zekko
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Watched the season finale of Alone last night. The winner of the show was a guy called Clay. He said he had two sons and had been with his wife for 23 years, since they were both 17. He referred to her as his "right hand". I suppose some here would consider this guy some kind of loser for staying with one woman that long. And maybe he'll end up getting blindsided in another five years, who knows? But it does show that marriage can work for some people.
In fact, my observation of couples that have successfully stayed together the longest are couples like this. Couples who have been together since high school, got married early on, and have stayed together ever since. I guess they missed a lot of random hookups over the years, but I think that's part of the formula. These spouses are kind of like best friends that you find early in life, and value them accordingly. This guy was also a military vet, and a lot of those guys seem to value traditional families highly.
Alone is a show where they drop contestants off in the wilderness late in the year, and they have to live off the land, each one alone and filming themselves, for as long as they can. The one who lasts the longest wins, in this case $500,000.
In fact, my observation of couples that have successfully stayed together the longest are couples like this. Couples who have been together since high school, got married early on, and have stayed together ever since. I guess they missed a lot of random hookups over the years, but I think that's part of the formula. These spouses are kind of like best friends that you find early in life, and value them accordingly. This guy was also a military vet, and a lot of those guys seem to value traditional families highly.
Alone is a show where they drop contestants off in the wilderness late in the year, and they have to live off the land, each one alone and filming themselves, for as long as they can. The one who lasts the longest wins, in this case $500,000.