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    Where are some fun places I could go for my birthday next month?

    That's the problem, nobody is lol.
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    Where are some fun places I could go for my birthday next month?

    Not sure if this is the right place to put this, but as some of you may know from my Valentine's Day thread, I'm recently single. I'll be turning 28 at the end of next month and I currently live in Delaware where the nightlife is...well...it doesn't exist. So since the pandemic lightened up I...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    Well that would be something to consider a few months out, if at all. I have her blocked on everything because last time I didn't block her phone and she blew me up begging me to talk to her and to come back. I think I mentioned this on this thread before and people were telling me to not even...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    Thanks man. Yep, said she does it because she has a high sex drive but wants to keep her body count low.
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    Now, my girlfriend, some of her "party friends", and her sister somewhat regularly use coke when they go out...so that's what her sister wants to do tonight for her birthday. Later on in the evening my girl is making calls, coordinating things with everybody except me as I just sit there and...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    2 parts cus character limit... Alright guys, I know it's been a little but I'm here to provide you guys the opportunity to get your "I told you so's" in. If you want the short version: I took her back and stayed with her another 2 weeks before breaking it off for good last night following yet...
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    Mind if I ask how old you are?

    Mind if I ask how old you are?
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    If I'm being real with you guys, as I'm typing this I'm tearing up. I woke up to about 86 missed calls. I also woke up to about 36 texts/audio messages/video clips of her apologizing, sobbing, begging for this to not be the end of us...saying she's willing to cut off all of her friends and bad...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    I thought about what you guys and some of my other friends have said about the situation, I'll start off by saying I didn't drive to visit her. What I did was record an audio message. A lot of you will probably laugh at that but I decided on this because she can't argue, she can't interrupt...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    Can I ask why it matters what my "strongest" move is if I don't care about what she says/thinks/does after this? That won't be a problem.
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    I understand that and I agree. I thought about everything long and hard this morning, considering just calling her, saying "hey we're done", then hanging up and deleting her socials. But like I said, maybe I'm doing it for me. I advocated for the face-to-face thing so I think I should be...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    No, but I really did think about what everybody said about dropping her over a phone call. So maybe I am doing it for me, because I don't want to drop to the same level as this woman who breaks up over text.
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    Jesus Christ why is this such a bad idea? If you were going to get broken up with wouldn't you rather see the person, have the opportunity to talk to the person, instead of a phone call or a text message? I'm younger than most of you on here but has that died somewhere along the line here?
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    I disagree. I don't think I have to be a piece of s*** because she's a piece of s***. You're welcome to your opinion and I appreciate you sharing it, but I don't see myself going with that approach.
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    This isn't me wanting to talk it out. This is me having maturity to make this decision to her face - no ambiguity, no childish games, no ghosting.
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    If I'm being honest with myself, and you all as a whole, my current plan is to drive up to her and break up tomorrow or Wednesday before she goes on her vacation. I thought about how everything panned out a lot today, and I think what bothers me beyond the fact that she struck me is everything...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    I'm not trying to justify her behavior by any means but I'm just curious, if you had a woman that can promise you wealth and financial success, does that factor in at all? Not being her boy toy that she can pay for like a sugar momma, but if she can put you in a position to make you money and...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    I appreciate your help man, truly. I haven't gone no-contact with her yet because I don't think I really care. Part of me is looking for something redeeming, wondering what I would need from her in order for us to be "good", but I don't know if such a thing exists. Things like the amazing...
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    Valentine's Day: Am I the *******?

    Well I wanted to follow up on this, but I'll quote you directly to show you how this unfolded. The weekend I made my stand and the weekend after were amazing, even Friday night with her was fantastic. She told me that she was so angry with me but was also so turned on by how I shut her down and...
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