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    Splitting the bill on the first date

    I met a cute Chinese girl off OKC a while back. On the first date, I picked the venues -- all casual sports bars -- and picked up the tab. We ate buffalo wings and mozzarella sticks for dinner. We had a great time and I ended up banging her all night, including anal. Our next date, she picked a...
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    Splitting the bill on the first date

    You're the man. You lead, and you pay. It's that simple. You split the bill in 1 of 2 scenarios: 1. She offers to split the bill. 2. She's chosen a very expensive venue -- which, if you are leading, should never happen. Pick a casual but upscale bar or lounge for a 1st date. Never a...
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    Cancelling date....

    This mentality and approach will cost you this relationship, if you’re trying to maintain it. Alienating needy women in order to “keep them attracted” drives them into the arms of your replacement. Just communicate with her clearly that you’d like a little guy time and a little space. Don’t...
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    Healthy Foods on budget

    Cabbage and onions. Incredibly healthy and cost-effective. Cabbage especially is one of the most nutrient-dense vegetables you can eat, makes your morning sh!t quick, easy and complete, is half the price per lb than broccoli or cauliflower while delivering similar benefits (cruciferous vegetable...
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    Healthy Foods on budget

    I just verified this. Given that I love soup and chili, I think this finally justifies the purchase.
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    Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

    You’ve posted pretty toxic, disturbing videos about short men before, concluded that’s it’s OVER for shortcels or something like that — how tall are you?
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    Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

    95% of what MatureDJ posts is a video he found while scouring incel websites, presented out of context to make women appear cruel and/or attracting them a hopeless endeavor, summarized with "it's OVER for [xyz]cels!" A quick Google search of the video he's posted provides the necessary context...
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    Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

    She's a "Tik tokker" so it's her job (?) to film herself, photograph herself, promote herself etc. This didn't look staged. Anyone who films themselves exercising for social media is too stupid to script a pretty genuine reaction like that, on his and her part. They would have performed a much...
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    Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

    That's standard operating procedure here. Good on you for owning up to it. Lots of guys here have too much contempt for women to ever admit that.
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    Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

    Looks like he was a legit creep. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10154177/Woman-confronts-man-gym-whod-harassing-months.html 10 seconds on Google was all it took to confirm that this isn't an example of "Gympuacel."
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    Has anyone been rejected as brutally as this?

    1. Anyone who films themselves working out is a fvcking loser. No offense. 2. Dude definitely leaned pretty far into her personal space, clearly mid-set. If a dude got in my face like that to ask me if I was done with a weight while I’m in the middle of a set, my reaction would be “yo, dude...
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    I Decided to Visit an Escort

    I can’t image banging a gross $10 hooker is a more erotic experience than beating off to a sexy young pornstar or a fantasy.
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    Quick way to feel confident and masculine

    Exactly like this scene. Overtly confrontational with a homoerotic undertone. Why a straight man would be ogling another man's body must be a California thing.
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    I Decided to Visit an Escort

    Every human interaction is an exchange. It's an exchange of validation, of thoughts and emotions, of opinions, of time, of power, of deeds, of resources or status, or of currency. Spending money on dates and spending money on hookers are both exchanges, yes. But this is like equating spending...
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    struggling with water

    Coffee has proven health benefits. It's the #1 source of antioxidants in the Western diet and it can prevent degenerative brain diseases like Alzheimer's. It helps with regularity, keeping your colon clean. Unless you're sensitive to caffeine, there's no reason to quit it. I can't really imagine...
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    Quick way to feel confident and masculine

    Making a lot of money. Assertively and successfully negotiating a business transaction. Replacing a flat tire. Lifting weights and being swole. Wearing nice, fashionable clothing that flatters your body. Drinking whiskey. Yankees winning the World Series. Eye contact with women until they...
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    I Decided to Visit an Escort

    Doesn't sound weird at all.
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    I Decided to Visit an Escort

    That's kind of the thing with banging hookers. They're hookers. No man in history has ever rubbed one out himself, then in post-nut clarity, thought to himself "man, I should have just spent hundreds of dollars to bang a hooker instead."
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    Sudden Urge to Look at Old Flame's IG page

    All human beings crave connection and attachment to others. It starts with our primary caregivers, then extends to our lovers. This is why our parenting forms out attachment styles, which becomes the template for our romantic relationships. We all want connection, and we all feel we must restore...
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    Field Report: Fat Brazilian Redhead

    Here again we must make the distinction between "nice guys" and good guys. "Nice guys" are weak, and thus seek the approval of others in order to feel worthy and accepted. Good guys approach life from the position of strength to make the choice they want to make, and do the right thing because...
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