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Your ex has allowed all her holes to be used as a trash can for another man's DNA and she's had multiple orgasms by being a cvm dumpster, she's even smiling and dreaming of the next cvm dump. Imagine that when you have lovey dovey thoughts abt an ex.

Now imagine tasting another man's fresh DNA on her when you have the urge to fvck her or even the urge of kissing her - when she meets up with you.

Only a faggot would enjoy another man's DNA...

Take the punishment as a man and move on.
 

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Coming to the end of week two. Dropped three pounds sticking to diet and exercise. I'm on track. Still no sign of any other girls but it barely seems important to me at this current time. I probably need time to fix myself mentally after the breakup. Going to Dublin on Tuesday for a couple of days with my mate which should be good.

Two week recap:

1. Drop a stone in weight - On track
2. Get a teacher training place - DONE
3. Meet a girl I like - Not looking good
4. NC with ex - Since 28th
Are you fvcking?
 

elunium

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Your ex has allowed all her holes to be used as a trash can for another man's DNA and she's had multiple orgasms by being a cvm dumpster, she's even smiling and dreaming of the next cvm dump. Imagine that when you have lovey dovey thoughts abt an ex.

Now imagine tasting another man's fresh DNA on her when you have the urge to fvck her or even the urge of kissing her - when she meets up with you.

Only a faggot would enjoy another man's DNA...

Take the punishment as a man and move on.


Wtf

You sound like an incel or something.

This logic doesn't even make sense.
What's your solution?
- only fvck virgins?
- dont fvck at all ?
:rofl::rofl::rofl:


It's not about what she is doing. It's about what YOU wanna do.
OP, don't ever forget your username in this forum and you will be fine.
 
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3 gym sessions completed and stuck to diet. But being in Dublin I consumed a few pints and I haven't dropped anything since last week. This next week is gonna suck if I am to get to my goal, but I will. I'm not feeling too great. I live in my home town at the minute and I hate it. Small, dying town with not much going on. Life here never changes. It doesn't have the opportunities to. Every day is the same. I just have to get through to May when I'm gonna spend 10 weeks in Budapest, and then September I move to my new city. I know not to wish for completion of anything but to be honest I cannot wait. This town suffocates me.


Small field report – Dublin 4/12/18

Me and my friend hit a club early. My friend is very good with girls and is my best wingman, he has a girlfriend now though. We are there early and there aren't many girls around. We are in the smoking shelter and he points out two for me to approach for a warm up. I go over and ask if they are local and what time the place picks up. They answer politely but don't seem too interested in talking to me. That is where I would usually eject. I quickly decide to stay in set for a change and kept the conversation going. After a minute or two I can feel them becoming more interested in me. My friend comes over, I introduce him and switch my attention more to the better looking one. We talk about travel and places we have been. I keep eye contact and can sense that I have her hooked. I give emotional spikes and push it as far as I can without going too far. That is how my game is. I will say “risky” things and polarize. I often get complimented on this, especially by my friend whose game is very safe. He gets results being a nice guy as it fits who he is, and he is a very good looking dude. I am not, so I have to be very different. This only ever works when I am feeling good about myself and in a flow state, but when it works it works very well.

They buy us shots and we go dance for a bit and then back to the smoking shelter with my girl. She tries getting my logistics, I'm staying in a hostel, she is staying a short taxi ride away and her friend is staying at hers. She then invites us to eat with them after we leave here. We know what that means. However, is my friend really going to come back with us? He really does love his girlfriend. I don't particularly want to leave him in a foreign place on his own, especially after a few drinks.

We join our friends and at the time we left them they were getting on well as friends. We come back and her friend is acting super creepy, grinding on my friend and getting far too close. I can tell he is ready to leave. I pull him to one side and tell him it's on, would he mind coming back with them and just not doing anything with the friend. I already knew the answer. He would have done 20 minutes ago but now she is acting far too weird. Fair I guess. It was at a point where I felt I had to choose between my friend or a girl I had known maybe 90 minutes. We split off for a bit and then the girls come over and say they are off to a place down the road to eat and do we want to join. I said we would meet them there in 5 minutes. We never did.


Things I did well:

Stayed in set when I would usually leave

Vibed really well

Helped seed a pull



Things I could do better:

Find a way to make everyone a winner.
 
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I had not thought about this website in two years, but for some reason it just popped in my head.

I forgot my username and password but managed to find out through email and reset my password.

I logged on and saw this post. WOW. It was not all easy, and although I didn't keep this log up at all, it was almost the start of the rest of my life. My life pre 2015 was pretty pathetic. Even more pathetic than I even remembered until this flashback got me thinking and remembering.

When I first came across this website in 2013 I was unemployed with no real qualifications, couldn't get a job at McDonalds. I was fat, mostly terrible with girls. Depressed. Hadn't left my small town.

Now I am a college teacher. I would consider myself an athlete. I am (mostly) happy. I have traveled to over 20 countries, living in 3 different ones for a short time. I have a girlfriend (18 months) that I could not have designed better myself. A solid 9 (my previous girlfriends have been 6.5) with a 10/10 personality who is absolutely besotted with me.

The first step towards this was finding and logging on to this website. Thank you.
 

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2015 GOALS

Have high self esteem
Finish first year with a 2:1
Pass driving test
Quit masturbation
Bang 5 more girls
Think positively about situations
Get a customer service based job
Become better socially with new people
Learn Spanish
It looks like you completed all your 2015 goals in 2015. Are you still avoiding porn and masturbation? That's one of the keys to being successful at getting laid.

I had not thought about this website in two years, but for some reason it just popped in my head.

I forgot my username and password but managed to find out through email and reset my password.

I logged on and saw this post. WOW. It was not all easy, and although I didn't keep this log up at all, it was almost the start of the rest of my life. My life pre 2015 was pretty pathetic. Even more pathetic than I even remembered until this flashback got me thinking and remembering.

When I first came across this website in 2013 I was unemployed with no real qualifications, couldn't get a job at McDonalds. I was fat, mostly terrible with girls. Depressed. Hadn't left my small town.

Now I am a college teacher. I would consider myself an athlete. I am (mostly) happy. I have traveled to over 20 countries, living in 3 different ones for a short time. I have a girlfriend (18 months) that I could not have designed better myself. A solid 9 (my previous girlfriends have been 6.5) with a 10/10 personality who is absolutely besotted with me.

The first step towards this was finding and logging on to this website. Thank you.
An 18 month relationship with a "9" on your scale (probably deemed "hot" by most men) is an accomplishment. It looks like you started in 2019, meaning you haven't had to source new women during a pandemic. That makes life a bit easier.
 
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It looks like you completed all your 2015 goals in 2015. Are you still avoiding porn and masturbation? That's one of the keys to being successful at getting laid.

I very, very rarely masturbate. But it helps having a girlfriend.

An 18 month relationship with a "9" on your scale (probably deemed "hot" by most men) is an accomplishment. It looks like you started in 2019, meaning you haven't had to source new women during a pandemic. That makes life a bit easier.
Yeah, she's a head turner. Probably the best looking girl I ever have been with.

It must be incredibly hard to date during these times, borderline impossible. I know some of my friends have really struggled to meet anybody new. I am in England, where things may be opening up for the summer though, so fingers crossed.

Another separate point, having read back what I wrote at the time, I am amazed. I find my ex gross now, and to be honest totally forgot she existed. If I am being honest, I am out of her league and even was then, but due to low self esteem at the time it was like it was the opposite. Now my current girlfriend literally makes her look like a pig, yet current girlfriend treats me 100x better.

Even when times are hard, know your worth kings.
 
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