I do fear that this isn’t just a case of “oneitis” but like I said I know that sometimes we can’t see the forest for the trees and it may just be misguided… which is why I am...
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    Brings back memories…. Always care less and always next. Been years.
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    Hello, it has been years since I turned to the forums but I need someone who sees the forest right now. About 10 years ago, I was very much into gaming. I was 100% in person only. I mainly did bars, clubs, or street. I was at a point where I could walk into a place pick who I wanted and make...