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  1. J

    What are some passionate sex themes in romance novels?

    I'm talking stuff like, when she's out of the shower and wrapped in a towel, walking up to her and passionately kissing her then taking off the towel, you get the drift. What are some similar things?
  2. J

    Moving in with new GF? How to broach the subject

    I started dating a girl in a neighboring state recently. I had been preparing to move to this state, so as I was dating locally I thought about maybe finding someone where I want to move anyways. Well I did find a girl there, and we really hit it off. When I see her she doesn't want me to...
  3. J

    New GF likes to text a lot

    At first when we were dating neither one of us texted much. It wasn't until a couple weeks in that we started texting daily. Prior to that we'd both go 2-4 days without texting. That was when we were getting to know each other. In the weeks leading up to becoming a couple and now, we text...
  4. J

    How do I fix? My response to her friend during no contact was taken as a blow off

    Question is how to fix, not looking for comments to move on, etc. Please stay on topic. So my ex and I had an on/off again relationship. Intense (she is likely BPD and NPD, has all the signs). She usually broke no contact before, but things ended badly this time, worse than others, although...
  5. J

    Where to meet younger women?

    I've dated a few 19 year old girls and a few in their mid twenties in online dating, but the other night I noticed the VAST majority of the women that show up in search results in dating sites are 35-40+. Many of them still look good, but the attitude with some of these women is something...
  6. J

    What is the equivalent of "make-up" and glam for men?

    Women spend years perfecting their makeup, hair, clothes, etc. They spend hours putting it on, shopping for clothes, etc. even once they've perfected their stuff. So I got to thinking, what are the things WE as men can do to glam up and improve our LOOKS. Here is my list, add to it: -Get a...
  7. J

    No contact, is it OK to respond if her female friend texts me on her behalf?

    We had a really bad breakup, she messed up big, so she's unlikely to reach out directly for fear of rejection. After 2 weeks of no contact, she tried to do something in an app we shared that she knew would send me a notification and might trigger me to reach out. It indicated she still had the...
  8. J

    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    My now ex, 42 (Asian, looked 31, bat s crazy it turned out). Hard core Borderline and Narcissist, had the majority of the signs based on my past experiences. Her replacement...35 year old "virgin" (vaginal). Bat s crazy, no wonder this hot Ukranian chic had never been proposed to and all her...
  9. J

    Most relationships don't work, so what is one to do?

    When I was in my late teens and early twenties I got dates no problem but didn't know what to do with them so they never went anywhere. Eventually through some books I learned about what works in dating and what doesn't. Finding women to bed and date isn't the issue now and hasn't been for...
  10. J

    Is it me, her or both (BPD girlfriend0

    My gf of six months I suspect of having borderline personality disorder. Her behavior matches EXACTLY to that of another ex and my friends ex wife who was FORMALLY diagnosed twice with it. Even before I found that out from my friend, I had already self diagnosed an ex with BPD based on behavior...
  11. J

    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    Despite being very feminine in looks and such, her sister and friends have told her she is very argumentative and masculine energy in behavior. I've now told her that too. Now she's feminine as well, but a few months in I see what her sister meant. She is argumentative. She doesn't like being...
  12. J

    How to apply silence and distance in a relationship

    Especially temporarily long distance. Our first 3.5 months was local, now she is out of state on and off for 3 months for work. We have a plan to see each other regularly. We were seeing each other once a week up until month 2, at which point it creeped up to 3-4 days a week around each holiday...
  13. J

    Am *I* too argumentative with her?

    She follows my boundaries to a T, even calls me to ask about anything unclear or if xyz is OK, and when I tell her no that's dangerous I don't want you to do it, she accepts it and says OK. She asks me if I'm ok with her doing this or that now in general if there is anything unclear, no argument...
  14. J

    The myth of the alpha male...backed up by studies

    And it makes sense...I've seen HOT women with beta looking guys (especially Asian culture). The article discusses studies that indicate yes, women like men who compete and dominate over other men, but they don't like aggressive and domineering behavior in a relationship. On the same note, they...
  15. J

    At what point does it make SENSE to get married?

    I could see it would absolutely be worth it if she was very wealthy and there was no prenup for example. I've heard women say oh why don't you get married, and I ask them, what's in it for me? They respond with "love" and I'm like, I can get that without the contract. Ironically the last woman...
  16. J

    Was this a test to see if I give in?

    You know that women test for strength, we men test for compliance. I got compliance from her, she got strength from me. So we have established boundaries which she is following, such as no hanging out with other men even in a group setting such as networking events, etc. Once in a while she...
  17. J

    Cancelling date....

    My gf and I just spent a lot of time together on a trip. She's been even more communicative since we got back, (texts and calls daily, sometimes calls twice a day). We don't live together at this time. She wasn't feeling well the other day so I went to check on her and help her feel better. We...
  18. J

    Boundaries, male friends, and reality

    I watched a couple conflicting videos today that made me think about some things I've seen with friends and experienced myself vs guru advice. Boundaries are a masculine thing IMO. DariusM for example says that the beta males who let their girls go hang out with other guys or what not are A...
  19. J

    Was this a test or is she about the chase and the ups and downs?

    About three months together, love each other. We recently took a trip together and we got in a fight over the same thing almost every day. I kept trying to leave and fly back, and each time she would jump on me and try to stop me from leaving. She'd cry, she'd block the door, she'd wrestle me...
  20. J

    My GF wants to arrange a threesome FOR me...

    New relationship after a recent breakup with a different girl. The girl is hot, put together, well-off, etc. Long story short, laying in bed, she asked me my sexual fantasy. I told her. I asked her why she asked, she said to make sure she pleases me. Next morning after we wake up she said she is...
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