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    Movie: The Northman

    I was anticipating this movie due to all the reviews on the internet but when I finally watched it, I was really underwhelmed. There was nothing new in it.
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    She was lying about a dude, hard next?

    I understand demoting her to just a plate. But I don't see how she's trustworthy enough to be promoted back up like ever.... She does not have the qualities to be able long term partner. Just a smash.
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    Working with women

    I can relate a bit here and I'm glad I found the redpill a while back. My dad died recently so dealing with family means dealing with women(my mum and my sis) and its just crazy how they want me to be responsible for everything without giving me any authority (cos I'm the youngest). My boss at...
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    Wanna spin plates,but keep meeting women who push for exclusivity. How to deal with it

    What do you think of FreshNFit? One of their 'demands' is for the your girl to get off social media, cut contact with their ex, no male friends..etc I'm torn between communicating those demands overtly on one hand, and on the other, I'm wondering whether I should just observe how they act in...
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    In case you are wondering...this is what most women desperately want from guys and very few give it to them...

    my biggest fear is that after all her moaning of wanting to be used, she then regrets it the next day and two cops show up on your door. im just not brave enough nor willing to sacrifice everything i've worked for just to play out certain fantasies(which I definitely will enjoy).
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    Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

    You and me, we’re pretty similar: Same age range, never married and no kids. I can only thank God for making me listen to my guts in my previous relationships and break em off without ever making it to the marriage stage. No doubt, my blue-pill ass would have been taken to the cleaners and broke...
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    Your woman can cheat and still love and respect you?

    Can you expand on this? My opinion of modern women is already so low that I don’t think they feel crappy about it. Most likely bragging to their 304 friends and planning the next threesome again. While withholding sex from her long term bf.
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    The pain in the a$$ of dealing wtih 25+ women

    Yea, can’t put my finger on it but women whose been on the CC are quite confident and are generally more masculine. Sure, there are exceptions but it’s better to talk about the probable than the possible. I use that as a yardstick when it comes to LTR. Although, for flings, I fvck them all.
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    Do you find it pointless to explain the whole red pill and sexual market theory to other people?

    Especially when you are the only unmarried guy dating around, while the rest of your mates are married with kids in school, the last thing they want is to hear about redpill stuff from me.
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    Do you find it pointless to explain the whole red pill and sexual market theory to other people?

    Yea, I get triggered when reading Reddit posts that endorse wh0rish behavior but it’s not worth it to share your opinions there. Either do it here or go on 4chan where there’s not much censorship and some of them are redpill aware. (It’s kinda racist place though)
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    This was me when I was bluepilled. Totally felt helpless and even got flu symptoms because I didn’t sleep much and my heart was racing. It was the first time I was this invested in a girl and the breakup was just unfathomable. It gets easier if you cut all contact with her, keep yourself busy...
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    How to make a girl who doesn't like bjs blow me

    This is it. There’s only one girl who refuse to give me bjs even though we’ve slept together. Turns out, she liked me but not enough to wanna put my **** inside her mouth. No genuine burning desire.
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    Former Miss USA Cheslie Kryst Dies at 30

    I wish I could understand but an average joe like would never be able to. Someone who is 30, who has more than I do, and could have everything chose a permanent solution.
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    What I've come to realize after dumping my LTR

    this really hits home. in the past i've made the mistake of agreeing to a committed relationship without telling her my expectations and boundaries beforehand.
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    Dealing with a woman who is hard headed in a relationship

    i was in this situation with one of my exes a long time back and it's simple, really. I was trying to complicate my life by accepting her being bossy and masculine. I just decided that enough was enough and ended it. She apologized and begged that we gave it another shot but why try to change a...
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    Women flaking ratio going up

    i think i flaked on more girls than being flaked on. I flake usually because I'm so accustomed to setting up dates after chatting for a bit on OLD. The day before the actual meetup, I would look through the girl's pictures again and realize, **** it, not worth the effort especially when she has...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yea, it sucks man. Even though you know what needs to be done and this feeling is only temporary, for some reason, your body didn’t seem to get the memo, putting you through this roller coaster of emotions. Hang in there and take care.
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    How much affection do you show after sex ?

    I have never done this. Do you get better results by doing this in terms of establishing frame and value? I always lie for a bit with her head on my chest after peeing.
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    Single mom grabs beta male

    Ghosting is now part of my toolset because: 1) most girls can’t take the hint and will keep pestering you even after telling them I’m not interested. It’s just way easier instead of going back and forth and having to answer their qns. also, since I’m not effing them at that point, I don’t see...
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    I am about to lose it with being used.

    used to be a meal ticket plenty of times in the past during first dates. I would be arranging a coffee date with the girl but once we meet, she’d be telling me that she’s hungry and I’d succumb to it and even asked her where she would like to eat! Happens more than I’d like to admit. I never...