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  1. Jariel

    How do you game girls who can't hold a conversation?

    Some of the hottest girls I match with on dating apps are usually the most dumb and dull. Messages barely exceed a single sentence and consist of "what u upto?" or "how r u?" and basic yes/no answers to my questions. The truth is I never know how to talk to these girls on this level or how to...
  2. Jariel

    Any advice on quick thinking

    I have missed so many opportunities with gorgeous women all because I wasn't quick enough on the uptake or didn't know what to say/do in the moment. I have lost count of the times I look back at an interaction and think "If only I'd said/done that..." I'm not a nervous person, but I am more of...
  3. Jariel

    Why you Must Block her Social Media after a Breakup

    If there’s one thing more humiliating than self-pity and breakup drama, it’s when you do it publicly. Not only will you lose her respect, you’ll lose the respect of all your online friends and followers. They’ll see exactly why she needed to get away from you. A lot of couples play hurtful...
  4. Jariel

    Why No Contact is your Only Option after a Breakup

    Whether trying to get your ex back or move on, there’s are good reasons why no contact is such a highly recommended strategy. Because it works! First of all, it removes you from the source of the pain (her) and will spare you multiple rejections every time you reach out. Secondly, it gives...
  5. Jariel

    Protect your Dignity after a Breakup

    Women don’t want to play mother to a weak and over-sensitive boyfriend. Their maternal nature is reserved for their babies. It’s our role, as men, to offer protection and emotional stability. Strength, dignity and confidence are qualities epitomised by the alpha male. They act as a primal lure...
  6. Jariel

    Girl I'm dating is grieving - to comfort her or stay away?

    Just a quick question. I have to confess to having white knight tendencies in the past and they've always backfired and left me with regret. So I've started seeing a girl the past month. She's pretty awesome to be fair, we have such a laugh when we're together and things are very hot and...
  7. Jariel

    Some minor adjustments that helped me turn my game around

    Hey guys, long story short, I found myself single again 8 months ago and slowly got myself back into the dating game. It's been a rough time to be honest and I started to become a bit of a serial dater and was getting rejected over and over. It was causing me a lot of confusion. I'm a good...
  8. Jariel

    How to regain my passion for life?

    Last year I had a major kick up the a$s. I realised that I had so little to offer my girlfriend and that I needed to take control of my life. With the help of The Law of Attraction, Napoleon Hill and other motivational speakers, I got fired up for life and found a drive I've never known before...
  9. Jariel

    Your post-date behaviour that works or fails?

    For as long as I've been dating, I've been having the same experiences over and over again, and for a long time it really confused me. I've never believed in the whole "no texting before a date" rules or "you must call her only to make a date" because that's never worked for me. In my...
  10. Jariel

    More feminist propaganda

    I'm not sure if this has been posted already, but I've just seen it and I'm feeling so p!ssed off right now! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hc45-ptHMxo THIS kind of thinking and this kind or propaganda is exactly why so many of us ended up coming to this forum in the first place. We got...
  11. Jariel

    Learn the art of inaction and improve your game

    I've been on this site for many years and I've been following a lot of the advice I've learned here. Some of it has served me very well, yet some of it has caused me big problems with women. It has taken me a long time to realise just what it is that's been holding me back, but here it is...
  12. Jariel

    What do you talk about on a date?

    I've been on a number of dates lately and with some girls, the conversation flows naturally. I tend to ask about their work, their passions and interests, then pick up on points and get them to elaborate and contribute my own related conversation. I have a few regular anecdotes I tell, some...
  13. Jariel

    How do you communicate with non-talkative girls?

    I think it's fair to say that I'm a very charismatic guy and when I engage women in conversation, I can really make the chemistry happen. But a lot of the time I come across girls who are hard work and don't know how to hold a conversation. Usually, if a girl is hard to talk to and has no...
  14. Jariel

    Feeling like a b@stard...which means I'm doing right.

    Have you ever felt those twinges of guilt when you're spinning plates? You're talking and flirting with different women and letting each one feel special, and you can see their interest rising and their hopes building. You can't help feeling like a bit of a selfish as$hole at times. Or when...
  15. Jariel

    What is the best way to get over a break up? Vote now!

    I already know the answer to this question, but I think it will be helpful for everyone going through break ups to see some poll results. So many of us have had first hand experience of break ups, and have tried every possibility imaginable to try and win her back, and yet whenever we try to...
  16. Jariel

    Low carb, calorie counting or Intermittent fasting for a cut?

    What has given you the best results for cutting? I tried low carb (atkins) a few times before and got some great results for dropping bodyfat, but unfortunately it comes with a consequence and always makes me feel drained, my workouts suffer and my sex drive suffers. Calorie counting...
  17. Jariel

    Women who try to repress the qualities they want in a man

    I'm going to bet that a lot of guys here can relate to this... As we all know, most, if not all women are attracted to a man who embraces his sexuality. Most women want to be swept into an exciting fantasy, have a man who takes control, leads them out of their comfort zone...a man who is...
  18. Jariel

    Can I get another chance?

    Just looking for some objective input here. About 2 months after my break up with my ex I started seeing another girl. She was awesome. Her texts always made me smile and laugh and she took the focus off my ex. We had two dates and she was really into me. We kissed and she invited me back to...
  19. Jariel

    What do they have that most of us are lacking?

    This seems like quite an obvious question and one that I've been asking myself for years. When I look at my close friends, acquaintances, people I've grown up with, many of my Facebook contacts, it strikes me just how many of them are in happy and secure relationships. They have no big dramas...
  20. Jariel

    Negative advice could be destroying your chances with women, your mind and your life

    I'm not a religious person. I'm not a believer in fate or luck or superstition, and I don't believe that positive thinking has any magical powers. However, I have enough experience to prove that positive thinking does produce positive results and negative thinking produces negative results...