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  1. Black Widow Void

    Introverts vs. Extroverts. Which do you prefer dating?

    I think that there's some truth to the old saying.. "opposites attract." . I'm an extrovert and am attracted to introverts. As a general rule, I find them to be more feminine.
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    Time to debunk "The Wall", the biggest cope among the manosphere

    I'm 57, though my bio says 60. Post 40 women that are a B cup can still look perky. And if they exercise, the rest can remain adequate too. Menopause does kill off attraction, no doubt, but you can still find some exceptions to the rule. Blanketed statements are never a good idea. As to...
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    Time to debunk "The Wall", the biggest cope among the manosphere

    Never thought that I'd say this, but I recently watched a later episode of LITB and looked at June Cleaver in a different light.
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    How susceptible to clickbait are you

    This burns me up. I always attempt to read any and all sides of an issue. If it's yet confirmed and the word "alleged" is omitted in their claims, I read no further.
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    Sexy music when you play to her back at yours..

    Her calibrating to us seems to be the group-think around here, but you can’t make her wet by demand. Too many members here need to drop the group-think mentality and actually apply first hand experience.
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    Tell us about one of your best, most fun, interesting, weird, wild or legendary dates...

    File this under "legendary dates." I had a Friday night date set up, but the day before, I was bitten by a copperhead. I was in the hospital for 2 1/2 days (my left leg was majorly swollen). My date came by the hospital to visit that Friday. We ended up doing the deed (with my swollen leg...
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    Sadness knocked my door

    Things like this are going to happen. Sorry to read that it's been one of those days. I used to have them. The older you get, the less it will occur. Here's how I dealt with things back in the day. One day, I just decided to look at my father in a different way. I began to look at him as...
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    Sexy music when you play to her back at yours..

    I could see Portishead providing some good results. I have different playlist set up - depending on the type of gal I might have over. CD Players didn't become a household product until my mid 20's. Turning an LP over could ruin the lead-up moment and so, I used to always be sure to have a...
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    Ex communicating with a family member of mine?

    anunimuus magi As you are discovering... while mothers can be nurturing and caring, some mother's can also have behavior that is the complete opposite. I'll add to the stories shared: My mother kept hinting at wanting to become a grandmother (I suspect she wanted a do-over because she wasn't...
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    Ex communicating with a family member of mine?

    This leaves me puzzled. From what you've written, it sounds like you aren't in contact with the ex. You also mentioned that your mother isn't aware that you know of the contact between these two. How did you become privy to this information? ... and be honest.
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    Seeing a woman who lives in your street...

    Personally, I'd advise to keep things at arm's length. If she's a renter, then the month before she moves out is okay, I guess.
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    Ex communicating with a family member of mine?

    Show your mother where the "block" option is. Your mother's loyalty belongs to you, not your ex.
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    Why do women go back to an ex who beat them?

    If you do a first posting search on half the male forum members here, you'll find something similar: A good majority wanted to get back together with a girlfriend that treated them badly, or they want another dating chance with someone that treated them badly. Speaking of "daddy issues"...
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    Reading through some of my posts and wow I was in a bad mood yikes.

    You're more ahead of the game than most. We've all put our mouth in motion before putting our brain in gear. The smart ones will realize their f*ck ups (and I've sure had my share as well).
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    How to proceed with a girl that has been dumped?

    I haven't eaten cereal in a long time (not sure if it's done today... but) Back when I was a kid, there would be a prize in a cereal box. It was never at the top. You either had to wait until you were usually halfway through the box ... or reach down into the full box and make a mess in order...
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    Religion and blue pill

    There's only one thing worse than a unruly kid ... and that's an unruly adult. Fill in the blank with that which you expect a reward or that which you fear and there ya go... less disorder in this world. You better watch out You better not cry Better not pout I'm telling you why ______ is...
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    Gotta Fix This

    Personally, I'm glad to see certain postings resurrected. Within this particular posting, Desdinova seems rather dependent and eager for answers (not a put down, we've all been there) . I'd rather read something slightly humbling than a bunch of swagger...
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    Men who want commitment from women

    Ever heard of applying balanced objectivity?
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    Smoking & City Pollution Causes Lung Problems more than Covid

    I always enjoy the second-hand smoking debate. This is typically instigated by those that own automobiles or use some form of transportation; which emits Far more dangerous carcinogens than A mere cigarette. Do I own an automobile? Actually I own two. And I also smoke two packs a day. The...
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    What Zodiac signs have you dated/your opinion on them

    Gemini's can be the most alluring, but (based on my experiences) should be avoided. For anything above a one-nighter, Virgo's are my favorite. I don't seem to instantly attract this sign vary much (I'm a double Sadg) ... but on my experience, they seem the most low maintenance. Scorpio's are...