Women and a few betas bash a guy because he’s 30 and never had a relationship

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Reddit is a pandering cesspool to identity politics, most of them are just towing their party line anyways or theyll be shunned by their respective community, pretty much a giant echo chamber.

 

[zinc4]

What is your body composition with the 250 lbs? Body fat percentage vs muscle?

Not sure. Probably more muscle overall but i have gotten a belly though and have just taken on a much more bloated look. Will be doing a lot of cardio and weights again soon.

Funny thing is, with the bigger i have gotten, i have noticed a lot more IOS from white and black girls and less from Asian women. Asians have always been my preference as well. They can be sticklers about body weight, though

 

[bat soup]

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/p4qfp4
What can I do to counter their concerns?

Don´t tell them. It´s none of their damn business.

 

[BadBoy89]

I'm 31 and only had a handful of sexual experiences and dated a bit but never been in a relationship, and I'm a white male that is 6'4" and athletically built. I put literally 0 effort into this when I was a teenager. In my early 20s I had a really traumatic and humiliating experience that completely ruined this for me and I didn't even approach or ask a woman out until I was around 27. From 27 to 29 I had a lot of really bad experiences that were leaving me exhausted and in a place where my mental health was beginning to suffer, so I totally stopped and focused on other things.

31 years and 6’4? Brother if you look normal you should be cleaning up like crazy. 6’4? You don’t have to do anything, just show up and the girls with f your brains out.

Generally the ONLY thing that would overtake such a height is a thick full set of hair. Girls would rather take shorter and a thick full set of hair than taller and no hair.

George Clooney’s hair made 500 M. He was 32 when he started ER but he’s only 5’10. He had such great hair in his 30s that he hit paydirt. Women loved loved him because of his hair.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/p4qfp4
Reading the comments tells you just how much women take for granted their advantages in the dating market. They can never fathom that there’s tons of guys out there that aren’t bouncing from one relationship to the next like they constantly do, with minimal effort I might add.

Do you remember the game monopoly? It's a long game brother. Dating is a long game as us a man's play to acquire. Must learn game, get bank, and lifestyle which takes time.

Women get sex on easy mode but the future is a dumpster fire and cat farms. No response or value added by modern women. While solipism seemed to be a evolutionary advantage, it's going to end in disaster. You can figure out what women vote and politics simply on age range. Young and liberal in aggregate. CC is empowering. Victimhood post wall after smv craters.

A man can get pissed or he can learn to enjoy the decline. See humor in the game and world as a whole. When you acknowledge that most modern women are going to waste their lives on feminism and degree in communication, her career that is easily outsourced, and her fertility that's on a lifeline, the crash is going to be (W)horrific. Lulz! Insert cat farm.jpg

Caring is overrated. Leave feelers to women and children.

 

[zinc4]

This is actually much more common than you probably realize, there are statistics that show that many men well into their 20s are still completely sexually inexperienced, which is a trend that has been growing over the years. Not having been in a relationship by 30 is not the norm but there may be a wide range of reasons for it.

I'm 31 and only had a handful of sexual experiences and dated a bit but never been in a relationship, and I'm a white male that is 6'4" and athletically built. I put literally 0 effort into this when I was a teenager. In my early 20s I had a really traumatic and humiliating experience that completely ruined this for me and I didn't even approach or ask a woman out until I was around 27. From 27 to 29 I had a lot of really bad experiences that were leaving me exhausted and in a place where my mental health was beginning to suffer, so I totally stopped and focused on other things. The trend for me was this, I was chronically having bad experiences that were creating stress in my life to the point where it was better for me to totally walk away and focus on other things. I'm really happy with my life right now and have a ton of amazing things going for me, both in the present and in the medium to long term for the future.

Today's dating market sucks and I truly believe that there is something very wrong with many women today, not all of them but enough where it is causing issues. If a guy like me has a hard time I can only imagine what it's like for an average man.

For this man, he never should disclose information like this to a woman, as it will just lead to auto rejection and from there will encourage a continual spiral of him getting rejected, giving up, etc.

