Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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Prologue
So there was some talk about my gf having fancy dinner plans with her family this New Years and I didn't want to just invite myself to it, so I was just kind of waiting for her to tell me the details if I was invited. Fast forward to like 6pm and she tells me that she's going to a party with her friends(her friends do not like me because she I'm the evil bf to them because she shvt talks about me to them/I do the same thing with my friends about her so this is why I have left this alone). She then gets upset because I never invited her to do anything, and I said I don't celebrate New Years Eve because it is the worst holiday and that I thought she had better arrangements than just sitting at my apartment lol. Her response is passively aggressive, but she leaves me alone from this point.
The Incident
This girl calls me crying saying some guy was stalking her and kissed her and grabbed her and that she was sexually assaulted. I tell her that she needs to leave the party immediately/arrange a uber or drive and she says that's not happening and that I should just drive 40 minutes to downtown with 4 shots of whiskey in and meet her. I tell her that's not happening because I cannot drive and that if she gets an uber to my place or even her parents then I will taker her to her car the next day. She basically tells me to fvck off and hangs up. Afterwards, I fall asleep because I'm drunk and there's really nothing I can do.
The Fight
I wake up to her calling my phone like at 3am and she's crying again saying that I'm a pos for just falling asleep after she told me she was sexually assaulted and that I'm the worst boyfriend in the world. You can hear her friends in the background shvt talking me and trying to calm her down and basically she's not rationalizing with me and the only thing I could've done was just basically try and chase her down. She basically dumps me on speaker phone and proceeds to keep texting nasty text messages and that's basically going to cheat on me tonight because I deserve it, and her friends take care of her better than I ever will. My response is that if they are so great, why do they let you get "sexually assaulted" at parties and that makes her even more mad. Oh, she also tells me she is sober at this point at which Idk if she was lying or not, so that made me more upset because she could've just left the party. I basically tell her that unless she does not sleep at my apt tonight then I'm going to assume that you cheated on me tonight and that I can actually make her feel 10 times worse if she wants to keep badgering me. She doesn't know that I have side girl and that I went on a two week trip to Greece and Italy with her. I didn't tell her this because I didn't want my tires slashed, but eventually I admitted/apologized that I was a shvttty bf and that you shouldn't keep trying to date me if I'm that much of a pos. I never got a response after that, but didn't expect to wake up a free man in 2022. 2021 wasn't the worst year of my life, but it damn right could've been if I didn't have the knowledge and experience I have developed over the course of my life. I already have two dates planned next week and I've gotten off my workout/diet routine due to stress from this dating bish and my new job, so it's time to get rolling again.
So there was some talk about my gf having fancy dinner plans with her family this New Years and I didn't want to just invite myself to it, so I was just kind of waiting for her to tell me the details if I was invited. Fast forward to like 6pm and she tells me that she's going to a party with her friends(her friends do not like me because she I'm the evil bf to them because she shvt talks about me to them/I do the same thing with my friends about her so this is why I have left this alone). She then gets upset because I never invited her to do anything, and I said I don't celebrate New Years Eve because it is the worst holiday and that I thought she had better arrangements than just sitting at my apartment lol. Her response is passively aggressive, but she leaves me alone from this point.
The Incident
This girl calls me crying saying some guy was stalking her and kissed her and grabbed her and that she was sexually assaulted. I tell her that she needs to leave the party immediately/arrange a uber or drive and she says that's not happening and that I should just drive 40 minutes to downtown with 4 shots of whiskey in and meet her. I tell her that's not happening because I cannot drive and that if she gets an uber to my place or even her parents then I will taker her to her car the next day. She basically tells me to fvck off and hangs up. Afterwards, I fall asleep because I'm drunk and there's really nothing I can do.
The Fight
I wake up to her calling my phone like at 3am and she's crying again saying that I'm a pos for just falling asleep after she told me she was sexually assaulted and that I'm the worst boyfriend in the world. You can hear her friends in the background shvt talking me and trying to calm her down and basically she's not rationalizing with me and the only thing I could've done was just basically try and chase her down. She basically dumps me on speaker phone and proceeds to keep texting nasty text messages and that's basically going to cheat on me tonight because I deserve it, and her friends take care of her better than I ever will. My response is that if they are so great, why do they let you get "sexually assaulted" at parties and that makes her even more mad. Oh, she also tells me she is sober at this point at which Idk if she was lying or not, so that made me more upset because she could've just left the party. I basically tell her that unless she does not sleep at my apt tonight then I'm going to assume that you cheated on me tonight and that I can actually make her feel 10 times worse if she wants to keep badgering me. She doesn't know that I have side girl and that I went on a two week trip to Greece and Italy with her. I didn't tell her this because I didn't want my tires slashed, but eventually I admitted/apologized that I was a shvttty bf and that you shouldn't keep trying to date me if I'm that much of a pos. I never got a response after that, but didn't expect to wake up a free man in 2022. 2021 wasn't the worst year of my life, but it damn right could've been if I didn't have the knowledge and experience I have developed over the course of my life. I already have two dates planned next week and I've gotten off my workout/diet routine due to stress from this dating bish and my new job, so it's time to get rolling again.
