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    Plate didn’t want to meet because i didn’t reply back in time

    But you're assuming the lady still has high interest as ladies can shift their emotions from high interest to medium to low very quickly. The bottom line is, if the interest was rock high she would have forgave the late reply and met the OP anyways. Yes the lady slept with the OP once before...
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    Plate didn’t want to meet because i didn’t reply back in time

    Catsmeow, also some hot ladies look for an excuse to dismiss you as justification to cancel or flake on the date. Her logic is "I wanted to date him but he didn't respond to my text. Nevermind". The OP hasn't been the clearest in explaining the situation in this thread so its likely a...
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    Plate didn’t want to meet because i didn’t reply back in time

    Not sure I agree. Dazzlenuts missed out on poon so obviously there was something wrong on his side. The lady is just confirming, you don't expect her to dress, leave her house and commute to see some stranger without reassurance he will turn up. Dazzlenuts, you should have messaged her...
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    How to tell a girl you don't want to be exclusive

    It seems like you're doing most things right, point 3 - you can use the separation from your wife as an excuse to not pursue anything serious. "You know I recently separated from my wife so I am not ready for a serious relationship yet" "I am going through a divorce so I won't be emotionally...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    I never said anything about making her fall in love via text or online - stop making things up please. I am saying texting can facilitate a meet up, especially if you can trigger her emotions. This is a good tool. Then why is your post after my last edit time stamp :) I never said texting...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    Not true. The time stamp is still there :) BDDazza: Last edited: Today at 6:38 PM thelambofdeth: Today at 6:39 PM As I said, you can do both. Texting is a valuable skill, in the old days of craigslist men use to seduce women without a profile picture. Women are emotional and its possible...
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    “I Want a Boyfriend”

    Hi Nick, this is a similar question that I answered for TonyJ78. This is the link Anyways its a normal progression of relationships, a FWB will only put up with being #2 or #3 for so long. If she becomes too attached she will want exclusivity. Who doesn't want to be #1? If exclusivity isn't...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    Why do you keep saying "how". I already explained how so you obviously didn't even read my message. If you bothered to read my message. I said he can use his real picture with more serious dating sites like paid sites as the women are more likely to forgive his shortcomings as they are settling...
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    How to tell a girl you don't want to be exclusive

    Hi Tony, At some point al FWB will ask for exclusivity if she becomes too attached, if she doesn't become attached she will usually drift to another guy and you'll get ghosted. All we can do is prolong the time until the ghosting comes. Try to express your disinterest in a relationship with...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    Nothing stopping the OP from doing both. Even from a social hobby the OP still needs text game to maintain the conversation and setup dates - OLD can help with his text game. Don't use bad pictures as an excuse, obviously your success will be lower but you can still have some success. Select...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    If the OP approaches women in real life the rejection is going to be worst than an online rejection. The idea of OLD is to get him talking to women and to build up his confidence slowly. The OP can use pictures of somebody else to get pass the verification. Once his account is active his goal...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    Have you tried online dating. Register to all the free OLD apps, Bumble, Tinder, Hinge etc. Use those dating apps as a method to improve your communication with women. Don't worry if the women are not hot, just talk with them and try to convert them to SMS or WhatsApp. At first you'll find it...
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    Is it worth pursuing neutral women?

    Hi, There is a fine line between a women who is uninterested and natural, so be careful which category she falls into. I am presuming you are cold approaching because some women will give you their number or Instagram contacts just to get rid off you, as many ladies too feeble to tell you...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    This is good advice, many people won't admit to sleeping unattractive or below average women, so its refreshing that this advice is given especially when the OP is such a dire position. It's important the OP isn't looking for the "perfect" women to fall in love with or lose his virginity to...
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    21 year old virgin. Am I doing something wrong?

    Stop lying to yourself, if it was by choice you wouldn't have posted. This isn't true, if your penis was "average" you wouldn't be insecure as average by definition is normal. You have a confidence issue, in your post you put yourself down a few times. Your weight, height, and penis size...
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    Wanna spin plates,but keep meeting women who push for exclusivity. How to deal with it

    Hi Gamisch There is a universal truth in what you said, at some point in a courtship the women will always push for an exclusive relationship. This is actually a good thing as it validates that you are a good prospect, potential provider and her attraction towards you is high. Also it qualifies...
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    Should I keep pursuing or cut her off?

    The lady was interested in you initially, hence why she went on the first date, I think your mistake was not securing the second date sooner. After 2 weeks she probably thought you was wasting her time and moved onto another prospect. In dating speed is important! Her interest level is low...
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    Skillfully turning a boring convo with a woman towards a sexual direction

    Hi Seb Thanks for the update. Your reply is a bit contradictory. You said she wasn't moving fast enough physically but still dated, but then you said you are past hooking up. This women didn't want to hook up, hence why she was moving slow physically. Also you said in a previous post that she...
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    Girl with high attraction. How to proceed?

    It depends on the situation and the context. I've had success contacting women on the same day and subsequent days. Every women and scenario is different so I don't follow endless rules. A woman isn't going to care that you waited 3 days. She is not going to say "Tony I was going to open my...
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    Girl with high attraction. How to proceed?

    There is no standard, the DJ Boot Camp was written over 20 years ago, things in life move on. Back then we all had Nokia brick phones and no broadband. Follow the general guidelines but we have to use our own initiative and adapt it for the situation and for 2022.
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