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    Stamina support?

    HIIT as an activity. Cordyceps and Maca for supplementation.
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    COVID is a lie.

    Entertaining mashup
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    Need advice/ do i tell her im not using her for sex ? Has she decided to walk ?

    We know that you think you are good at sex and think it's not the issue. It starts from your frame and you devolve from there.
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    Need advice/ do i tell her im not using her for sex ? Has she decided to walk ?

    Learn to get better at sex. If the sex were good, you wouldn't have the above problems or doubt.
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    Is it a good idea to tell a girl your dating or even a LTR that you own your house outright ?

    You can write your own note collateralized by the property. If that’s too complicated take out a heloc on it. It would just be your personal secured credit line.
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    Is it a good idea to tell a girl your dating or even a LTR that you own your house outright ?

    Someone trips on the sidewalk, looks to sue, the lawyer does an asset search and sees a property free and clear. Looks like payday! Even if it was titled in a trust, better to encumber it with debt that you control.
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    Is it a good idea to tell a girl your dating or even a LTR that you own your house outright ?

    Owning an investment property outright is risky. At the very least put a 1st position note or heloc on it.
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    Majorly tested

    That's a bit of an age spread, can you even have an intelligent conversation with her?
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    BPD EX left and blocked need help processing and moving on.

    She has low self-esteem. Thank your lucky stars, you’ve dodged a bullet. Think of what all you’ve described would be like with kids in the mix.
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    3 yrs LTR - all good but thoughts of ending

    Leave people better than you found them. The issues have more to do with you, than anything about her.
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    Rate this and help me improve .

    After your hook-up you could have continued with intermittent phone seks to keep the sexy vibe alive.
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    Sexual Talk with Girls

    A possibility is that she got quiet because she went into trance. The topic is worthy of discussion and a useful skill to develop.
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    Sexual Talk with Girls

    It’s depends on who you are talking to and calibrating yourself to speak into their ‘listening’ of you.
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    Sexual Talk with Girls

    Calibrated subcommunication/subtext/reading in-between-the-lines/innuendo is everything.
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    Covid 19 and GF Wanting to Quarantine Together Every Day

    "hey, there's something I want to talk to you about. You might get upset, defensive or angry, it's not a big deal but it's something that's really important to me and something that you can help support me with ..."
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    Covid 19 and GF Wanting to Quarantine Together Every Day

    In your mind, it's a bit of a catch-22. If you quit her before she quits you (as in your case), she clings. If you have her quit you before you quit her, (so she thinks leaving is her idea), then attraction diminishes. You could give her empathy a la Christopher Voss and get to "That's...
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    Controlling your emotions for work?

    Yeah, I use BeFocused on MacOS. Super supportive productive app based on the above principles.
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    Controlling your emotions for work?

    Controlling emotions is similar to an attempt at controlling the waves in the ocean. Emotions are meant to be felt,... E(nergy in) motion
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    My interest level dropped into negative territory

    That’s funny, sounds like drunk thoughts and humor. Both of the things you mention are tools for personal development. It’s rare, at least for me, to engage with women who aren’t into some form of consciousness expanding activity.
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    A stupid question about oil.. Don't judge me if this makes me sound like a moron

    Nothing except the ability to store. That's the issue atm, is that the world is producing more than it's current storage capacity.
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