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  1. samspade

    Did I do good or mess up?

    There's no way for me to know, that's just a guess based on your report. Honestly I think @guru1000 gave the best, and most succinct advice. Has she responded was my question...if not, just put the phone down for a few days. You're analyzing and hamstering, it's an easy trap to fall into.
  2. samspade

    What is going on here?

    You buried the lede and left out the ending.
  3. samspade

    It was nice meeting you text right after date?

    Sounds very illegal...
  4. samspade

    Boycott Gillette

    A four-to-one thumbs down to thumbs up ratio, in the hundreds of thousands.
  5. samspade

    Did I do good or mess up?

    That's my opinion. As a rule of thumb, less is more. You won't fix it with another text explaining yourself again. That would work with a man, but women have a perception gap. Men hear a logical explanation, women just see a man equivocating and interpret that as uncertainty. Don't beat...
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    Boycott Gillette

    I saw that and laughed and thought he was joking. Forgot it wasn't sosuave. Someone else did say "My wife's boyfriend loves this" which was pretty funny.
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    "The best way for the average man to get women is lie your ass off"...

    Did you forget your Game 101 lessons? Deflect, make jokes, but don't get bogged down in this kind of crap, and don't lie earnestly. When she asks what you do, you can say "I'm an ER surgeon at the Mayo Clinic, in fact I'm on call right now" with a shyt eating grin on your face, for instance...
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    Boycott Gillette

    It's The Best Shame A Man Can Get.™
  9. samspade

    Boycott Gillette

    You weren't persuaded because it was poorly executed, shopworn drivel. Not a single scene in that ad looked like anything other than a Madison Avenue production with a lame agenda. And it was clearly aiming for "shaming" men rather than encouraging men simply to be better. And I think most...
  10. samspade

    Did I do good or mess up?

    What exactly is the problem you're posting about then, if her interest is so high? Sounds like you've got it all figured out.
  11. samspade

    Did I do good or mess up?

    Showing a willingness to walk away? You're playing the wrong cards, bro. What you're referencing is a mindset for when things go south, she disrespects you, etc. This is you trying to set a date. And don't send her a follow up to a follow up. You've already vacillated. And yeah like @billtx49...
  12. samspade

    Meeting with engaged ex

    The end game is one of you will eventually decide to stop. Or, the fiance will find out which could end it. (Or not.) I think it's better to quit while ahead, not that I've always been that smart in practice.
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    Did I do good or mess up?

    ^This should be her describing you, to her friends, more or less. Then to get her to stop playing hard to get every other time, I also texted her minutes after inviting her out this weekend that it's not a problem if she can't come, I would make other plans. English is her second language but I...
  14. samspade

    Protests in France

    It'll all be covered at the next meeting in my basement. My mom's serving rice krispie treats.
  15. samspade

    Crushing defeat

    I've always liked and admired them. I don't always root for the Pats, but I never got the hate, unless you're a Jets/Bills/Fins die hard, or of some other big rival. I think it's really cool that they've been doing great for so long, and with Brady at 42 or whatever.
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    Protests in France

    They will as long as their faith is behind the system. A coup can happen anywhere with the right ingredients, especially if the leader has lost the military. (Dear DHS: I'm not organizing a coup.)
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    Married. How many guys have a side dish ?

    Wow, when you start lying to your goomar because you're spending time with your wife...that's when it becomes a real house of mirrors.
  18. samspade

    Went to a meetup, asked a lady out, interesting response

    I'm in Spain. Right now I'm doing the "get out and meet as many people as possible" stage, with a little Tinder in my spare time. Am definitely trying to get that 1st local, lol. It's a new puzzle to solve. As an example of saying yes, a girl I met at a language exchange, not really my type at...
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    Tinder..

    Can't say that I've tried the tinder boys.
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    Married. How many guys have a side dish ?

    I was married for three years but never did. I'm no good at covering my tracks and keeping track of stories, if that makes sense.
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