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Murk

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50+ish plus 6 escorts

Lost my virginity at 19 (late bloomer) 19-25 only about 10 then the rest is just a blur, I don't really want to get to triple digits personally as I already feel jaded sometimes.

I'm interested to see what kind of numbers people here are walking around with (I did search for this thread and didn't see one).
 

Crissco

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I dont have an exact number...Over 100 / 120ish, 10 + years in the game...Started in 2009-2010 at 22, im 34 now...99.9% were from online dating apps or websites
 

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I dont have an exact number...Over 100 / 120ish, 10 + years in the game...Started in 2009-2010 at 22, im 34 now...99.9% were from online dating apps or websites
Didn't you get burnt out from the apps? I did 26ish in 2017 and was not happy.
 

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Didn't you get burnt out from the apps? I did 26ish in 2017 and was not happy.
Of course, but to me its easier to swipe then approach 100 woman over the course of 2 days, ive done both...Also i work from home its easier overall for me...i have gotten lays and GFs from dating apps
 

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I used to keep a list, but it hasn't been updated in years( I need to do that before I forget names). I do remember being the most proud around age 28 because I'd finally "made my age." I was close a few times before, but I'd get in a relationship and age another year without an additional new lay.

Throughout my life, It's these relationships that I've had... that keep the numbers from going higher. I don't count oral, but if I did and also counted former women that I recycled months or years later, I'm sure that it would hover around or be over the 100 count.

As to the burn-out, yes... it definitely occurs. It's like watching your favorite TV show and you've seen all the episodes. It's still fun, but it usually doesn't seem as 'new' because you can catch yourself going on auto-pilot because you already know how it'll usually play out.

In fact, I've caught myself becoming lazy. I have two former Girlfriends that will invite me over after work for drinks or a home cooked meal; which eventually leads to their bedroom. It's satisfying enough, but I look at this as just a step above self-pleasuring. I never stay over night because I don't want them getting comfortable with an over night routine. About once a month, I'll meet someone new. Sometimes things happen and sometimes it doesn't. If I didn't have two "back ups" and a lot of previous encounters, I'm pretty sure that I'd be more motivated.
 
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175 as of last week, explained in another thread but mostly online from a decade+ in the game. Huge mix of types and qualities. Have mainly relied on looks, logistics, and game.
 

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7983 all 10’s. That’s right @Pan87 step yo game up homie.

In all seriousness, I’ve lost count. Should be around 75-125. Lately I’ve been on fire though, got bitches lined up to be banged right now.
 

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Seven in nearly 50 years on this planet.
 

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I was over 100 by the age of 28. Now at age 35 it’s probably doubled but slowed down a hell of a lot. It’s gotten easier to game women but the days of me going out and picking up one night stands is pretty much over. Maybe two or three times a year. I value STRs now much more. Who knows maybe one day I’ll start to value LTRs
 

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In the range of 30-35. That's pretty good. Better than many men. I have had some extended relationships. I have two friends in my local area with triple digit notch counts. One was foolish enough to put a ring on a batshiit crazy chick. Sticking your penis in crazy always has consequences. The other guy is a stone cold player dude. Best game of anyone I've seen but he does mostly swipe app game. I've not seen him do in-person approaching in an amazing way but he's got decent game on the swipe app arranged dates.
 

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20. Started late (22) and was mostly in long term relationships (4.5 years in total, 3 girlfriends). My best within 36 hours was 3 girls. But I don't gain anything from having sex with randoms.
 

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50+ish plus 6 escorts

Lost my virginity at 19 (late bloomer) 19-25 only about 10 then the rest is just a blur, I don't really want to get to triple digits personally as I already feel jaded sometimes.
25 - 33 -> 8 years.

40ish plus 6 escorts. Lets say 42 + 6 = 48.

48 Women / 8 years.

6 women / year

So for the last 8 years, you have had sex with a new women every 2 months. That’s pretty good,
 
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