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    Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

    I still can’t for the life of me understand how guys still believe in “text game” and go on dates in the year 2021, especially women from Tinder. I find nothing more emasculating than going on a date with woman whether it be in a park, coffee shop, or bar knowing that I just want to have sex...
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    Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

    I don't condone paying for sex because sex is natural and you are just making another man rich (the pimp)...but if I had to choose between: 1. Going a date, being the jester/entertainer, pick up the tab, and give her the power to decide whether or not we have sex or 2. Pay for the sex...
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    Is my text game that bad...?

    Well the problem is nobody dates anymore, everybody flakes. The pretty boys or "high value" guys flake on the majority of women and women as a whole flake on the majority of guys. When I was on the circus show called dating apps (Hinge, Bumble, Tinder) I always stacked 3 dates minimum at the...
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    OLD feels like a waste

    You met your ex-wife 21 years ago during a time where social media and OLD were not prevalent. You then started using them again when you were 46. Correct me if I'm wrong but the age range of women that you would typically match with would be mid to late 30s or early 40s. I don't speak for...
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    Where are the limits for you at improving oneself?

    There's a difference between improving yourself for female validation and improving yourself for your own benefit. Undergoing risky surgery to get a bigger penis and increase your height is just for pleasing women and in the end, they still won't be satisfied.
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    OLD feels like a waste

    This is the problem that I have with OLD. Look at how much work is needed for a guy to get a match that will most likely just ghost/flake/unmatch him no matter what his text game is. Learning about "text game" is waste of a man's time. Texting is a soulless experience. You can't stir a girl's...
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    OLD feels like a waste

    OLD is a women's arena and men are trying to win by using "text game" which is the hardest form of getting a women's interest. You have to look at this in the eyes of a woman. You are just another profile, a picture, a text message that is easily replaceable (which is the truth). Majority of...
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    Are Dating Apps not just a waste of time?

    Im 27 living in NYC and started using Online dating last year. I slept with 20+ women from them. I had to filter out thousands of matches, go through tons of flakes and ghosting though. I deleted my apps from burnout, haven’t been on OLD for months and I do not plan on going back The main...
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    Affects of adrenaline on sexual arousal

    This is honestly the funniest video I ever seen
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    Had To Cut This Date Short

    I don't have experiences like this because I don't take women on dates anymore, especially on Tinder. If all I'm looking for is to have sex with a woman, I'm just going to tell her straight up that I'm only looking for hookups/FWBs and invite them straight over (In NYC, nearly everything is...
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    What could make a girl change her mind about you suddenly

    Here’s the problem, women are far more masculine these days due to the social media era. I mean, women are the ones pumping and dumping guys now. The reason why I say do not let any women who rejected you back into your life without any toll/punishment is because he programming himself and the...
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    Do we really think ignoring a flake works? We need a new strategy!

    When a girl flakes on me regardless of a re-schedule, I just ghost. I don’t ghost because I want to manipulate her into reaching back out to me...I do it because I simply lost interest. I cleared out my schedule to just entertain some girl for a few hours until I get the “Golden P”, she...
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    What could make a girl change her mind about you suddenly

    OP, please do not go on date with her. Rejecting you and then crawling her way back to you like nothing happen is just disrespectful. Either ghost or have her as a booty call. No dates at all!
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    Last night

    You’re better than me, man. I leave women on read who flake on me. Hell, I don’t even take women out on dates until after I slept with them.
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    If she likes you she won't do this

    Well I think that all depends on the guy. Those rules women have go out the window for a guy she truly likes or for a famous guy. That same girl that you are taking on a date, texting, saying that "she isn't like that" isn't giving a **** test to Justin Beiber or Drake. I remember there was...
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    Data that proves that OLD is a complete waste of time.

    It’s not just the swiping that’s an investment. The investment is the entire process of getting a match and converting that into sex.
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    Data that proves that OLD is a complete waste of time.

    I used to be pro dating apps but now I realize it's all a waste of time. I deleted all my apps from burnout and I won't be back on them for some time. You're basically spending hours swiping, texting, and dating average women for a 10 second orgasm. P.S. I live in NYC too
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    Tinder question

    Dating apps and texting are both female dominated platforms. You never take the women on there seriously. If you still want to spend time on them, you get them off the app as soon as possible by getting their number, not their Snap or IG, and you invite them over.
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    Tinder is 90% full of Attention Whoares

    Yeah, 90 percent are attention wh0res and the other 10 percent want a ONS with a Chad/Tyrone. I filter out all the women that want me to add them on IG/Snapchat, all the women that want to "talk on the app and get to know me", and women that want me to take them on dates. After a while, I do...
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    Is Online Dating Kicking Your Azz Right Now?

    I'm 27 years old and the age range I select for women is 18-22. With the younger women, I don't have to speak to them on the app for days and they are pretty cool with a simple wine and movie date at your place. The only issue is that those women are EXTREMELY flakey so I would never just have...
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