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I used 3 of those sites for years and never had any luck until I employed methods I learned in The Rational Male and from a few PUA youtube channels on my profiles: specific types of photos, profile desriptions, etc. I finally met 2 chicks from tinder and managed to fool around with one for a while (the other was a drunken turnoff). Online ODA are trash, but it's still a viable option, just not the first. They truly are a buffer.
Being bald is cancelled out by being black. It's not a net negative for black dudes. I never heard "you look like a cancer patient" said about/to a black dude.
Im still short. Granted, I lie and say 5’9 on my profile. Women assume you are shorter than you write, so it’s a disservice not to lie. (They think men lie as much as they do)
I'm 5'11.5" barefoot. I say 6'0" in my profile. Wondering if i should claim 6'1"
Why not? If you charm the girl, she won't mind. I lied and said I was 5'8". My fwb wouldn't have considered me, if I put my actual height 5'6. Since I charmed her first, then told her, she was open to it.
Same here exactly. About 6'1" with shoes on
I would. They assume guys that wrote 6’0 are all lying and in the 5’9-5’10 range
It's like throwing a hotdog down the hall.
But you're also in big metro area in the northeast right? If you went to Tulsa ok, or Topeka Kansas the results probably wouldnt be the same.
Yes, we know. Single dudes should never live in those places. Did you move yet?
Tulsa is a large metro area. How is that bad? I keep seeing post in here saying being single you gotta live in a top 20 metro area.
In fairness though, black guys can generally rock the bald look and look badass doing it. A FEW white guys I know look good bald. Most just just look older than their age with it though.
Tulsa is barely a city. Single guys need to be in metro areas with at least 5 million people. Here’s the list for US & Canada:
PHX, Dallas, Houston are not bad. Miami is very congested and expensive and you basically gotta know Spanish in SEFL and unless you work remote or have a financial sector job then most jobs are service based and crap pay. The other cities are mostly located in liberal hell holes. San Fran wouldn't be bad if California wasn't a liberal state and it wasn't so expensive. Lots of attractive Asian women there and in general are in better shape. Seeing a good looking Asian woman on OLD down here is harder than finding a golden Unicorn.
I’m trying to help you out man. If you want a good selection of single, age-appropriate girls, pick from one of those cities.
Estimated population in 2022 is 8-10 million people, ~50% female. More babes there than Tulsa or Grannyfattyville, FL where @biggoal is.
Dude has to be trolling... He never mentions if leaving is a possibility or not, and just repeats the same questions and observations over and over.