If your sexual drive/appetite is high enough as a younger man and you are tall and decent looking you will have a lot of hookups and dating experiences. The guys with the most experiences tend to be decent looking and just relentlessly seeking new experiences imo.

 

[SW15]

If your sexual drive/appetite is high enough as a younger man and you are tall and decent looking you will have a lot of hookups and dating experiences. The guys with the most experiences tend to be decent looking and just relentlessly seeking new experiences imo.

This is true. I have a 6'4" friend in my home city who did a great alpha male imitation during the early to mid 2010s. By being a tall guy and a volume approacher in bars in the 2 hours prior to closing time, he got a solid number of notches. He had a good look in that era. He's married now and playing house with a woman whose ceiling was medium term girlfriend.

31 years and 6’4? Brother if you look normal you should be cleaning up like crazy. 6’4? You don’t have to do anything, just show up and the girls with f your brains out.

The threshold for getting laid is less as a 6'4" and muscular guy. I would have thought all you had to do is show up and do nothing to screw it up since women already desire to have sex with muscular men over 6'0".

 

[zinc4]

This is true. I have a 6'4" friend in my home city who did a great alpha male imitation during the early to mid 2010s. By being a tall guy and a volume approacher in bars in the 2 hours prior to closing time, he got a solid number of notches. He had a good look in that era. He's married now and playing house with a woman whose ceiling was medium term girlfriend.



The threshold for getting laid is less as a 6'4" and muscular guy. I would have thought all you had to do is show up and do nothing to screw it up since women already desire to have sex with muscular men over 6'0".

Yep. Im 6'3 and was a very high volume approacher in my early 20s and 30s. I went through countless rejections a night before pulling at big clubs that i would frequent. Many nights empty handed ofcourse too. But over all a lot of successes. Now i just go out and tend to mind my own business more so pull a lot less as a result.

 

[Who Dares Win]

The amount of hate I get from women in their 30s for my bachelor life style is even superior to the one I got from teenage girls when I was a ugly low skilled teenage guy trying to get their attention.

Im in great shape, economically strong and well educated...women seem to believe that I own them my commitment, most of them would jail me if they could any time they find out that I have fvck buddies in their late 20s and even hit escorts but do not engage any of them at all.

I feel safer eating a pork sausage in front of a muslim extremist than nearby a woman my age after I ignore her goofy attempt to flirt.

 

[SW15]

The amount of hate I get from women in their 30s for my bachelor life style is even superior to the one I got from teenage girls when I was a ugly low skilled teenage guy trying to get their attention.

Im in great shape, economically strong and well educated...women seem to believe that I own them my commitment, most of them would jail me if they could any time they find out that I have fvck buddies in their late 20s and even hit escorts but do not engage any of them at all.

I feel safer eating a pork sausage in front of a muslim extremist than nearby a woman my age after I ignore her goofy attempt to flirt.

I don't get hate from women in their 30s about my bachelor lifestyle. At my most recent past job, I got some compliments from male co-workers about making it into my mid to late 30s without getting married or having kids.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Reddit is a pandering cesspool to identity politics, most of them are just towing their party line anyways or theyll be shunned by their respective community, pretty much a giant echo chamber.

It's by design thanks to the whole upvote/downvote system which punishes any form of dissent.

You can't have any healthy form of discussion when the angry mob will attack you for thinking differently.

I remember going on a real estate subreddit to ask for simple advice about investing in my first home.

I had people harassing and attacking me, several guys bought completely unrelated posts i made 9 months prior (about bible quotes that show Christianty is against homosexuality) to try and publically shame me as if this was twitter.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I got some compliments from male co-workers about making it into my mid to late 30s without getting married or having kids.

The funny thing is, around the time they all got married, they would have looked down on you.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Why am i not surprised this is reddit, at this point i think it's a crime to be a straight male there or something

Reddit is a nothing more than a haven for the most infantilized, hopeless, pathetic men in the history of mankind.